My best friend many times sent me nudes & the last time I told her that I jerked of to her pics and she said she felt weird ! have I done smth wrong?

[seynt]

by the way the moment she sent me the pics i gave her a compliment about how beautiful her body is and she seemed very flattered but if i give her compliment about her body right now she would get mad and she'll be saying don't remind me of that night and THIS HAS HAPPENED MANY TIMES ! please someone tell me whats wrong with her im really into her (sexually)

[SphynxUK]

I’m someone that wouldn’t want to know what you did after seeing the pics.
In her mind, she’s just sending them to get compliments to feel good about herself. She isn’t thinking that she’s sent them to you for anything else.


Either tell her to stop sending them, or just enjoy them, and keep everything else to yourself.

[seynt]

Hmm I think you’re right ! And that’s sad that she’s like that. Thanks for answering

[ie_amour]

I don’t think you did anything wrong. Why would she send her naked body to a guy multiple times then get upset when it makes him horny? Strange... Maybe you should have a talk about boundaries.

[seynt]

yes i think we should thanks for your answer

[Anonymous]

Sounds like before you told her about “getting physical” bc of her pics, she thought you were just going to appreciate her body as art and never do something like that. Lol

Or, the reality of what guys (and you) do w pics just hit her, especially bc it’s her that it was done about and she can’t deal w that right now.

[Rizwan_khan]

No buddy you didn't do any thing wrong every body do that it's normal. But your girl feel weird that's okh. That's her reaction. If you jerk off next by watching her pics then don't tell her then I think she feels good instead saying jerk say something else.

[seynt]

thank you for your answer bro

[Rizwan_khan]

Most welcome bro

[Gedaria]

To me, she is flattered but not sure to move on.
That is why a lot of girls send nudes. To see what they look like , and most times it's ends in masturbating. But don't rush her let her move at her own speed...

[Anonymous]

She likes the attention game. And enjoys the ability to tease you. She knows you want her sexually but she's not interested in you. I bet she would be jealous if you get nudes from other girls. So immature. Why are you allowing this anyway?

[seynt]

Yes exactly she got jealous many times when i told her i got pics from other girls ! And I’m guessing she teases many other boys cause like you said she likes the attention game ! But she once told me that i only sent pics to you and my ex ! I’m into her but I’m ending this ! Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You're 24 and in five years you're going to be 30. Ask yourself this, when would you like to be truly loved by a woman and be in love. If your answer is soon. Then you can't continue with this nonsense. No woman will agree to a best friend sharing nudes with you at any given point in time. Or will accept the fact that you are friends with someone you are sexually attracted to. And believe me most women will find out sooner rather than later. Or just because the so called friend might accidentally make it known to your girl. I see it as an unnecessary headache tbh. It is all fun games until it cost you something precious. And if your woman did that with her guy friend would that be acceptable? I can't know your boundaries but we all got some. The least her presence might push other women away. Glad your ending the teasing game but if I were you I'm not even keeping the friend. Sex in all its forms is the differentiator between friendships and partnerships. And friends care more about you than to manipulate you in any way shape or form. All the best of luck.