Relationships and masturbation?

Question

Would it bother you if your parter preferred to masturbate from time to time, instead of having sex?

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

For those in a couple or who want to be. would you do everything in your power. to help your partner have regular sexual relief if / when able?  For those in a couple or who want to be. would you do everything in your power. to help your partner have regular sexual relief if / when able?   depends on how much and how often. because I would be willing to help her. if she asked or implied desire to have full sexual encounter or just oral.

J_Fitz · Accepted Answer

No. Guys like to masturbate too. If you don't want to have sex, but don't mind being with him, mutual masturbation or sexting when apart can be a turn on. I would say you should just tell him that you just want to masturbate sometimes and you can even say you want to do it alone, just make sure you don't make him feel like he isn't doing a good enough job.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Not at all.

Do you mean one person offers or suggests sex, and the other person says 'no' and masturbates then or shortly after instead?

Or do you mean that sometimes they want sex, and sometimes they want to masturbate on their own, as well?

First one's a bit weird. '
Second one's totally normal.

ineedatan · Accepted Answer

I'd ask if I could watch or help. But if it continuously took away the sex, yes, it'd bother me and make me feel insecure in terms of wondering if I'm unable to fully satisfy him.

AustinMan · Answer

It would depend on frequency and duration.

ManWithThePlan123 · Answer

I mean as long as I get to watch lol

ThomasTKay · Answer

Nope, as long as I could watch from time to time :) I think it's hot and sexy to watch a girl masturbate and cum all while her vagina is so turned on and gaping, dripping, labia making the sloppy rubbing sounds and her eyes are rolled into the back of her head with accompanied euphoric pleasure.

matchrestore · Answer

Not at all. God knows I still masturbate all the time, with my wife's blessing.

rochi1234 · Answer

I don't mind if he masturbates, but not with porn.

summiter · Answer

It would not bother me at all. I am currently living with my fiancee. We have a very good and active sex life. However we both masturbate if one of us does not want sex or is tired etc. She has some sex toys and loves them and I like to use them on her also. Sometimes we will masturbate together which is way fun. If she is not in the mood for sex she will often offer to give me a handjob or bj.

ThiccBoai · Answer

Nope. Go nuts!! Do whatever you wantm. As ling as I'm not left out all the time

sophiejo · Answer

Not at all sometimes I would rather it too, makes it even hotter if you do it together

BuckWild · Answer

Why would that bother anybody? Are you really 29 years old?

Natashakir72 · Answer

Yes that would annoy the heck out of me

BlueEyedBirdWatcher · Answer

It would a little at first, but I do the same so it would be unfair.

blkgold33 · Answer

It bother me a bit especially if very often. Makes me think the sex is terrible which could be im not a sex master now

Paige90 · Answer

Not at all! In fact, I would think something is wrong with them if they didn't as most people do even in a relationship.

Kaneki05 · Answer

That's cool by me. People always get not bothered or not in the mood for something from time to time.

josephinelcajon · Answer

I have absolutely positively nothing wrong with it! Masturbating alone or together or each other without sex are all healthy and nothing wrong with it as long as equal amounts of time are spent together.