Is it just me, or does this happen to other men?

Question

The second I put my penis inside her, I feel I am going to cum fast, but then it goes away... Then I have to work hard to orgasm... Is this true for other guys? I feel like an intense wave of pleasure go through me, then it subsides/plateaus... Then it actually becomes a bit of a challenge to climax after I get past that... It is like my penis gets insensitive to the feeling of intercourse after a while? Same thing for blowjobs... They feel fucking amazing in the beginning, but then my penis starts to hurt after a while.

Answer 1

CoolGuyJoe | 135 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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"starts to hurt" could mean you've become oversensitive because you had a mini dry orgasm. It's a mental issue. Keep things calm and slow until your body gets used to the rhythm of things and you should feel a natural desire to speed up without any additional sensitivity.

Going between slow and fast is natural. Know how long you can last in each speed and change pace when your body tells you to. It's all about enjoying the moment 🍆

Asker

8 mo
Really? I thought I was not having an orgasm?

How do I fix this?
CoolGuyJoe

8 mo
I told you in my response bro 👀
Asker

8 mo
Ok. I thought that you would have some tips on how to enjoy the moment... Like I even have issues with anxiety, so I tend to have ED, and I was prescribed Sildenafil for it. It works really well for me.
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CoolGuyJoe

8 mo
Your enjoyment won't be there simply because the meds are keeping your dick up. Getting your mental health back to a good spot will make sex much more enjoyable. We evolved with jizzing as a priority, not long drawn out sex. Since you got dealt a short hand with your anxiety, you gotta put in some work before you can really let go and just experience the sex for what it is. Try finding a good therapist to help you figure things out properly.
Asker

8 mo
Therapy is difficult to get where I live. I am hoping that I can talk to someone, and figure it out. I can orgasm without too much trouble, but the meds help a lot. I never thought of my anxiety as this problematic.

Answer 2

Asker

Really? I thought I was not having an orgasm?

How do I fix this?

Answer 3

CoolGuyJoe

I told you in my response bro 👀

Answer 4

Asker

Ok. I thought that you would have some tips on how to enjoy the moment... Like I even have issues with anxiety, so I tend to have ED, and I was prescribed Sildenafil for it. It works really well for me.

Answer 5

CoolGuyJoe

Your enjoyment won't be there simply because the meds are keeping your dick up. Getting your mental health back to a good spot will make sex much more enjoyable. We evolved with jizzing as a priority, not long drawn out sex. Since you got dealt a short hand with your anxiety, you gotta put in some work before you can really let go and just experience the sex for what it is. Try finding a good therapist to help you figure things out properly.

Answer 6

Asker

Therapy is difficult to get where I live. I am hoping that I can talk to someone, and figure it out. I can orgasm without too much trouble, but the meds help a lot. I never thought of my anxiety as this problematic.

Is it just me, or does this happen to other men?

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