What percentage of people have had actual sex before having experienced oral sex?

I always figured there was a natural progression here.. hand job, bj, then balls deep :) ... but maybe that’s just my experience
I went straight in for the full experience from the start 😊
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I dabbled in some oral to begin with 😵🤤
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  • Had oral with multiple partners before ever even thinking about losing my virginity. By the way this poll is super suprising I didn't know so many people when straight into having sex. What kind of weirdos go right into it with no licking or sucking before? 😂😂😂

    • Ikr!! 🤯

    • I had to give the kitty a good taste before sliding my appendage in first time! 😉👅💦🤤

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  • I was seduced by my brother's fiance. He was out of the country and I was still a virgin. I was at her apartment and we watched a movie that had some nude sex scenes in it. My boner was obvious to her and she started rubbing it. I should have stopped her but I didn't. I came in my pants. She did that once more but unzipped my pants and gave me a handjob. The next time, she started to give me a handjob but then lef me into her bedroom. She took off her clothes and then undressed me. When we got in bed, it was too late for me to consider stopping. I fucked her and came inside her. We fucked several times after that, and it was always just PIV sex.

    I didn't have another sex partner for about a year. She gave me a bj. It was probably another 2 years before I had a partner who wanted me to go down on her. The next year, I had my first experience with anal sex. At that point, I thought I had experienced the full range of sex.

  • Yeah, I went along the standard way too, haha. I’m sure there are some out there who went right into it, maybe some who aren’t into oral (GASP), and at my Catholic high school, a lot of the girls from the catholic girls’ schools that we interacted with were down with the ol’ “God’s loophole” lmao, I had a friend who dated a girl 2 out of 4 years in high school, and when it was said and done, they’d done everything but (butt?😂) standard vaginal intercourse, which is I believe what the cool kids call it, lmao.

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  • I was forced to give my first blow job at age 12. I didn't dabble with oral after that until about a year after I lost my virginity (15).

    • I’m so sorry to hear that. Hope you’re doing fine after that start.

    • @Tellme I am doing okay now and have faced the demons of my past head on. Thank you for checking on me :)

    • @destinyelizabeth04 Glad to hear that. All the best to you!

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  • I didn't receive a BJ before having intercourse, but I gave oral (and did just about everything else you'd typically imagine) to a girl before having intercourse, so, yeah. I've had plenty of BJs since, of course, but I was always more focused on HER (and getting my hands and mouth and dick on/in her) rather than myself.

  • I did oral first because I was too young for vaginal sex yet.

    What percentage of people have had actual sex before having experienced oral sex?
    • at what age did u do ur first oral?

  • I was balls deep vaginally from the start. That's always been my kink because it's the most natural and by far the most connecting so it's 1000x more of a turn on at the idea. Hand jobs came later. I've never really been into blow jobs and have never even tried anal nor will I ever.

  • I was never interested in or liked oral sex; receiving or especially giving, even if I'm willing to do it.

  • I performed oral sex on my girlfriend before I had sex for the first time, way back in the day. I recall not being able to resist as it was so beautiful.

  • It started with a lot of great handjobs for me.

  • Everyone is different! Whatever works for each, is for them to decide!
    Yes, I agree that usually, there is a progression, and maybe the 'bases' concept! LOL!!!
    Kissing, touching, then more intimate touching, then maybe oral, but I have never done oral, on a woman, before sex! So many, well, maybe then, were too insecure about that, and that level of 'intimacy'.

  • I've had sex first

  • Balls deep... 😂 😂 😂
    I rang the bell before my first bj I THINK. We are talking over 30 years ago here.

  • Damn some people actually go in dry. Like serously it's a process meant to be fun and and stimulating you're not uncloghing a toilet here.

    • 😂😂

  • i did vagina hole first cuz i was noob. didn't realize i could put in mouth and butt and other between boobs and other places. i like the v-hole though. it is my favorite. kind of a classic vibe there. nostalgia

    • i had problem first time because i didn't realize v-hole was so close to a-hole. i thought it was somewhere between that part from the bottom and belly button. i watched porno videos and had sex ed but i didn't have sex ed diagram with me when i was trying to roll on the condom and put it inside out. it was all very fumbly

    • You ever wonder why it’s inside out and not outside in 🤔

    • seems to immediately lead to infinite recursion without resolution

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  • Lmao what’s a bj... 10 fucking years of sex and never a bj... 4 women... fuck women man lmao

    • You must be meeting the wrong type of women. There are plenty out there that do oral. You just gotta find them

    • I work 12hr 6/week gy shift. I don’t drink and I’m an introvert during a quarantine... I ain’t meeting shot right now lmao

    • Awhh that's sad 😥

  • ur name cracks me up, good for you girl ;)

  • tbh if you're referring to "dick and vaginas" as actual sex then i guess i'm now still a virgin after sleeping with multiple people lmfao

  • Surprised at voting I felt like most people I knew (myself included) had oral first.

    • Yeah same... I’m surprised too!

    • Maybe oral is old school thing 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

  • I stared with kissing then BJ then other stuff

  • I had to give the kitty a good taste before sliding my appendage in first time! 🤤💦👅😉

  • I have never figured how so many think oral sex isn't the most intimate of all sex acts.

    • thank you for feeling that way i feel exactly the same

  • i gave oral before my first actual sex but i never received oral before my first actual sex.

  • That's probably how it's going to happen for me. I am waiting till marriage to have sex, so I'm guessing that my wedding night will be focused on the natural way to have sex. And then oral will come later

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