Relationships and masturbation?

[Reaperbot666]

• For those in a couple or who want to be. would you do everything in your power. to help your partner have regular sexual relief if / when able? For those in a couple or who want to be. would you do everything in your power. to help your partner have regular sexual relief if / when able?
• depends on how much and how often.
• because I would be willing to help her.
• if she asked or implied desire to have full sexual encounter or just oral.

[J_Fitz]

No. Guys like to masturbate too. If you don't want to have sex, but don't mind being with him, mutual masturbation or sexting when apart can be a turn on. I would say you should just tell him that you just want to masturbate sometimes and you can even say you want to do it alone, just make sure you don't make him feel like he isn't doing a good enough job.

[AmandaYVR]

Not at all.

Do you mean one person offers or suggests sex, and the other person says 'no' and masturbates then or shortly after instead?

Or do you mean that sometimes they want sex, and sometimes they want to masturbate on their own, as well?

First one's a bit weird. '
Second one's totally normal.

[ineedatan]

I'd ask if I could watch or help. But if it continuously took away the sex, yes, it'd bother me and make me feel insecure in terms of wondering if I'm unable to fully satisfy him.

[AustinMan]

It would depend on frequency and duration.

[ThomasTKay]

Nope, as long as I could watch from time to time :) I think it's hot and sexy to watch a girl masturbate and cum all while her vagina is so turned on and gaping, dripping, labia making the sloppy rubbing sounds and her eyes are rolled into the back of her head with accompanied euphoric pleasure.

[summiter]

It would not bother me at all. I am currently living with my fiancee. We have a very good and active sex life. However we both masturbate if one of us does not want sex or is tired etc. She has some sex toys and loves them and I like to use them on her also. Sometimes we will masturbate together which is way fun. If she is not in the mood for sex she will often offer to give me a handjob or bj.

[nudeNhorny]

I don't think masturbation can affect relationship as long as sex is still frequent, if you have a high sex drive (like me) and sex is not enough for you and you need to masturbate every now and then to relief yourself then you partner should accept that, it only become a problem when you start prioritize masturbation over sex with partner and it affects your sex life as couple.

[josephinelcajon]

I have absolutely positively nothing wrong with it! Masturbating alone or together or each other without sex are all healthy and nothing wrong with it as long as equal amounts of time are spent together.

[Anonymous]

25 to 30 years ago, my wife would tell me not to bother her in her bedroom because she would be masturbating. On a few rare occasions however, we would actually have sex in my bedroom. I would have loved to watch her masturbate, but I guess she wasn't comfortable with it.

[Paige90]

Not at all! In fact, I would think something is wrong with them if they didn't as most people do even in a relationship.

[blkgold33]

It bother me a bit especially if very often. Makes me think the sex is terrible which could be im not a sex master now

[wolfpack69]

If I was available and got turned down by my partner so she could go do it then it might. Other than that though it's natural to need to do it.

That being said, I think doing it together while watching each other would be pretty hot... I might not be able to control myself though 😂 I can definitely see myself stopping to bury my face between that person's thighs haha

[BuckWild]

Why would that bother anybody? Are you really 29 years old?

[Kaneki05]

That's cool by me. People always get not bothered or not in the mood for something from time to time.

[banana75]

no it's 2 very different things. I've had sex and masturbated after.

but if he only likes to masturbate.. then need to talk to him to find out why. try to give him oral first?

[oldermale]

Wouldn't bother me one bit, as long as my masturbating didn't bother her and she lets me watch her masturbate.

[sophiejo]

Not at all sometimes I would rather it too, makes it even hotter if you do it together

[BlueEyedBirdWatcher]

It would a little at first,
but I do the same so it would be unfair.

[matchrestore]

Not at all. God knows I still masturbate all the time, with my wife's blessing.

[rochi1234]

I don't mind if he masturbates, but not with porn.

[ThiccBoai]

Nope. Go nuts!! Do whatever you wantm. As ling as I'm not left out all the time

[beerfeet]

No as long as she isn't ignoring me altogether. Everyone needs some private space and time and what they do with it is none of my concern.

[thatsafact]

I know I do because I have a higher sexual drive than her. if she does it's kinda like wtf I'm ready and willing 24/7. but I understand nobody does it quite like yourself.

[newfreshstart]

If she wanted to do her own thing nothing wrong with that all i asked is that i can watch

[Anonymous]

Wouldn’t bother me if she masturbated sometimes when we are apart. Wouldn’t bother me if she wanted to masturbate together. Would bother me if she turned me down then went off to masturbate.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

What's turn on for me, is when a girl says to me, that she's going to play with herself oh that makes me wanna watch her do it

[Wise4myage]

It would only bother me if masturbation took the place of sex.

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'd be fine with it as long as it doesn't take away from our time together having sex.

Hopefully she would feel the same way.

[dac91]

Instead of having sex yes
If your horny it will make your partner horny or maybe to watch then play

[Anonymous]

If you are in a relationship maybe you could masturbate together instead of sex

[es20490446e]

I would love if my partner masturbated nearby, as something natural.

[Twalli]

Kinda, unless she needed more sex than I could provide

[coolaboola]

Nah id be ok with it. would love to watch her actually

[madprofessor]

Some times it's "that time of the month", might not be available, etc. When you prefer to get off instead of using a partner, there is a problem.

[Jerre]

Sometimes a girl and myself will masturbate together, but about always turns to fucking after w have cum.

[ND4SPD31]

Yes it would. I’d rather have sex than masturbate but she doesn’t have the high sex drive that I have.

[oncpl]

We do it just for fun. Both masturbate occasionally in front of each other. It is very arousing.

[Friendlybro79]

Not at all. I think it's fun to do it together sometimes too.

[sexopat31]

Ofc It will make me bother, why ıf I have making love and I will do masturbate?

[OddBeMe]

No sex is weird. There are periods of impotence. Or just not feeling it.

[StrikeJam]

If it's on regular base, then it's strange.
If only sometimes, why not

[Anonymous]

if she or he masturbates while watching porn i would be upset for sure like you have me right here

[Anonymous]

When I'm in a relationship I will if it's mutual masturbation

[sheikalana]

No, it wouldn't bother me at all.

[ManWithThePlan123]

I mean as long as I get to watch lol

[Natashakir72]

Yes that would annoy the heck out of me

[kemo56]

No, but I would like to watch sometimes

[egykimo]

Yes I'm not a peg to allow this

[RHK36]

Yes because we can do both.

[jahaims]

Only if we weren't having sex frequently.

[skunkbeard68]

Sounds like something fun to do together.

[Quidthonian]

Hell no. I often feel like self-service.

[michael1469]

Na, just as long as she lets me watch too.

[JamesBlackDragon]

No it wouldn't bother me

[Chris_u006]

Not if it doesn't replace the intercourse.

[Jmmmfi4]

At least let me watch

[cootjuh]

No i like to do it myself to

[moonpie89]

Totally for it

[gandolph3]

I would love it

[asshole_]

Yeah

[abc--123]

Nope