I don't date men who have had one night stands because I feel like they are cold lovers who leave a girl if the sex is not good, is this true?

Question

I like a men who are passionate and has emotions during sex I just feel like men who have one night stands don't take sex seriously and are very cold unemotional lovers in bed they also are more likely to have stds. I also feel like they are more likely to have sex with a woman and never talk to her again type of guys. I am emotional and I would not have sex with someone unless we had a emotional connection because I need to trust them before I let them touch my body I want a man who is similar.

Answer 1

OlderAndWiser | 18.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I understand that perception at your age. If a guy engaged in casual sex when he was younger but has subsequently had serious relationships, he probably has matured and would be a good potential mate.

Bellaco

8 mo
Well casual sex could be sleeping with the same girl in friends with benefits not just one night stand. I am more uncomfortable with one night stands... fuck and never care about that person again I can't relate to that
Bellaco

8 mo
Also I am talking to guy who is 35 and still wants casual sex
OlderAndWiser

8 mo
You know what he wants and that is not what you want, so it seems you are wasting your time.

Answer 2

Bellaco

Well casual sex could be sleeping with the same girl in friends with benefits not just one night stand. I am more uncomfortable with one night stands... fuck and never care about that person again I can't relate to that

Answer 3

Bellaco

Also I am talking to guy who is 35 and still wants casual sex

Answer 4

OlderAndWiser

You know what he wants and that is not what you want, so it seems you are wasting your time.

Answer 5

crmoore | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

As someone who doesn't have one night stands, I fall in-line with how you just described yourself, I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who do have one night stands who are decent men who can still have passionate, emotional sex with their significant other, while also having the capacity to have not very emotionally connecting sex as well as a few of the other things you have mentioned.

Answer 6

sheikalana | 1.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

One night stands doesn't mean the sex wasn't good. I've had ONS where the sex was amazing but because of opposite lifestyles we couldn't meet anymore.

Bellaco

8 mo
But everyone has their own idea on what good sex means to them. what you enjoyed mite not be what I enjoyed. Me I love having emotional connection and meaningful passionate sex. Porn like sex is a turn off for me it so cold and empty
sheikalana

8 mo
What does that have to do with your question? I didn't get it.
Bellaco

8 mo
I mean I don't want a man who has had one night stands because I believe they are cold lovers and I am a emotional person who need warm and emotions in bed
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sheikalana

8 mo
But that doesn't mean that just because you had ONS in the past that you're a cold person. That's something that happens, maybe one day it will happen to you and you'll change your mind. Who knows? But you're right to have your own opinion, just do not over generalize or judge people just because they had ONS otherwise is might be to difficult for you to find someone.

Answer 7

Bellaco

But everyone has their own idea on what good sex means to them. what you enjoyed mite not be what I enjoyed. Me I love having emotional connection and meaningful passionate sex. Porn like sex is a turn off for me it so cold and empty

Answer 8

sheikalana

What does that have to do with your question? I didn't get it.

Answer 9

Bellaco

I mean I don't want a man who has had one night stands because I believe they are cold lovers and I am a emotional person who need warm and emotions in bed

Answer 10

sheikalana

But that doesn't mean that just because you had ONS in the past that you're a cold person. That's something that happens, maybe one day it will happen to you and you'll change your mind. Who knows? But you're right to have your own opinion, just do not over generalize or judge people just because they had ONS otherwise is might be to difficult for you to find someone.

Answer 11

Yads_Is_Back

Guru

I don't date one-night-standers either, but not for that reason, although your description is definitely accurate.

Answer 12

ChocoBrownieMonster

Explorer

I am a virgin and i like developing an emotional connection with a girl. With that i act affectionate to touch and i can have your pupils dilate, have you desire my pheromones etc. Im a dangerous and mysterious being. I dont care what anyone thinks

Answer 13

Anonymous

Honey, you know how many girls are like this too?

How many women will divorce a guy ro breakup just because the guy did not make her orgasm? lol

Bellaco

8 mo
That was not the question lol I know some someone do that.

Answer 14

Bellaco

That was not the question lol I know some someone do that.

Answer 15

Twalli | 13.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You can find guys like that even if they've had a ONS before.

Bellaco

8 mo
Depends on the guy I feel

Answer 16

Bellaco

Depends on the guy I feel

Answer 17

In_Trance | 6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

If this is what you believe, then it's true. Not everyone forms emotional connections the way you do

Answer 18

asshole_

Yoda

how would you know if he ever did then

Bellaco

8 mo
I ask
asshole_

8 mo
he could lie
Bellaco

8 mo
Why would ge lie? I don't tell him I don't like it
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asshole_

8 mo
im just sayin'

he could lie

Answer 19

Bellaco

I ask

Answer 20

asshole_

he could lie

Answer 21

Bellaco

Why would ge lie? I don't tell him I don't like it

Answer 22

asshole_

im just sayin'

he could lie

I don't date men who have had one night stands because I feel like they are cold lovers who leave a girl if the sex is not good, is this true?

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