Pay attention to the dates. He didn't talk to her for exactly four years. He definitely understood the number 14. He waited four years to the day to ask again. lol
That ain't the point. Point is he was a pervert. And he still is. He just waiting for his chance to get sex. She has no business holding onto his number she should have cut him off.
I can agree with that, but still. Just making sure we were being honest. lol A pervert he was, but not a pedophile, nor did he harass.
That is harassment. She is a minor. At least she was at the time. But her still being 18 she is still extremely young. This guy is being a pedophile because he's looking to Rob the Cradle because he wants to have sex. She clearly told him her age to warm him to back off. He never took the hunt 4 years later. Unless you toying with him, did she's playing a dangerous game don't God forbid give girls like that killed if not just raped. I am Telling You by experience oh, that ain't something that anybody should be messing with. You don't want to feed it because you don't know what they may do to you.
I remember some creep in his early 30s try yo mess with me online when I was a young adult. Within 3 days he tried to see if he could groom me. If my late mother didn't see what was going on, and I didn't catch on to his sexual remarks afterwards, I would have been in trouble. I immediately cut him off, blocked and reported. He tried creating another account to harrass me, and once the admins found out, he stopped. It's not a joke. So it doesn't matter if you are of legal age or not. That doesn't give people any legal right to sexually harass a person.
Harassment, by definition, requires repeated action. He asked once and then didn't ask again for four years. That does not fit the definition of harassment. He also didn't know her age when he asked and then stopped talking to her immediately upon learning it. Having sex with (or attempting to) an 18 year old is not pedophilia. Depending on where he's from, it wouldn't be considered pedophilia if she was 16, as that's age of consent in most places. I'm sorry for your experience, but this very clearly wasn't one of those experience. He didn't attempt to groom her. He didn't speak to her until she was an adult.
Again, that is not the point. The moment that she had said that she is 14 that is for her to tell him to not bother because she is a. The point is he should not be speaking to her at all she does not want to be spoken to. It doesn't matter if you wait until a person is an adult or not. That person is not interested in a relationship, that is harassment. That is still considered harassment even if you never bought it reaching out for 4 years. He still reaching her now. That's where it becomes harassment and where it becomes evidence. That has nothing to do with the age of consent. Just because the person is an adult that does not give again people the legal right to go and try to think they can have sex with a person. It shouldn't even be crossing a person's mind. It's about the respect. The problem with especially with a lot of men they figure that once a girl is 18 she's legal enough to screw. That's where the problem is because most eighteen-year-olds are not even thinking about that. This guy knew what he was doing. It didn't have to matter what age she was it's the intent. That's why he asked her if she 18 now. Because he wants to have sex. That's all. If she was really interested in him she would have still kept talking to him. She did not for 4 years. I think that says a lot.
I was an adult at the time, that still doesn't give men the right to harass me. Again, age of consent have to do with those that are within the age bracket. Once a person is 18 and an adult, that still considered pedophilia.
She is a minor*
Where is an 18 year old considered a minor? Not anywhere that I know of. Here, an 18 year old is legally an adult. They can drive, vote, own a home, travel, hold government jobs, own guns, join the military.And I agree. No one has the right to harass you. Ever. But harassment didn't occur here, so that's not relevant to the conversation.Anyway, I'm gonna head off. I suspect I shouldn't have engaged in the first place. I apologize. Have a good night!
@Madhatter920 Harassment is by definition "unwanted behavior." It does not need to be repetitive or illegal. You don’t need to have previously objected to something for it to be unwanted.He first ordered her to be his girlfriend & then asked her to verify her information relating to her age.He's talking to her as if he's on a wife ordering website (& that's not something people want).Even though it's legal, even if it was subtle and even if he wasn't aware of his actions, he should still be expected to know how to treat a human properly. He's still a creep who's most likely a perverted scammer doing this to many young people. Also, I think we're allowed to make fun of his math considering he asked her to check it for him. The real reason he asked her that question though is because he only wants her to say "Yes."Don't defend him, he should be reported & people should avoid friend requests from strangers.
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Dude, that would be extremely creepy. Are you even serious right now?
That's grooming, isn't it?
I keep random people's texts. They don't bother me so I don't delete them and I can go back to them at any time
What do you need to go back to them for? (They’re just random people you don’t know.)
I personally don't have a reason to go back to any of them, and I don't have any conversations like this one, but it could be funny if I sent another message depending on what was said last.But it does look like this guy had set an event in his calendar or something to message her again, which is a bit pathetic, but I respect it.
it is more weird if u dont see any 14 girl as sexy lol
I would, too!Though there was a girl who chatted with me last year and I found out she was 17, and she wanted to date me, and I was like NO. So then she told me when she was turning 18 and wanted me to message her back then. But I didn't, because I wasn't really interested in her in the first place. And besides 18 is just too young for me.
@Jamie05rhs why didn't you tell her straight you werent interested, this is what annoys me. Instead of rejecting, people seem to choose the option you think will least hurt them, but waiting 1yr for nothing, you think that wouldn't hurt her. It's quite sadistic.
@ChocoBrownieMonster Well, when she suggested hitting her up on her birthday, I laughed. And she got mad. So I figured the matter was settled, since from that point onward she hated me anyway. My view on the matter was, "hey, that makes my job easier because now I don't have to reject her."
@Jamie05rhs so it's better to be sadistic than be honest lol it still doesn't change what I think of you
I don't think I was sadistic.For the record, I did apologize for laughing.
Why would a pedo just stop communicating after the other person says they're 14? She didn't even tell him no.
A grown man shouldn't be hitting kids up on fb. Like seriously do i need to go into detail about that? Predators stalk their prey, in this case he stalked her 4 years.
It's creepy as hell?
Yeah we Indians do chatting while people in other countries can have sex at the age of 12-14 WoW 😍 thanks for telling how good we Indians are LoL 😂
How many examples should I show you poppy of child molesters in your country if you are going to base on being Indian, its clearly a Meme that racists people have come up with by saying that you are supporting racist behaviour I Didnot expect this from you 🧐😶🤨😩
Who are those?
Family guy have you never watched it
I have seen tit bits not even am episode i used to watch Simpsons though
Family guy is Simpsons just Simpsons has kids humour and family has adult humour
Yeah i know that family guy has no sensor lol its sometimes funny 🤣