Would you date asexual guy?

[Arch-Juan1997]

[myhaiva]

A lot of people here misunderstand asexuality. There's two different types: "the one that is uninterested by sex", which I'll call the "Uninterested", and "the one who's repulsed by it", which I'll call the "Repulsed". Beyond that part there's the usual sexual orientation, but it simply states the people they get interested into.

I'm an Uninterested Heteroasexual. I'll explain from that point of view. A lot of people think that the Uninterested are like the Repulsed, and that they won't have sex ever, won't be find you attractive or anything. That's wrong. I find women attractive. I have sex. Though I derive no pleasure from it, it's pretty much like playing tennis with your girlfriend. A guy should please his girlfriend. Like I'd probably do something I have no interest in to please her, sex is aldo an option. I have no problem getting hard either.

The big difference with normal sexuality and uninterested asexuality is that the asexual won't ever initiate, if you want it, he'll be happy to give it if you initiate.

[CuteNerd9]

I know a guy like you. You explained it quite well.

[myhaiva]

It's easier to explain something when you explained it a few times already 😂

[CuteNerd9]

I bet. I give you a lot of credit for understanding her physical need for it though. The guy I know doesn't so much, and basically just ignors my friend sexually. He used to try for her, but he's so bored by it he always comes up with excuses why he can't now.

[myhaiva]

Yeah, that's the troublesome part for a couple that's composed of a sexual person and an asexual one. The sexual one's got needs, and if she doesn't get enough, she's gonna leave.

[CuteNerd9]

Yeah, she really loves him thoug. It's a tough situation.

[myhaiva]

Hopefully, he'll understand that she has needs and that it's "free to give", unlike other needs (food, by example)

[CuteNerd9]

Good point. I really hope he does too. They're really great together in every other way.

[myhaiva]

Talk to you on another thread maybe. Time to go sleep. Also, there's not much else to add 😂

[CuteNerd9]

Goodnight. 😊

[rosscore728]

Dude wtf kind of question is that. If you don't have any sexual desires then you might want to go get that checked. It's safe to say that women may date you but when she realizes your not turned on by her she'll be in my bed having her pussy ate like she has never had before. You might want to either marry a nun or have tons of cash. Man Im sorry you are asexual.

[babybae96]

No. I’m never in it only for sex, I seek for love but I understand within love also sex is a part of it. I’d find it weird if he wasn’t interested in that. I’d get bored and confused, whether he is just a friend material.


Maybe you should find yourself an asexual girl for a better match, or figure out if you really are asexual. Perhaps it’s the mood, perhaps it’s the worries, or just not a girl you find sexually attractive. Maybe you are a type of a guy who doesn’t feel sexual until being emotionally invested. Figure this out really and you will see.

[Can-I-Get-A-DoOver]

No. I like a man who wants sex with a woman. I want sex with a man. Just one. I want to feel like a woman with a man, and I want him to really really like being a man with a woman. You can’t do that if you’re asexual.

[mindNsoul]

I need coffee after this

[Aliceinwonderland22]

Probally could, sex is fun donr get me wrong, but I prefer the cuddling aspect... I would have an issue if someone was aromatic as they are uncomfortable with kissing and hand holding sometimes...

[raven6933]

No would not date, asexual guy or any sexual guy😂. Could not resist. How ever a female yes. There ate some people that can not have sex for one reason or another, that does not mean they should be kicked to the curb.

[jshm2]

That's like asking if you would buy chocolate cake, if it had no chocolate, and was not a cake.

[Avicenna]

No doubt a few girls might

[honeybunSs]

No, i want to lose my virginity someday and i want sex to be part of my relationship.

[mrArcher]

I swear zoomers are gonna kill me.

[angeliquedevereux2]

I'm Demisexual (I'll skip your Google search, it's like ace but you feel sexual attraction after creating a bond) so I would definitely

[chapawapa]

What's the difference between a demisexual and sapiosexual? Do you happen to know?

