I discovered it when an ex cheated on me. I gave her a chance to come clean about it, didn't let her know I had proof, and she chose to continue lying. Dumped her knowing I would never be able to trust her again.
Cuckolding was complex for me at first. Strangely, thinking about her with another guy was a mix of being disgusted but also strangely arousing. I have zero interest in other men so it was definitely strange. What does any guy do when they find something arousing though? They click the more button and try to get a deeper understanding of what makes it work.
For me, I'm aroused by: taking and giving up control in the bedroom, domination, my partner's arousal, voyeurism. It turns out it wasn't much of a stretch for me to get turned on by the thought of my partner looking me right in the eye while she's getting it good from another guy. If she happens to get turned on by my arousal from watching, a feedback loop forms and it's a whole new level of amazing sexcapades. It's just a different kind of threesome really.
I get the whole small dick/interracial thing, but it's not my thing. I'm in that lucky category of men that women try to sleep with because of a reputation for size and skill. I've even had a few ex's try and set me up with their cousins, friends, etc after our thing ends. And yet... cuckolding is a huge turn on for me. The other guy is really just a prop as far as I'm concerned. The better he fucks her, the more arousing it is for me. If he breaks our rules, out he goes never to be seen again. If she breaks the rules, off to dumpsterville she goes. Why would you break the rules when your guy lets you fuck other men? That's just dumb.
One of the keys I think everyone misses is that everybody is aroused and on board when cuckolding is done right. If you're cheating and lying, you get dumped, and that's the end. And calling the boyfriend for a month straight multiple times a day after he dumped you for cheating only gets you the sound of his voice on the voicemail recording, forever. I look back at it as dodging a bullet. Plus, I uploaded that bitch's crying voicemail to Napster back in the day for shits and giggles. Lots of laughs for my friends and I!
it was something that started to become popular. due to porn and people that cheat on their partner. also partly from the modern feminist movement. because many boys are indoctrinated into thinking they are weak and useless. since much of traditional male behavior is viewed as toxic.
I think men who are really insecure about their relationship and themselves do it as a way to face their worst fear head on and just acknowledge it. Like if a guy thinks he's not a real man and can't help but think his wife is lying whenever she tells him he'll want her to just play out his insecurities so he doesn't have to constantly hide them and feel its happening behind his back. Like i think these guys feel they're not "worthy" of sexually satisfying their wives so they ask a "real man" to do it for him and they feel content and happy about being accepted as the like... I don't know secondary man in the relationship? Either that or i think guys are just so used to their partner they want to watch her fuck other guys, i think black men tend to be the preferred choice because they're so "different" and its sadly seen as slutty and dirty to sleep with a black man to a cuckolds mind which i find really lame personally.
Yea cucking is lame in my opinion, but i'm interested in knowing is what does the women get out of the relationship? I truly don't get it, like you're with a guy who hates himself and sees you as a sexual object and activate wants you to be with another man, and the guy your sleeping with is probably just a douche that doesn't really care about you and is only in it for sex. I don't get why women go with it.
As someone who has done the cuckold thing before, I think you've hit the nail on the head
@nile92 shit dude, well i hope it worked out for you i guess. just out of curiosity, were you one of the guys who sought out black guys by chance? if so i wanted to know how you contacted them and what their reaction is to the entire thing as well as what you wife or girlfriend thought when you first tried to sell her on the idea because personally i'd be like "dude, wtf..."
Nah was never into the BBC thing. My girlfriend (now ex) used to get a lot of attention from other guys so I knew it wouldn't be too hard to arrange. The hardest part was convincing my girlfriend that I really wanted her to do it... And yeah “dude wtf” is basically how she reacted to me asking her about it
Okay so I'm a girl and cuckolds are normally men right? I don't know why men like cuckolding but tbh I've had sexual thoughts of being forced to watch two people fuck. It's a fantasy of mine. Hahaha I know my comment contributes to nothing, but if you find it unbelievable to understand why men cuckold, I just want you to know there are also women who wouldn't mind cuckolding too. I don't know if there's a female term for it but yeah. For me, I like the thought of it and would be willing to do it cause in a way it makes me feel like I'm coerced to watch against my will. Watching two people fuck makes me feel like I'm not good enough to please the guy, so I'm being humiliated and forced to watch them. Dk if I'm confusing any of you hah
It's called a Cuckquean I believe? She even cleans them up after her man fucks other women in front of her.
