If a women gives birth to a child then after how many days she gets ready to have sex again not for becoming pregnant just normal sex?

[McMillanD]

I have had 3 kids.

With my first there was some tearing and I needed stitches, so I was told not to have sex until after I got the go ahead from my Dr at my 6 week post pregnancy checkup.

With the other 2 there was no tearing, however, after every pregnancy the uterus sheds it's lining, just like it does once a month, but because of the amount the uterus has expanded and how much blood there is the bleeding can last anywhere between 1 week to (in extream cases) 6+ weeks.

I was fortunat, and for my last 2 pregnancies the bleeding only lasted about a week and a half and by that time I wasn't sore anymore and I was ready to go.

It really depends on the person. There is no set rule of how long you should wait. Technically you COULD have sex right after as long as there is no tearing and you don't mind the blood.

The biggest factors are being sore and most of all exhausted! The last 3 months of pregnancy are brutal. Very uncomfortable all the time, sleep is hard to come by and then after the little bundle arrives everyone is still exhausted because they are up all night and day with a screaming newborn who wants to be held/fed/changed etc. And don't even get me started on breastfeeding. If you can find the time, most would prefer to just sleep.

Then there is the emotional aspect. A lot of hormonal changes happen after a woman has a baby, and some develop postpartum depression made far worse when added on top of everything else I have mentioned. So even if she managed to get the time and was feeling physically fine, she may not feel like participating emotionally for a very long time.

My suggestion, if you want to improve your odds, is to be the hero and take care of the baby for an afternoon. Let her have a nap, a bath, do her hair, etc. If she is feeling more like herself she may be more receptive to the idea of sex, not to mention greatful that you are helping ease her strain.

[Anonymous]

Dude if a woman gives birth, her body isn’t ready for sex again until at least 6 weeks or longer.

[Aquiline_feast]

Depends on her physical health ask her doctor.