[angeliquedevereux2]

Demis get sexual attraction after a strong bond with a person, Sapios get sexually attracted to intelligence instead of physical appearance and aces feel no sexual attraction at all 😊

[chapawapa]

Thank you 🤗🤗🤗 I think im a demisexual too. And a little sapio lol is that possible I don't know

[angeliquedevereux2]

Happy pride, sis 😊

[007kingifrit]

that's not a thing, that's just called being a normal female. most women don't want sex without an emotional bond it doesn't need a special name, ugh these kids and their labels

[chapawapa]

@007kingifrit false

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa no i'm right, your labels are just a children's fad

[chapawapa]

@007kingifrit False. loser

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa very mature and informed input. you sure do show me that i'm wrong by being articulate this is sarcasm by the way your short childish answers indicate i'm right about demisexuals. they don't exist and only stupid kids would be brought in by such unnecessary labels. you know what we used to call demisexual women? conservative

[chapawapa]

@007kingifrit *cough* loser

[chapawapa]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa emoji and one word insults? yup you're an unintelligent teenager

[chapawapa]

Freeeak

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa are you sure you're 31? not 11?

[chapawapa]

Don't want to talk with you really... You only have idiotic things to say. . . . Just seeing how long you'll go Also why are you talking to an 11 year old. Pedo 👋🏽

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa well it seems to say you're 31 but its sad how you act and i actually have very sophisticated things to say. demisexual is just "conservative" in childspeak

[chapawapa]

I just don't like you based off first impressions. Sooooo not really trying here ~11 year old female

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa sooooo you are 11 and your profile says your 31?

[chapawapa]

You'll never know

[chapawapa]

Maybe you will

[chapawapa]

Who knows

[007kingifrit]

@chapawapa its quite obvious based on your speech patterns that you're a preteen girl

[chapawapa]

Ditto pedophile ~11 year's young

[angeliquedevereux2]

Dude fuck off, no sexuality should ever be erased. What you're doing is the same as if a person is talking about their Christianity and you just say 'god isn't real, uhg you delusional kids'. And stop bothering her. If she doesn't want to say her age she doesn't have to.

[007kingifrit]

its not being erased it just didn't exist in the first place. you are coming up with labels to pack people into little boxes when that's not helpful or good for you. people don't need these labels they just divide them

[angeliquedevereux2]

If there's a word that makes me feel happier about myself and lets me feel more comfortable in my skin then Imma use it dude. And that label on me is a label I'm proud of and I like to stick by. Its not hurting you. So I say again, fuck off.

[007kingifrit]

that's the thing though it only makes you feel that way in the short term, in the long term it divides you into small categories, binds you to that identity and tells others how to see you and gives the impression you can't change. labels don't define behavior, they cause it its bad for society, it divides us

[GlitterFairy16]

I don't really get how i could date someone who wasn't attracted to me, they would be more of a friend to me than a partner.

Id end up feeling unwanted and unattractive to them, it's no kind of relationship.

[sheikalana]

Probably not for too long.

[anon1903]

If he can be seduced yeah.

[Little_Princesa]

I'm not much into sex but I want to get pregnant at least once so thats an issue.

[JosyJosy]

Arggh if I can have a fuckbuddy on the side or something. As sweet as just cuddling can be, even that can turn me on

[chapawapa]

If he is a Cuckold

Sure 🤷🏽‍♀️

[DavidDong]

I'm not gay but like I have a friend who is asexual and I've talked to a few and i must admit that quite a few are dodgy, including my friend
I dont like him much

[Nikki1989]

Extremely unlikely.

[TacosRAwesome]

I think I did. It was hell.

[RemoErdosain]

What was bad about it?

[TacosRAwesome]

@RemoErdosain it made me feel gross and unattractive.

[RemoErdosain]

OK, I can understand that, I guess. But you said you thought you dated an asexual, so I'm guessing he didn't say he was asexual from the get-go? How did you find out?

[TacosRAwesome]

@RemoErdosain he didn't say he was asexual just that he was waiting for marriage.

[RemoErdosain]

When did he say that? Did you ever try to have sex with him and just got denied?

[TacosRAwesome]

@RemoErdosain he said it at the beginning and I was cool with it at the time. Tried a few times, probably horribly because he was my first boyfriend.

[RemoErdosain]

Yeah, that must've sucked. I was asking because I always wondered how the relationships with asexuals went. I might consider one right now, to be fair

[93_n_on]

I would assume they wouldn't. But this is another lie made up and spread about me. 😒 Sh*t is stupid

[93_n_on]

This is dumb. Just cause I'm not asexual doesn't mean I'm the exact opposite. I don't sleep around a lot and the few times I did I was safe. I haven't done wild sh*t just because someone wants to justify what's happened before. And no right now I'm single. People want to say I have friend lady or some advisor who has my wish to set up the very things I've been reporting and exposing.

[Iron_Man]

That would be a friendship between that guy and girl

[tiajoka]

For sure

[Lucifer_666]

I would date an asexual girl because I'm not into sex.