@LeoFastbender Wow. Thanks for letting me know. Sounds weird haha
No problem. I just know because I asked about it one time. I think it would be more exciting if the woman was the cuck personally. I fantasize that she would want me to have sex with her friends because she's so proud of me.😅
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think for some, it's a fetish. For others, I guess they're just so desperate that they're willing to just take what they can get, even if it means putting up with a bunch of bullshit.
It's just like any other sexual niche or fetish. Guys into feet, licking armpits, watersports, trans, interracial, etc. The lists are endless. But, usually makes a perfect cuck couple is the combination of attracting opposites. Where in most cases male enjoys watching more than participating coupled with a female that usually has a high-rev motor sex drive & enjoys being the center of attention.
Also, don't forget that sex takes place just as much, if not more so, in the head as well as the body. And, while it is def not a lifestyle for all, there is certainly no reason to go around pissing allover what two people choose to do together.
You act like people can't enjoy things that are outside your viewpoint. Jesus I hate people.
It's a kink, there's no right answer for that.
but a disgusting kink
That's your opinion. You don't have to like it but let them do whatever they want to 🙄
alright mam
It's just another fetish, like if you're straight you're straight and if you're gay, you're gay. Becoming cuckold doesn't mean that those men were forced to do so. Everyone has their own fetishes
but it is shitty fetish.
Tbh when you watch porn your just watching a guy fuck a girl in front of you. while you get no sex. So now just make that girl your partner. Not really a far fetch so i can see why guys may of got this fetish due to porn.
So has the fetish of seeing their wives as whore. It's linked to degradation and humiliation kink
Because they trust unworthy women.
1. His woman cheats on him, because his knowledge is not required. If she has sex with another man while he remains faithful to her, he is a cuckold, whether he wants to be or not.
2. He willingly accepts it.
if he doesn't know that his woman cheats but she cheats , is then he still a cuckold?
Yes because a cuckold is a faithful man whose woman has sex with another man or multiple men. His consent or knowledge is not required. If you've been raising another man's baby your entire relationship, you are a cuckold. Doesn't matter if you know. Knowing is just realizing that you are one basically. But that's separate from the fetish and fantasy. Which can also be without consent. A woman can simply desire to do it to a man, not the other way around.
so how can you not be a cuckold unknowingly because girl is an independent human, i want an answer for everyone on gag
You asking about something which gets defined probably by dna and soul...
That you see it as disgusting is your personal opinion, which gives you not the right to judge over them...
Im into fat chicks, some (most) people find that disgusting... I find not minding their own business disgusting... I dont understand how guys find slim chicks attractive, but you know what, its not my fckn business...
Im into it... both giving and receiving. Im a BDSM dom and kinkster. I love cucking other mens wives and gfs. My last girlfriend was my live-in submissive for four years and as a treat once in a while id let her have sex with this other guy whom she worked with. Sometimes at his place, sometimes here but when she got back to my bed id reclaim her with rough sex and our orgasms would be fabulous. Cucking, once done with trust/respect can be extremely erotically satisfying.
Usually by their partner banging another man. 🤷
Because the world is filled with thirsty Betas.
they become republicans
after all, they love to SEE PEOPLE GET SCREWED
Each to their own. If that's what they do and they are happy thats all that matters
No idea there are so many kinks in the world
Comes from within
some enjoy it. different strokes for different folks
Its gay
It's just a fantasy. U also might have some fantasy that others might feel awkward about
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