Are you intimidated by a woman who embraces her sexuality?

I've come to notice that a lot of men (even some women) on this site always have something negative to say if a woman is experienced in sex and sexual situations... does it make you uncomfortable?
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  • This topic has been going on for a while. While a small portion of men might be intimidated- most men are simply turned off. Promiscuity in women is extremely unattractive when seeking out a long-term partner in whom you want to emotionally connect with. It’s but shamed and shunned to extreme measures in the past, but not much today. While I’ll disagree with societal practices in the past towards promiscuous woman- I will say that society has looked at this type of behavior in such a negative light for a reason.


    Most of it stems with biology, and it’s mind-blogging as to how progressives negate all facts and talk about their feelings. Even studies showcase that promiscuous women are much more likely to cheat and are more prone to emotional instability tagged with mental health issues. Most of their marriages end in divorce according to studies as well.


    What’s frustrating is that most promiscuous women realize that they have lesser dating value due to their actions- and instead of accepting that and moving forward... they shove their lifestyle down men’s throats and say men are insecure if they don’t accept them. It’s the epitome of denial lol.


    The fact is that no man wants to imagine his wife being tag teamed by a bunch of guys who didn’t even know her name. Sex is a bond that’s naturally supposed to have substance and meaning. You should have some type of connection with a person before you jump into bed with them. There’s something cold and off putting when you do it just for the mechanics with a multitude of strangers. It’s always been this way.


    I’m not the type who says you have to wait till marriage. I’m going to teach my future daughter that she needs to at least have feelings and be in a relationship to have sex. I’ll tell her my mistakes and how women end up when they sleep around.


    So when I hear terms like “embraces sexuality” in my late twenties at this point- I immediately get turned off and want to disassociate myself with that woman right away. It’s just classless to me. Those types of women interested me in college, but I’ve changed a lot since then.

    • Thanks for actually putting thought into your opinion.

  • A woman does not have to sleep around, or be promiscuous, in order to become sexually experienced. Such a woman is very attractive. However, if a woman becomes sexually experienced by sleeping around, then it is unattractive and of no interest. This lack of interest (interpreted through the ego) will often be labelled as insecurity or intimidation. But it is not, it is simply unattraction.

    • Nicely put and exactly the point

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  • My boyfriend is pretty much intimidated by me since im experienced in blowjobs and he's never had one and i can understand to an extent because i hurt him.

    • Oh no, how did you hurt him?

    • It's my past:( its awful.. i actually regret it with the people and i feel like crap all the time i knew i liked the action but i hated that i put that image of myself and the guys didn't really care about me.. its just a lot.

    • I know that feeling, trust me... but that is your past. If you're already feeling guilty about it, he doesn't get to make you feel worse about yourself when he wasn't even in the picture.

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  • I don't mind. Their loss ;)

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  • Nope. Not a bit. Many of the women I know and are friends with are very sexual and not at all bashful about it, and so have many of the women I've dated. Sex is a natural and normal thing, and as long as she understands that there's a time and a place, and isn't inappropriate at the wrong times, then I'm all for it.

  • If a woman, as one did to me, comes up and grabs my balls in a bar to go have sex, no problem. If a woman picks me up and we are having sex in five minutes, as another did, no problem. If two women, as two did, start to challenge me on dick size and we go back to their place for a 3some to prove it, no problem. However, since I accepted their sexuality, then they will have to accept my instinctive seed-spreading sexuality as I go with the next woman that does the same. Fair is fair, I say. As long as women accept my lone-wolf sexuality, then they can have theirs without any judgment from me. Just don’t judge me for not staying in a relationship.

  • No not at all I find it to be a turn on and a very beautiful thing

  • No I am not intimidated if the woman enjoys her sexuality. Actually to me it is a turn on.

  • Not at all!! I love every woman that can teach me something, or show me something, that makes women feel AMAZING!! Even just friends, or married ones, TOTALLY OFF-LIMITS!! But sharing details, and how, for their friends, or others, maybe!
    I'M NOT at ALL a player, and if you have read any of my posts, you know I just love women, adore women, and just love to share wonderful things, together, with them, and not even BJ's!!!
    I love when a Lady shares her personal way, and how she loves being touched, so I know where to start, and don't seem like some idiot!!

  • Nope, I support it.

  • I ONLY date women who embrace a sex-positive attitude. When you get to my age, the games and bullshit just aren't fun anymore. In fact they never were, I just have don't have the time of tolerance for timid, shy, or "good" girls.

  • It depends how experienced She is. If She banged a hundred guys then I sure as hell wouldn't marry her.

  • Why do you use the term "intimidated?"

    If I'm walking down the sidewalk and I swerve a little to avoid stepping in dogshit, I wouldn't say the dog turd "intimidated" me.

    • Lol. You're like soo funny

  • Nope. My girlfriend is quite experienced. The only worry I'd have is that she should be free of STDs and other things. Apart from that, its an advantage.

  • No, I can't imagine wasting my time being intimidated by a woman who does that.
    The only reason some people don't like it because it's simply not all that appealing to some people and that's fine.

  • Why? We should all be equal... In always... Some r better at things than others, so they should do them, it shouldn't matter sex or color... So as a member of the human race... I think you should be human... Your life experiences are who ur r... Some bad some good experiences... We learn, we improve, and we use it all to make us better.

    So no, bring it on.

  • Nope...
    I love to fuck experience woman 😘

    • I would love to fuck u right now. Pm me 😘

    • Really Sam? You realize you appear desperate.

    • @RunningMan86 🖤🖤🖤

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  • Embracing sexuality doesn't mean fulfilling all your sexual impulses. Thats the problem with post-modern thinking. 0 accountability, 0 self control, 0 morality.
    I feel the same way I do about men and women have 0 self-control, they have lowered themselves to the level of animals. I will treat them as such.
    Its not about intimidation, its about disgust.

    • Embracing sexuality doesn't equal no self control... they're not the same thing.

    • Then what does it mean? lmao. Sexual experience as you put it, means having a lot of sex with a lot of people. Its a euphemism tbh.

    • No, it doesn't... nowhere did I say a lot of people... Lemme break it down for you, if you work the same job everyday for a year you're going to have the same amount of experience as someone who was also working for a year but doing different jobs.

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  • It's not an issue unless it's lead her to cheat.

  • no why would it make me uncomfortable? i have no sexual experienced i feel bad for not having it

    • @Chunkysalsa90 just curious you up to chat in pm

  • Just make sure you are upfront with guys about that as many do care and should know upfront instead of finding out later. Be upfront and all is good. Don’t hide it. I would want to know.

  • Nope. I love it actually

  • Oh no, this would raise my interest

  • Absolutely not. I think it's hot 😅

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