Are short dildos good for beginners?

I have a tight vagina so I’m gonna try to stretch it with a dildo but it is only 4 inches. I couldn’t afford a longer one. Are those still good?
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  • Of course it is still good! It may not replicate a real penis, but as long as it feels good, that's all that matters!! When I first started out, I began with a shorter toy to get used to the feeling of having something inside of me.
    Generally speaking, tight vaginas don't really exist. If you get yourself wet enough you should be able to fit many things inside of it. However, it does take some practice and time to get used to something being in your vagina if you have never had anything in there before.
    Also, I would like to quickly mention the quality of dildos. Some cheaper dildos may be made out of cheaper and more porous material which is not good for the inside of your vagina. So make sure that you are using a good quality dildo! For more information, just do a quick google search on this topic.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Couldn't afford a larger one? Spoken like someone who has never actually bought a sex toy before... Or had a vagina now that I think about it.

    • Well it is my first time using a sex toy so that is accurate

    • Is it your first time using a vagina too?

    • Well not everyone is as sexually active as you are. Just because I have a vagina doesn’t mean I’ll make use of it. I still have time

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I reccomend getting a boyfriend
    He can use his fingers on you and oral until you loosen up.
    Much better to not experiment with toys

    • I don’t like fingers.

    • There nothing wrong w toys.

    • @tripptt9 shoving plastic objects into yourself, there is something deeply wrong about that

  • get the longer one and dont push it in as far... it will save you buying another one as soon as you are bored of old stubby

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  • Don't worry about the length... you don't have to put the whole thing in.

    Get something on the skinny side to start out with. When I started I used my hairbrush handle... much smaller than most dildos & penises... and it worked like a charm:)

  • Length is not important.

    • Did the universe just solve the ubiquitous penis size question?

    • @Meatunnel69 Well it is important... but mostly only to you guys...

    • Girls send mixed messages about importance

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  • Yes, that's a good option.

  • You're going to stretch your vagina. Got it. WTF has happen to our youth?

  • Yes, you mostly need to get use to the pressure around the entry to your vagina, learning to relax more than stretching. Length is more about getting use to how much length is comfortable and controlling how much he pushes in.

  • Its not the length, but thickness of the dildo.

    • So how thick should a real penis be to feel good @Jane12 ? And how long?

    • Oops, sorry just noticed your age -- no offence intended

    • @pierre7i it's okay

  • better than nothing i guess

    • Thats wut my ex said to my DIQ

  • Won't really replicate most penises. Also it won't loosen your vagina much, if at all.

  • There's no such thing as "tight" and loose". the vagina stretches and contracts to fit ALL sizes

    It'll feel uncomfortable for a few seconds every time you get a bigger one, but, there's no such thing as tight and loose

    Those are terms that people use to call people sluts and prudes. to get away with calling them sluts and prudes. pretty sick, isn't it?

  • You should of just bought an 8" or 9" and just put it in half way

  • just don't lose it in you

  • Try a cucumber instead

  • It might do the job

  • Dont buy any dildo
    Use me as your dildo instead