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If the second relationship is important... why in the first place are you in second relationship.
We live, we learn. Only real way to achieve things is through trial and error. Sometimes our first relationship was fail because we just don’t know. That’s the trial course. If you value love and happiness in your relationships then the second is so much more important to you because now you get a second chance to use what you have learned. In that second relationship you know all too well what you want and what you don’t want. You know where to compromise, you realize complaining is not it, being “Just” comfortable isn’t enough. You realize you want something that will truly set your soul on fire in a good way. You learn Not to settle, just for a “Title “
It’s like an apartment or your credit. The first time some people may handle it loosely until they lose it and can’t get it back. So say you got evicted and now nobody will let you rent from them. You start living with people, they put you out. And you realize something has got to change. Your credit is shot, nobody will approve you. And you don’t like your situation. So, now your eyes are wide open. You press yourself to the limit, you start taking necessary steps toward building your credit, you fight the good fight of being turned down place after place. What happens if you run into 2nd chance homes? So they give you a chance after all this time. That home is now the center of your life. You treat it well, you know what to do and what not to do. You fear ever losing it, so you treat it differently. Good luck 🍀
If you give important to the first relationship then you wouldn't be in a second relationship.
Why should it be?
I mean all relationships are important, but if the first one failed, wouldn’t the second one be held to a higher standard?