Should I tell my boyfriend?

[sweetandshyxo]

i think he senses that something is off because he just asked me if my day has been okay I haven’t answered him yet but the truth is that I’m worried I’ve been crying today because I’m worried that I haven’t gotten my period yet. We have always had protected sex (condoms) and sex is new to me so it makes me even more worried. I’ve been a little scared to tell him but I haven’t had anyone to talk to and I’m just crying by myself in the room. Today I thought I was getting my period but it was just a little spotting that went away I haven’t been feeling nauseous or light headed or anything but I’m still worried that I might not get my period this month/ be pregnant I’m scared.

[chriscdi]

yes tell him, i doubt you are pregnant, if anything remember stores always have pregnancy tests, so get a pack, test yourself and have closure, i personally think you are over reacting and i do believe you should tell him, not keeping secrets is what keeps a relationship strong and healthy.

[sweetandshyxo]

This is what I wrote to him does it sound okay? “ I’ve just been very worried because I haven’t gotten my period yet last time I had my period was on July 9 I know that this is probably just me being paranoid because I’m new to this im not even nauseous or light headed or anything but I just have been feeling very worried because I haven’t gotten it yet so I’ve just been spending my day worrying and trying to calm down a bit close my eyes etc. Probably because this is all new to me and I tend to overthink *tbh“

[sweetandshyxo]

That was my response to has my day been okay

[chriscdi]

you didn't tell him that you think you are pregnant? you should probably mention that if he isn't getting the hint with this but yea it sounds good, now just have a serious talk about this, i doubt you are pregnant, the late period im sure can be many things and considering you haven't gotten any other signs probably means its just something else, i think you should take a pregnancy test tho just so you get an answer.

[sweetandshyxo]

The missing period is an indicator of that so I thought I wouldn’t have to mention it

[sweetandshyxo]

Im afraid that I’ll scare him off

[chriscdi]

well if he does leave and you aren't pregnant then you just had your eyes open that you were wasting your time with a guy that would leave you in the roughest times, seems like a win win to me

[chriscdi]

anyways here, straight from google, other reasons for late periods Excessive weight loss or gain. Although low body weight is a common cause of missed or irregular periods, obesity also can cause menstrual problems. Eating disorders, such as anorexia or bulimia. For more information, see the topic Anorexia Nervosa or Bulimia Nervosa. Increased exercise. Missed periods are common in endurance athletes. Emotional stress. Illness. Travel. Medicines such as birth control methods, which may cause lighter, less frequent, more frequent, or skipped periods or no periods at all. Hormone problems. This may cause a change in the levels of the hormones that the body needs to support menstruation. Illegal drug use. Problems with the pelvic organs, such as imperforate hymen, polycystic ovary syndrome, or Asherman's syndrome. Breastfeeding. Many women do not resume regular periods until they have completed breastfeeding

[bannacookies]

I got the update you started. That's good. I have a question for you: It seems like this relationship is freaking you out sometimes. Which is understandable, it's new and confusing at times. Do you find it worth the stress to be with him/in a relationship?

It sounds stressful to me. I'd have a hard time staying in such a relationship. But I'm one of those single pringles who likes it what way. Anyways, I was generally curious.

[sweetandshyxo]

Im like this now but when I’m with him I’m the happiest girl I could be.

[sweetandshyxo]

We are so happy together and have never argued even though we have a had a few disagreements we are very sweet to each other and it’s a very healthy relationship I’m just scared because the sex, a guy saying that he wants to marry me and grow old with me, everything I just new to me.

[bannacookies]

Ah, yeah. I understand. Thanks for replying.

[UnknownGagsUser]

Maybe you guys can talk , sharing it off your chest is better than dealing with it alone.

[sweetandshyxo]

It was just paranoia I got my period

[ZackBan]

Its called a pregnancy scare. Every female human being has had one of those.
Try not to panic, remember couples try for weeks on end to get pregnant for it to work. You did it like twice AND he had protection on. The odds are very VERY low.
Just keep calm and if you need to be sure get a pregnancy test I'm told they're easy to use and to procure.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He is so awesome!!!

