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Guys, What do you guys think of celibate women?

I’m a celibate ( virgin till marriage) and I don’t date because I’m scared that boys will end up leaving me after getting tired of not having any sex so how do you guys feel about women waiting till marriage? I would always tell the guys that show interest in me that I’m a celibate and they will say that it doesn’t bother them but I feel like after a while they would end up leaving me and that’s one of my fear I’m scared of dating just to be left alone with a heartbreak.
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  • I don't care about sex as much as the average man. Not that I don't like it, but it doesn't rule my live like how it does with some. Than being said, I would like to have sex in a relationship before sex since I do still have some needs haha. But I also don't care about marriage as much. I'm fine with marrying, but it's not a huge goal for me. I think that I won't date a girl that wants that because of the differences in how we see things. If I really like her and she does want to wait I guess I could wait, but would still do stuff like jacking off and finding a way to deal with being horny when it happens to be around her

    • Love your mindset

    • Thankyou @Wickybs 😊

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  • I respect that, there is too many sluts nowadays, it's good to see a girl who wait until marriage. Yes most boys are going to leave you for not providing them with sex, because they are used for getting sex from easy girls. Anyway you should not use waiting until marriage as an excuse to drying the guy for years, religiously devoted people wait until marriage, but religiously devoted people also tend to marry much sooner than secular people.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MadonnaWhoreComplex

    • Ouh I’m acc waiting for personal preference not for any religious beliefs haha

    • Or so you think, but looks like you follow religious rules closely than many "religious girls".

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  • For me that's a no, sex is part of the relationship and for me crucial in bonding and feeling closer to each other. Also I'm not interested in marriage unless we've been together for many years.

  • There's a lot you can learn about someone by the way they treat you during sex, but that's the same as going to a restaurant and seeing how he treats your server. I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year, which means no sex because we didn't reach that comfort level until after covid-hell, and we've already discussed marriage.
    We're not going to wait for marriage to have sex when we get to see each other again, but if two people who can't even hold hands can be good and loyal and in love without it for this long, I'm sure you just need to wait for the right guy to come along. Could be difficult without risking that heartbreak to date though.

  • No problem with celibacy, having sex or not is a choice everyone should make for themselves. Being scared of guys leaving you for it is understandable, but if it happens at least you tried to have a relationship. You'll regret it more if you become a fifty year old virgin who never put herself out there.

    • That’s true I never thought of it that way

  • I really think it's a personal preference thing. Honestly I wouldn't wait now, but I might've when I was 18. I know a few friends who didn't have sex because of the girl friends wishes. She apparently did "help him out" (I assume with her hand).

    Also remember with the divorce rate at 50% plus, there is no guarantee that you won't have heartbreak in marriage as well.

    Also lets say you do date someone willing to wait. Then you find them cheating because they "getting tired of waiting", you will also be heart broken.

    I understand the need to protect yourself, but you also have to remember there is never a 100% way to do that.

  • Don't really care about women in general. They're all the same in the end.

    • Danm Ouch

  • Men are validated by sexuality in a relationship. It is an essential pillar of a thriving, exclusive relationship. Without it, a relationship is incomplete and unstable. Men make better friends. That does not necessarily mean intercourse. There are other things to do and you will have to provide some or all of them. If we don't cum by some means, we will go. And it's not negotiable.

    • Danm that’s tough

    • But if you understand it, you can win the game.

  • just look for someone with the same mindset, you'll find someone im sure missy, i think what you are doing is good, takes patience and lots of self respect, dont see anything wrong with it and the people that do are the people you should avoid anyways, just be patient, people with the same mindset exist, they are just becoming more and more rare

    • Thank you for your advice I’m gonna continue to be patient

    • im glad to hear, i hope you find this person and i wish you the best of luck with your search 💯🙏🏽

  • I know so many women who celibate, but it's not like they are waiting for marriage; they just don't do hook ups. I generally find the lack of intimacy in people's lives to be really freakin depressing.

  • I`m not religious and if you are not a 10/10 (character included) than I wouldn't wait.
    Sex is a very important part and life is way to short to wast it with wait time.

    • It’s not for religious reason it’s just what I personally believe is best for me but I respect your opinion on it.

  • Its your choice.

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