Sex is for enjoyment in a steady relationship and not to be used as a weapon to punish either of the couple. Some people’s self-esteem has been so crushed from childhood and therefore they are not assertive but instead use sex as a tool.
Boundaries are very important in relationships but while you are not addressing the real problem, it will not matter much what boundaries you attempt to put in place. Conflict will always arise. The best thing to do here is to have a conversation with your boyfriend and let him know that what he is doing is hurting you and the relationship as well. It is very sad that you have to give in to sex even if you do not feel like doing it. Remember good sex is two-way and should be done when both parties are up to it. Talk to your boyfriend about the situation and if he still does not want to talk, leave him.
I hope I answered your question. Any queries?
Yeah that was inappropriate.
Too much missing info
What was the fight about?
was it resolved?
- why did You “ let him” If you didn’t want to?
- if you don’t want him cunning in you just push him off
- condoms prob would be been good
-but yeah I don't know why would with him if you can’t trust him
tbis doesn’t really seem like bfs use sex to punish ( though I’m sure some bfs snd bfs use sex to manipulate)
as much as “I have a shitty boyfriend and personal issues setting boundaries”
also if he actually refuses to get out it’s considered rape. Guys can’t just go planting seeds in women without permission.
how are you feeling about everything?
So does he normally pull out? Was he trying to get you pregnant?
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He just sounds like an idiot to be honest. Is there any risk of you getting pregnant?
Heyyy
Sounds kinda rapey... I don't know what the legal definitions are... But that's fucked up either way
Isn't rapey you creep she let him fuck her 😂
@httpstaco yeah but not without protection
That's how they might do it every time she had a choice to say no she didn't
I would never use sex as a punishment. If your boyfriend is doing that, then you should leave him asap because its a form of abuse.
Ya I know
I've personally been in an abusive relationship where an ex of mine abused me sexually, so I know how much hell it is.
He never abused me physically but this I guess would be
Both sides do. Girls withhold sex lots when they are mad
Leave him now
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