Why do girls dress super sexy then whine about unwanted male attention?

[Joeharbor]

Let's be real. Girls who wear super slutty clothes do it to get attention from men, but when men say stuff like damn I wanna bang you, we are suddenly sex offenders.

So, what are we supposed to say? "I love that outfit because it shows how proud you are of your natural curves and feminine features"

Lol no. We are fucking men. Offended by our hard ons? Wear normal clothes then

[TruthBringer]

Despite our differences, Joeharbor, I can say that I whole heartedly agree with you on this one. The women who say: "I do it for myself". Think they can insult our intelligence with such ease. Reality is, sweeties, you do it for male attention/validation.

Oh you dress sexy for yourself? So you get turned on when looking at yourself? So you flaunt your assets to yourself? I don't think so, right?
Even though you may not actively want to be approached, you do it in order to be perceived as sexy. Knowing you are perceived as sexy is enough validation to give yourself a boost in self esteem. Women want to keep their sexual market value high. Either consciously or unconsciously.

There is a reason why they say "You dress well, you feel well". And that is because you feel well when you ARE PERCEIVED as good looking by OTHER people (especially men). Who doesn't feel good when they know the opposite sex finds them attractive? I don't wear a suit inside my house, I do it when I go out. Same thing for your make up and 'sexy' clothings. They go off your face as soon as you go back home or never to be put on when you don't leave the house, in the first place.

Women are notorious for talking crap about other women in public. Hence, they you try your best to look your best if you can to also compete against women.
So ladies, shove that "I do it for myself" argument back in your ass, because you're not fooling anyone. The only valid reason you do it for yourself, is in order to feel good about yourself through being perceived as sexy by other people.

[Joeharbor]

Agreed. It's like a stripper getting mad if a client tells her "nice ass"

[Anonymous]

It’s a narcissistic childish entitlement. They want to be able to expose as much as possible (and would be naked if they could) and then want to be able to pick and choose where that sexual attention comes from.
And since they don’t like taking responsibility for their actions or choices... any guy who gives them the attention but isn’t the guy they like, they simply shame him instead of actually doing something to be a little more dignified.

[MamaTBarron]

I have never dressed sexy for anyone but myself and maybe the guy I'm with but even then it's not because we want attention. I don't wear anything for attention. Makeup, hair, nails, and clothes are all worn because I like them.

Your idea of super sexy is probably her idea of cute. You just sound like a creep unless she has specifically given you any other reason to believe she wants your attention besides what she's wearing.

Lesibians can control themselves, why can't you. The day you feel unsafe around the opposite sex regularly is the day you can question this and not sound like an ignorant jerk.

[TruthBringer]

Save us your shallow shaming tactics and read what I posted on this thread. I've debunked your argument about you doing it "for yourself". When it comes to lesbians "controlling" themselves. I've seen tons of lesbians throwing themsevles at girls they think are sexy. But when it comes to men doing that, did you forget that men have 20x more testosteron than women? So they are more likely to "hunt" compared to women. Last time I checked lesbians were women. And since you're so keen on shaming people by calling them "creep" for speaking the truth, let me say at the age of 34, you still try to fool the world about something that has already been debunked. Wow. If you're planning on 'shaming' somebody, shame them with information that you are certain they have, not based on false assumptions. Sincerly, a guy 12 years younger than you educating you about men and women.

[MamaTBarron]

Hitting on someone and telling them you want to bang them are 2 different things. Thank you

[TruthBringer]

So that's what you got out of my comments. Lmfao

[Joeharbor]

When I say super sexy, I'm not talking about a miniskirt. I'm talking about wearing a thong on the beach, tops that barely cover your tits (like kardashians), list goes on. We are men. We are turned on by this and we just think about fucking when we see this. Girls know this and dress this way to tease. A guy who says "you look nice" in your beach thing is really saying "I want to fuck you" in a less honest way. "You look nice" in an honest way is a girl in an evening gown

[MamaTBarron]

They have nude beaches in other countries and they don't walk around telling every woman they want to bang her...

[Joeharbor]

That's because they are nude beaches. The "outfit" fits the environment. Most nudists are hippies, they aren't concerned about attention

[MamaTBarron]

And your standards are based on barbaric beliefs set upon you by society

[TruthBringer]

@mamatbarron Let me add that most people don't go to nude beaches either. Most people I've seen go to nude beaches are old people who don't care at all lmfao. If you're not going to come with a valid argument, then comment at all.

[MamaTBarron]

And more people would probably dress a little bit more comfortable for the heat even on a beach if they want if they weren't afraid of men objectifying them. It's been one such pigs here in the US may be nude beaches would be a thing here too and young people would go to them. I'm not telling you how to think I am telling you that talking that way to another human being unwarranted no matter what they're wearing is bullshit sir and it's harassment Point Blank.

[TruthBringer]

@mamatbarron It's true that it doesn't give anyone the right to just harass and cat call. At the same time, it is the woman's own responsibility to lessen the likelyhood that it happens. If I'm walking in a ghetto flashing my wallet and a Rolex, I shouldn't be surprised if I get mugged. The truth is, the more provocotively a woman dresses, the more unwanted attention she is getting. This doesn't mean that a well, professionally dressed woman doesn't get unwanted attention, but far less than a woman who dresses like an escort.

[Joeharbor]

How would a woman dress more comfortable for the beach? Lol. Not much less clothing u can have than a bikini. Would you rather a guy say he wants to fuck you or lie and tell you that you look nice, take you out to dinner, fuck you, then leave you flat? The first is at least honest

[Zannika02]

Why crude tho? Why can't we dress 4 us to feel sexy? if u approach w some class and instead of rudely then response may be different. since telling anyone regardless of dress, that u want to bang them is showing how creepy u r😐

[Joeharbor]

Haha u don't dress sexy for yourself, u do it to get boners. And I'm not talking about normal sexy like miniskirts, I'm talking thongs on the beach, lingerie on instagram and other slutty wear

[TruthBringer]

@zannika02 The only reason why you feel sexy, is because you are getting positive reinforcement from your environment that help you feel sexy. Why don't you wear your 'sexy' clothes and makeup when staying in door? No, you remove the make up and stay in your PJs. No need to act hypocritical. We all know you do it because you need the dose of dopamine, otherwise you will feel miserable.

[Hermes-Paris]

Welcome to the house of mystery. None of us can answer this one.

[sheikalana]

Because many women dress up for another women, not for men.

[Twalli]

If they think you're hot they won't care.

[Uncultured]

You could just say they look nice, its much nicerand makes you look like less of a creep.

[Anonymous]

Because the men flirting with them isn't hot enough

[Anonymous]

Because chances are.. you're not the person they're trying to attract. It's always someone