Kind and sweet in regular life; wild in bed: is this what everyone wants in their partners?

Kind and sweet in regular life; wild in bed: is this what everyone wants in their partners?
Kind and sweet in regular life; wild in bed: is this what everyone wants in their partners?
Just for a laugh...
An extreme example (not typical, but pretty funny), Owen Wilson as Dupree, with 'Mandy the Mormon Librarian.'
Yes that's what I want.
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No, I want something different (will explain below.)
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Inexperienced or undecided. I don't know what I want.
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  • I love this question. For me yes I love being me in everyday life but when making love I transform in to still me but an energy that has so mush hot passion desire thst loves getting down and dirty nsughty that knows how to take that feeling of becoming one to the highest peek jus raw hot love or sex

    • Thank you

  • Oh yeah. Sweet, petite, innocent and demure in public. Wanton, insatiable and unbreakable in bed. LOL

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  • ... bahahaha well Mandy really got hosed down hard 💦😂

    I need to rewatch this movie!

  • I like kind and sweet in bed☝️ 🥰🤷‍♀️😛😊

    • 90% ☝️ 10% wild 😜

    • 😌😌

  • I like a partner who’s assertive and brutally honest about everything including themselves. In bed? Confident and enthusiastic.

  • I'm not into anything weird. I just want a sweet innocent girl who will let me put it in her butt and call me daddy. You know, normal stuff.

  • Classy and ladylike in public, just wild enough in bed to please me and tell me how to please her.

  • Why can't we just really like each other, and share a lot of interests, not need anything but spontaneous kissing, and cuddling, and sex, sometimes, but not a lot? I just love being with the women I have dated, and loved just sharing things together, like food, and interests, and sex was just a minor thing, really, as they were just amazing, and just cuddling, and being together was enough for me. Yeah, I'm strange, maybe. . .

  • This seems like something only men look for in a partner. They're just into innocent girls with a crazy sexual side but I think it rarely works out that way. It's the weird chicks that are crazy during sex. The sweet girls are probably duds in bed.

    • I'm inclined to side with ya on that... but then generalisations are generalisations i guess. I think women who are uptight and prudes would be the worst both out of the bedroom and in the bedroom. I'm sure some women would not want a spineless, nervous guy who can't um perform nor be a pleasant partner outside of the bedroom. Great answer :)

  • I probably want someone kind all the way around

  • I try to be wild, sweet and relaxed at different times in both bed and out. And I want the same. Variety is everything.

  • That makes sense to me. Causal and relaxed in life and wild in bed :)

  • Yes We want a woman to act like a lady in public and to be wild in the sack.

  • Ahh the old ‘maiden in the streets, whore in the sheets.’ I personally love a filthy woman in bed, but her ‘innocence’ (whatever that means) is pretty much irrelevant to me. I just want her to be herself. If that means being a very sweet and chaste person in public, so be it. If she wants to spout curses like a sailor and scratch her groin in public, I’m totally fine with that too. Just so long as she’s herself, and not simply pretending to be ‘innocent’ for the sake of appearing ‘innocent’.

  • Wild in regular life, and...
    ... why is it always only 'the bed'? :)

  • I'll take kind and sweet in life and in bed lol

  • Ohhhh yep 😅

  • I’d say that’s fairly accurate.

  • Yes, that's definitely what I want in my wife after I marry her.

    I want her to be an absolute genuine lady in public with me, but I want her to be an absolute naughty, horny, intimate, romantic , sexual, near-insatiable animal in bed with me!😜

  • I want something similar. She has to feel genuine the whole time though. In both scenarios. But I would like her to be kind, classy, and confident in public and passionate, intentional, and free in bed

  • Sounds pretty close to accurate. Though it rarely works out that way. It's the crazy women that are carnival rides in bed.

  • Sounds good to me.

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