I know a guy like you. You explained it quite well.
It's easier to explain something when you explained it a few times already 😂
I bet. I give you a lot of credit for understanding her physical need for it though. The guy I know doesn't so much, and basically just ignors my friend sexually. He used to try for her, but he's so bored by it he always comes up with excuses why he can't now.
Yeah, that's the troublesome part for a couple that's composed of a sexual person and an asexual one. The sexual one's got needs, and if she doesn't get enough, she's gonna leave.
Yeah, she really loves him thoug. It's a tough situation.
Hopefully, he'll understand that she has needs and that it's "free to give", unlike other needs (food, by example)
Good point. I really hope he does too. They're really great together in every other way.
Talk to you on another thread maybe. Time to go sleep. Also, there's not much else to add 😂
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I swear zoomers are gonna kill me.
What's the difference between a demisexual and sapiosexual? Do you happen to know?
Demis get sexual attraction after a strong bond with a person, Sapios get sexually attracted to intelligence instead of physical appearance and aces feel no sexual attraction at all 😊
Thank you 🤗🤗🤗I think im a demisexual too. And a little sapio lol is that possible I don't know
Happy pride, sis 😊
that's not a thing, that's just called being a normal female. most women don't want sex without an emotional bond it doesn't need a special name, ugh these kids and their labels
@chapawapa no i'm right, your labels are just a children's fad
@007kingifrit False. loser
@chapawapa very mature and informed input. you sure do show me that i'm wrong by being articulatethis is sarcasm by the way your short childish answers indicate i'm right about demisexuals. they don't exist and only stupid kids would be brought in by such unnecessary labels.you know what we used to call demisexual women? conservative
@007kingifrit *cough* loser
@chapawapa emoji and one word insults? yup you're an unintelligent teenager
@chapawapa are you sure you're 31? not 11?
Don't want to talk with you really... You only have idiotic things to say....Just seeing how long you'll goAlso why are you talking to an 11 year old. Pedo 👋🏽
@chapawapa well it seems to say you're 31 but its sad how you actand i actually have very sophisticated things to say. demisexual is just "conservative" in childspeak
I just don't like you based off first impressions. Sooooo not really trying here ~11 year old female
@chapawapa sooooo you are 11 and your profile says your 31?
You'll never know
Maybe you will
@chapawapa its quite obvious based on your speech patterns that you're a preteen girl
Ditto pedophile~11 year's young
Dude fuck off, no sexuality should ever be erased. What you're doing is the same as if a person is talking about their Christianity and you just say 'god isn't real, uhg you delusional kids'. And stop bothering her. If she doesn't want to say her age she doesn't have to.
its not being erased it just didn't exist in the first place. you are coming up with labels to pack people into little boxes when that's not helpful or good for you. people don't need these labels they just divide them
If there's a word that makes me feel happier about myself and lets me feel more comfortable in my skin then Imma use it dude. And that label on me is a label I'm proud of and I like to stick by. Its not hurting you. So I say again, fuck off.
that's the thing though it only makes you feel that way in the short term, in the long term it divides you into small categories, binds you to that identity and tells others how to see you and gives the impression you can't change.labels don't define behavior, they cause itits bad for society, it divides us
This is dumb. Just cause I'm not asexual doesn't mean I'm the exact opposite. I don't sleep around a lot and the few times I did I was safe. I haven't done wild sh*t just because someone wants to justify what's happened before. And no right now I'm single. People want to say I have friend lady or some advisor who has my wish to set up the very things I've been reporting and exposing.
demisexual meaning you only have sex with men you are emotionally connected to? that's not a sexuality. that's just called being conservative
@007kingifrit Most people can feel sexual attraction even before the emotional connection. Demisexuals literally CAN'T feel that until the emotional connection. It's nothing to do with being conservative. *sigh* This is why I don't usually talk about it. People misunderstand it all the damn time.
no they can, its just a made up label. there is no biology to it at all
They dont have sex
@askedyou123 are they attracted to others?
Yes, theyre just not sexual i think
@askedyou123 so are they attracted to either gender usually?
I would guess so yes
@askedyou123 I dont know why the asker of the question doesn't enlighten us when we ask about the topic.
Yeah lol, i looked it up tho, Asexual people are attracted to people but not in a sexual manner
@askedyou123 any romantic feelings or yearning? It's hard to imagine what its like
I think Asexuals are like everyone else, just not down with sex
@askedyou123 that would be weird
Not really, its ok as long as its not hurting anyone, people dont have to fit in with social norms
What was bad about it?
@RemoErdosain it made me feel gross and unattractive.
OK, I can understand that, I guess. But you said you thought you dated an asexual, so I'm guessing he didn't say he was asexual from the get-go? How did you find out?
@RemoErdosain he didn't say he was asexual just that he was waiting for marriage.
When did he say that? Did you ever try to have sex with him and just got denied?
@RemoErdosain he said it at the beginning and I was cool with it at the time. Tried a few times, probably horribly because he was my first boyfriend.
Yeah, that must've sucked. I was asking because I always wondered how the relationships with asexuals went. I might consider one right now, to be fair