Will Guys Wait for Marriage to Have Sex If That's What She Wants?

[bubbyisad2]

just curious haha

note: im not really 33, so yes this question is relevant

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yes, some men can be in a relationship without sex. And some men don't want to be. If you want to wait for marriage and he doesn't, the two of you are incompatible, that's all.

It doesn't man all men don't want to wait for sex, but it sounds like he doesn't. So the two of you have to decide: is your difference in ideas about this worth breaking up over, or can one of you change.

[MrOracle]

No.

[Berethor]

Most guys nowadays won't feel like she worth it, and if she not virgin then she likely don't worth it.

[Bratsondanielle]

My boyfriend sure didn't

[BlueEyedBirdWatcher]

She would have to be pretty great to keep me around without sex until I am thinking about marriage.
I don't think I would consider marriage for two years, two years without sex is a long time to get frustrated.

[IAMNathanael]

I will and I am. That's what I want.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

I would definitely wait if I see her as a wife material and see her as someone I could spend rest of my life with

[jkm1864]

I'd say at My age I'd consider it if I believed the prize was worth it.

[Citizenkirk]

Onlynif they want a divorce shortly after. Premarital sex is a neccessary part of getting too know if the two of you are a good fit and grownups don't embrace outmoded religious conventions that dume a marriage too failure.

[TheSimonymous]

I guess it depends whether the guy is a christian/muslim/jew or not. Then again, there are so many advantages for guys to wait until marriage to have sex, so...

[bubbyisad2]

what do you think some of the advantages are?

[TheSimonymous]

@bubbyisad2 Well, I guess those are some of the advantages: 1. She can't compare your sexual skills to anyone else. 2. If you have a rather small penis it will be already way too late for her. 3. She won't get pregnant before marriage and if she does, you know for sure that she cheats on you. 4. She can't hold any sexual harrassment charges against you (#metoo nonsense etc.) 5. She will be more likely to stick with you. A woman that has sex for the first time with a guy is more likely to be committed to him. 6. Couples that share their virginity with each other are less likely to get divorced according to studies. 7. No STDs.

[bubbyisad2]

some of those are... sad

[TheSimonymous]

@bubbyisad2 Sad but true.

[Dargil]

So long as he will eagerly walk the bases otherwise, yes.

[kemo56]

If he really loves you he would... Reluctant maybe, presistant maybe, but wait he would if he loves you.

[jestergent]

If you are a virgin

[Sam_The_Savage]

Nope I can't. I want sex almost 3-4times in week.

[Nalix]

No, but he will if that's what he wants. And if that is what you want, but isn't what he wants, then you should look for another guy.

[AmeerX]

Yes of course

[DiversityHire]

Well, that would depend on the guy and their relationship. If he isn't really serious with her, or is in it to get some, then no. However if he really cares for her and respects her, then I would think so.

[basketball123]

It would be okay for me. If you really love someone it is not all about sex. But on the other hand I am not a religious person. Most people wait for sex until the marriage because they are very religious. I think I would not match with a super religious women.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Depends on the guy.

[X9MikeHoncho]

A real man will.

[Juxtapose]

No marriage for me period.

[navyP]

Can't speak for other men but for me no way in hell would I wait till marriage to fuck my partner