Guys, What do you guys think of celibate women?

[ThiccBoai]

I don't care about sex as much as the average man. Not that I don't like it, but it doesn't rule my live like how it does with some. Than being said, I would like to have sex in a relationship before sex since I do still have some needs haha. But I also don't care about marriage as much. I'm fine with marrying, but it's not a huge goal for me. I think that I won't date a girl that wants that because of the differences in how we see things. If I really like her and she does want to wait I guess I could wait, but would still do stuff like jacking off and finding a way to deal with being horny when it happens to be around her

[Berethor]

I respect that, there is too many sluts nowadays, it's good to see a girl who wait until marriage. Yes most boys are going to leave you for not providing them with sex, because they are used for getting sex from easy girls. Anyway you should not use waiting until marriage as an excuse to drying the guy for years, religiously devoted people wait until marriage, but religiously devoted people also tend to marry much sooner than secular people.

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[Chriscunning]

I really think it's a personal preference thing. Honestly I wouldn't wait now, but I might've when I was 18. I know a few friends who didn't have sex because of the girl friends wishes. She apparently did "help him out" (I assume with her hand).

Also remember with the divorce rate at 50% plus, there is no guarantee that you won't have heartbreak in marriage as well.

Also lets say you do date someone willing to wait. Then you find them cheating because they "getting tired of waiting", you will also be heart broken.

I understand the need to protect yourself, but you also have to remember there is never a 100% way to do that.

[MostlyOwain]

There's a lot you can learn about someone by the way they treat you during sex, but that's the same as going to a restaurant and seeing how he treats your server. I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year, which means no sex because we didn't reach that comfort level until after covid-hell, and we've already discussed marriage.
We're not going to wait for marriage to have sex when we get to see each other again, but if two people who can't even hold hands can be good and loyal and in love without it for this long, I'm sure you just need to wait for the right guy to come along. Could be difficult without risking that heartbreak to date though.

[GreenGold1992]

I actually like celibate women, I think it's cool that they know what they want. I'm still a virgin myself, I'm in no rush to lose my virginity, so I could stand to lose it to the next love of my life whether she'd be celibate or not.

I understand your fear, but if you keep avoiding it, you could be missing out on something. For all you know, any of the guys you'd wind up dating who claim to be cool about celibacy could be the guy you may end up marrying someday.

Just saying, but it's your decision.

[Dobbiboy]

No problem with celibacy, having sex or not is a choice everyone should make for themselves. Being scared of guys leaving you for it is understandable, but if it happens at least you tried to have a relationship. You'll regret it more if you become a fifty year old virgin who never put herself out there.

[Dargil]

Men are validated by sexuality in a relationship. It is an essential pillar of a thriving, exclusive relationship. Without it, a relationship is incomplete and unstable. Men make better friends. That does not necessarily mean intercourse. There are other things to do and you will have to provide some or all of them. If we don't cum by some means, we will go. And it's not negotiable.

[simonqq]

For me that's a no, sex is part of the relationship and for me crucial in bonding and feeling closer to each other. Also I'm not interested in marriage unless we've been together for many years.

[chriscdi]

just look for someone with the same mindset, you'll find someone im sure missy, i think what you are doing is good, takes patience and lots of self respect, dont see anything wrong with it and the people that do are the people you should avoid anyways, just be patient, people with the same mindset exist, they are just becoming more and more rare

[winterfox10]

I know so many women who celibate, but it's not like they are waiting for marriage; they just don't do hook ups. I generally find the lack of intimacy in people's lives to be really freakin depressing.

[Celtero]

Don't really care about women in general. They're all the same in the end.

[RyanK9b]

I`m not religious and if you are not a 10/10 (character included) than I wouldn't wait.
Sex is a very important part and life is way to short to wast it with wait time.

[Twalli]

If you never date, you'll never have sex, because you'll never get married. I tell girls fairly early that I expect sex before marriage.

[Kinglet]

I don't think anything special of them, but if a guy is just trying to have quick sex and hears that you're celibate then he'll difinetly leave you on the spot.

[Anonymous]

pass, don't feel like waiting years for a girl to show she's attracted to me

[shortster]

I am also a virgin waiting for marriage. So I would prefer to date someone like you.

[Rudon00]

Its great to have females like you today. I will be proud to have a female like that

Keep it up

[hknmhmn4]

I heard the word “celibate” for the first time tbh

I think staying virgin till marriage is the best

[asshole_]

Good luck finding a man RIGHT NOW, then

[COMMODOREII]

Its your choice.