[sweetandshyxo]

He is

[Gwenhwyfar]

Like your new pic

[sweetandshyxo]

Lol thank you

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think he needs to know what's going on

[Ripper_E]

People forget that sex comes with responsibility. If you don't accept them or the consequences, then don't do it, but like everything else in life, people do it anyway.
I hope everything works out for you.

[sweetandshyxo]

But we only do it the protected way. I ended up getting my period today

[Ripper_E]

That isn't guaranteed. Many have gotten pregnant even with protection. I wasn't trying the shame you. I was saying in general. If a person isn't willing to accept the responsibility and consequences, they should abstain.

[Massageman]

What scares you more - mentioning it to him and being vulnerable or having a baby?

[sweetandshyxo]

This is what I wrote to him does it sound okay? “ I’ve just been very worried because I haven’t gotten my period yet last time I had my period was on July 9 I know that this is probably just me being paranoid because I’m new to this im not even nauseous or light headed or anything but I just have been feeling very worried because I haven’t gotten it yet so I’ve just been spending my day worrying and trying to calm down a bit close my eyes etc. Probably because this is all new to me and I tend to overthink *tbh“

[sweetandshyxo]

That was my response to him asking me if my day has been okay

[sweetandshyxo]

We’ve always used condoms

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/vKeoYsUmIRI

[SirBearon]

Yes, tell him. Don't worry until there is as reason to worry. Go take a pregnancy test. Maybe try birth control. Y may be a good time to start letting him cum in your mouth too. :)

[sweetandshyxo]

Aren’t condoms enough? If I take birth control my parents will know

[SirBearon]

You're old enough. Your have to lose your virginity at some point. Besides, bringing home birth control is far better than bringing home a baby when you're not ready. No, condoms are not enough.

[sweetandshyxo]

I don’t think I want to have sex at all anymore.

[SirBearon]

Tell your boyfriend, if he is ok with that then he's a good guy. Good way to test his motives.

[sweetandshyxo]

I feel this way now because I’m scared but I might change my mind. My boyfriend has never cared about sex

[SirBearon]

I know he will now after you opening yourself for him. That pussy too good to get yanked away sometimes.

[Meatunnel69]

He sounds like a great guy, im sorry you are stressed out about it makes sex not as fun. Perhaps birth control plus a condom would make you feel better most people just use birth control
and go raw dog but the added condom would make pregnancy nearly impossible , also Birth control can change your periods if you are on them now might explain lack. Once you have more sex you will become more comfortable and confident in your ability to not become pregnant.

[Meatunnel69]

You can get birth control and claim it’s to better control your periods my ex had really bad cramps and this helped her even before she was sexually active. I wouldn't trust condoms alone especially if he is new to sex it has to have not been damaged and must remain on until he pulls out. Perhaps if you two still use condoms agree to have him pull out before coming this will help a lot to reduce chances without you being on birth control

[COMMODOREII]

He sounds like a cool guy. That is awesome. 👍😎

[Tstrbrainer]

You got a good guy as your boyfriend 👍👍👍

[sweetandshyxo]

I know I do yet people on here call me naive because I said that this is going to be the guy that I want to be with forever

[Tstrbrainer]

Don't let others determine the future of your relationship.

[berserk945]

If you do, call him!

[sweetandshyxo]

I can’t because my parents will hear me. I already texted him and he saw

[berserk945]

What he say?

[sweetandshyxo]

I got my period so it was all for nothing. He was very sweet and understanding as usual

[berserk945]

Great!

[Anonymous]

Don't worry, everything is going to be alright

[sweetandshyxo]

Should I tell him?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but preferably in person

[sweetandshyxo]

But I only meet up with him on Fridays i can’t see him today

[Opinion Owner]

Well by phone call at the very least

[sweetandshyxo]

I can’t my parents will hear me and we don’t do phone calls

[Opinion Owner]

Congrats See told ya it would be alright