Oral sex with one of my best friend, I loved it and I don’t feel bisexual at all, is that possible?

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So we are on holiday and we are both single (we are both 18). I’m single from one year (except a one week relationship) and she is single from almost six months. We were on holiday and, even if we’re a little bit scared about corona, we were hoping to find some guy to have fun (not to do everything, we are not into one night stands, but at least some make out).
We discovered with our sadness that the city is completely empty. Back into the room we started complaining about being single and lonely and not having sex from a long time (this was more my friend than me). At some point we were laughing thinking and complaining about it and we just looked to each other and started kissing. It was not that passionate, we were smiling in the meantime (it was the first time for both of us). After some making out I went down on her and I gave her oral and I have loved it so much, then we made for a little moment a 69 and then she went down on me. I 100% loved this experience, but after that I was always the same girl, totally into guys, 100% straight. It was a real satisfying sex without phisical attraction, I don’t know how is that possible. Is it possible to love this kind of experience and being totally unaffected remaining 100% straight?
I think it was the same for her. At the end of the thing we were again laughing thinking about that and we started again talking about guys. I would do that again, but even now, thinking about my friend or thinking about girls in general I don’t feel any attraction.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

i only went down on one girl and i was attracted to her very strongly... and like you it started with a kiss... maybe you weren't attracted but were very horny and that could be it totally... at least your open minded to have something like that i'm sure it fills a void of some kind and most important your not embarassed or ashamed or wouldn't want to discuss it on here... maybe you want to know your not alone and that happens from time to time... i'm sure you'll think back on it years to come maybe often... i think back on mine although we made love 20 times approximately... i feel good about it as i was attracted to this woman as she was athletic and 37 i was 30 at the time... well one thing you got to admit it was exciting... it was exciting stimulating loving but different... eating pussy is different than sucking dick... although you can kneel for both... somehow you give more of yourself to a woman when you make love to her

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

If you did it once because of curiosity that is one thing. But it you do it on a frequent basis then you can call it anything you want, but you are gay/bisexual. If you are not embarrassed to do the deed then why be embarrassed with that moniker?

Hawner · Accepted Answer

I think many people have a somewhat incorrect understanding of what homo/heterosexuality is.
As I see it, it means being attracted to one or the other sex, but that doesn't mean being unable to enjoy some experience, or even more, with the opposite.
To put it simple, a hand is a hand, doesn't matter if a women's or a man's, both can caress and masturbate you just the same. A mouth is a mouth, doesn't matter if a woman's or s man's, both can kiss you and give oral just the same. Pleasure is the same no matter what.
So enjoy those moments with your friend, they are proof of how close you are. 😊

Gedaria · Accepted Answer

How you discribe this reminds me of my wife. She was bisexual. She could have affection for either men or girls. This is how she got into it, when her first husband was a total waste is went to be live with a girlfriend. Also had other relationship with other girls. I came along and spoiled it...

Red_Arrow · Answer

Someone who enjoys sex with both sexes is bisexual. It does not matter if you "Don't feel bisexual". You participated in a sexual act with a member of the same sex and enjoyed it. That is bisexual.

josephinelcajon · Answer

A lot of guys growing up end up exploring with a friend. I think it is very healthy learning experience that teaches so much! It will not change who you are but it will certainly help you find yourself!

sheikalana · Answer

That's very possible. Enjoy the funny business.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Sometimes a gal's just gotta get off whatever way she can. It's good you have a girl friend who will oblige those needs :)

Booboo210 · Answer

Good for you love to hear in detail of your experiences

wondering_guy · Answer

You both were in a passionate heat of the moment, you cared for each other, you had a moment to help each other. I think the loneliness attracted that moment of satisfaction