A virgin is someone who’s never had sex — but it’s not quite as simple as it seems. That’s because sex means different things to different people, so virginity can mean different things, too.
A lot of people think that having penis-in-vagina sex for the first time is how you lose your virginity. But this leaves lots of people and other types of sex out of the picture.
Some people haven’t had penis-in-vagina sex, but they’ve had other kinds of sex (like oral sex or anal sex) — and they may or may not see themselves as virgins. And there are lesbian, gay, bisexual or pansexual people who may never have penis-in-vagina sex at all. But they probably don't see themselves as lifelong virgins just because they haven’t had penis-in-vagina sex.
Many people believe rape and sexual assault aren’t sex — it’s only sex if both partners have consent. So if someone was forced or pressured the first time they had vaginal sex, oral sex, or anal sex, they may not see that as “losing their virginity.”
Bottom line: the definition of virginity is complicated, and it’s really up to you to decide what you believe. Some people don't even care what “virginity” means or think it matters. Stressing about whether you’re a virgin is way less important than how you feel about your sexual experiences. Ask yourself: are you happy with the sexual experiences you've had or decided not to have?
Try not to worry too much about what other people do. When you lose your virginity isn’t as big a deal as making sure you and your partner are ready for sex. If you have sex just to fit in, it probably won’t be a very good experience. It’s better to wait to have sex until you feel totally ready — and are prepared for some of the possible consequences of sex (like pregnancy or STDs).
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it's okay
Would be nice to share a mutual first. But I’m just dreaming now because they’re no more attractive female virgins left. Kinda why I gave up on trying to find a girlfriend. Plus it doesn’t help with feminism, fat body positivity movement.
you're right.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It is only important for the first time because it normally hurts and you have to be careful and slow for her. Other than than, it is unimportant.
Thank you for sharing..
I wouldn't find a girl who is a virgin more or less attractive than a girl who isn't. I would want to know if she is one before we have sex though, so I know to be extra careful
ohhh i see. thank you so much for sharing
Depends how old she is, if she’s a bit younger it’s more understandable but if she’s in her 20s and still a virgin that’s a red flag for me. She’s probably got some serious hang ups around sex/her body that I don’t necessarily want to deal with.
thanks for sharing
If a girl is a slut it's a turn-off to me, especially when it comes to serious relationship.
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Yeah guys love to be a girls first it's like an honour
yes it is
I never had sex with a virgin, although its ideally what a woman should be before getting married.
I think it matters, it shows a good moral upbringing especially at my age.
it is so good hearing you say like that. Thank you so much
You're welcome :)
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I really think 🤔 it means more for a woman to stay a virgin so I would respect her. My first time was her first time and it worked out
ouhh. that's good to hear.. Congrats
Good luck just remember you can only lose your virginity once
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I feel like i won the lottery if she's a virgin and ill treat and protect my price for years. But i dont care if she's not a virgin. sshhh 😳im not 18 im 34 dont tell anyone my secret please.
😂😂😂 your secret? you're telling it here in the comment. actually, yeah its like winning the lottery
Yes i accidentally drank too many beers like always sshhh😳 dont tell anyone please☺. Yeah i will treat a virgin girl like i won the lottery☺.
haha you better rest now if you're drunk 😜
I respect girls that are virgins because I am one myself. There's nothing wrong with being one. I like being different it makes me feel like I'm not part of the pathetic herd.
Thank you so much for sharing your opinion. I salute you. You're one of a kind.
@yellowph really? Thank you so much, I'm actually flattered.
You think a guy being a virgin is respectable? You don't see it as weird? Some would argue that sex is natural and stuff like that.
I feel honored she would want me to take her virginity. I have never done that and i feel more cautious.
that's good of her and for you.. thanks
It's nice that I am the first guy she trusted enough, but it isn't a huge issue for me
that's amazing
As i virgin myself, it would be nice to have virgin girl because you both would do it for the first time and will be amazing. But im not disliking girls or guys who are not virgins
I understand you.. Thanks for sharing your opinion. We're the same actually
It is nice to see someone is sharing my opinion
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I don’t mind virgins but I shouldn’t be their first. Lol.
hahahaha why is that?
Not being mean but I’d rip them apart down there.
ohh i see. Some boys want to be the first, but you're different. 😂
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