Why don’t guys often compliment a girls face and mainly her body?

I’ve noticed when a guy a pays a girl a compliment it’s always “nice booty” or “cleavage looking great”

why do I never see “you have beautiful eyes” or “you have gorgeous hair” does this mean they only find the body attractive and not the face?

It’s always sexual stuff.
do guys just hate saying soppy stuff?
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  • Many of us do, but I think some guys feel like these are generic/expected compliments that don't sound genuine even if they are. in my opinion, I think if said sincerely, they won't be taken that way, but I kind of understand that perspective, even if I disagree with it.

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  • I make it a point to notice a woman's face, eyes, personality first. If I don't know the person and love the person, it makes sex with the person not special. Yes, a woman's parts are amazing and beautiful, but her personality is far and above the most beautiful because it's who she truly is.

    You bring up great points and concerns. It's the result of objectification and departure of love.

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  • Guys tend to be more sexual than girls by default, and when a guy compliment a girl's boobs he is more likely to be honest than if he compliment her eyes. A girl's face is important to guys, but that importance is showing up mainly if the girl is ugly, the girl's haircut actually don't matters much to guys, at least as long as the girl has a long hair.

  • I don't really compliment faces because I think it's a bad compliment.
    Nobody chooses their face or their eye color or their hair color or whatever.

    I want to be complimented on my abs because that stuff takes hard work.
    I don't want to be complimented on my eyes, I didn't choose my eyes, everyone has eyes, who cares about eyes.
    It's literally the most pointless compliment.

    • Because some people have prettier eyes than others like more brighter and bigger. Whereas some people have basic boring brown eyes. Also some people have big thick lush hair whereas some have short thin hair. I feel like if you’ve been blessed with naturally pretty eyes or hair don’t you think it’s worth complimenting rather than just a bare of tits? Lol

    • No, I definitely do not think that. Complimenting something that a person was simply born with is pointless. I will compliment people if they are fit, or well dressed or successful, but simply being born a certain way isn't worthy of any praise.

  • It's easier.

    • How?

    • For me (if I did such a thing), I think it's because men have been conditioned to focus on one body part and not the person as a whole.

  • Cause most of them are butter faces you know because everything is hot but her face

    • I’d rather compliment someone who has the full package.

    • yea, but if u saw a person with a pretty face and a hot body, which one would u notice first? and which would u appreciate more? im genuinely curious

    • @xxxxxxxlllllllxxxxxx me too lol

  • Because you only notice when those guys say those certain things I'm sure other guys say other things

  • I compliment face also

  • Butter skin wins butter blob.

  • Probably more noticeable than your facial features

  • I complimented the heck out of a girls eyes and she shot me down. And they were genuine compliments that I put some thought into.

  • I have never complimented a girl on her body (except when we were talking sexually to each other). Though I don't give compliments often. The ones I often give my girlfriend are about her hair (she has beautiful long, black, silky hair) , if I really like a dress she got, her smile, or her random cuteness.

  • No, guys care about a pretty face too, but guys are also simple. Sex is usually at the forefront of their mind. Saying you have beautiful eyes or what have you sounds disingenuous and forced. The other way just seems more honest and natural.

    • So if a guy says “hot” he normally means overall.. including face as well?

    • He might. "Hot" is based on an average. You might have an amazing face and just an ok body, an amazing body and an ok face, or maybe the full package. The thing to focus on is that you're beautiful.

    • So “beautiful” and “stunning” and “pretty” normally relate to face?

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