Are women who deny men fruitful sex but seek to tame his semen with condom usage to blame for sexual disunity?

Are women who deny men fruitful sex but seek to tame his semen with condom usage to blame for sexual disunity?
Do you think many women who opt for fruitless sex over fruitful sex realize that they are emasculating men by having them use condoms? They you think they are aware of this or naive to it?

Fruitful sex is the way God wants sex to be in our life. Disunity of sexual relationships happens when you seek to have a fruitless sex life.

Why isn't semen and sperm important to many women other than just wanting it on them rather than in their body, other than mouth or butt?

Please share your views on why you think people don't want sexual unity in their life but want fruitless sex lives instead!
Women are at fault (men can't resist their orders)
Vote A
Men are at fault (men need to set the fruitful sex foundation)
Vote B
Both are at fault (men don't have to allow it but women shouldn't try to seek fruitless sex)
Vote C
God is at fault (He made sexual pleasure so great that it overtakes our willingness to procreate)
Vote D
Satan is at fault (Satan is my sex master and I'm his sex slave)
Vote E
Nobody is at fault (it is just the way it is)
Vote F
All are at fault (explain how)
Vote G
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Most Helpful Girl

  • It's none of the above answers. Women don't seek to tame anything from men. If anything it has to do with the intent of having sex and where is sex going to be taking place. A lot of people end up having sex outside of marriage, that's why they end up using condoms. At the same time there are many different reasons why some people especially in marriage may attempt to use condoms in a marriage:

    1. That person may be allergic to that person's seen, or even the secretion of a woman.
    2. One or the other naturally of course dony want yo risk transmission of diseases sexually.

    Normally the answer would be both the man and a woman to be at fault for this. But again just has to do with the intent of sex, as well as the usage of a condom. Those who are married often would not rely on a condom anyway. There are very few that actually would. And it may have their own reasons. But one thing I believe is that God should be in the middle of our sex lies and what we choose to do with it. But at the same time it also has to be a decision between the couple as long as it's for the right reasons. Anything else done especially outside of marriage naturally of course can be considered a sin before the Lord.

    But I can safely say that when it comes down, to either having fruitful or fruitless sex more so has to do with again with the intent of it. What many people do not get when it comes down to sex, it's called intercourse for a reason. You are exchanging bodily fluids. And by exchanging bodily fluids you are engaging in physical sexual intimacy. So I say it depends on the mindset of both the man and the woman. There are men who just like the idea of releasing semen, and then there are women who only cares about what she can get out of sex. But I do believe that any married couple, as I don't believe a couple should be having sex outside of marriage, who do love each other, care more about what the quality of their sex life will bring more than a condom. The only promise is that the condom barricades true connection and intimacy between the couple. But it's definitely not to tame anything.

    • I believe that a lot of people actually do want sexual Unity. But because there is so much risk, whether you're living your life Godly or ungodly, that people would just rather not take any chances. And sadly rightfully so. The one that really don't have much of a say in it are those that are already living in sexual sin. When they made the decision to participate in these things outside of marriage, they pretty much signed up for God forbid a lifetime of sexual misery. What I believe is what's going on is that the church have adapted the ways of the world so much, that they try to blend into things of the world into the things of God. And that is not something that God has called for any of us to do. He had made it very clear that Darkness cannot mix with light. But I believe that because there is so much sexual degeneracy out here in the world, and more people are being brainwashed into this stuff especially with the pornography and the sexually explicit material available, people don't really understand what sex is nor what it takes to maintain true sexual intimacy. And the only one that is able to really do that, to give them that understanding is from the word of God by God himself.

    • Yes. That's what I meant. The condom barricades true connection. The taming I meant was it alters and keep men at bay from expressing fruitful sex. I just misworded it.

    • No, no it's okay. What I am overall saying as a woman myself, I know that women period just have ideals based on what she is taught or what a guy wants. If she is not straight in herself, she can used condoms as a way to not stop fruitful sex, but to know she has authority of how she wishes to engage in sex. It's often a one way street outside of marriage. Inside of marriage is often based by the decision of the couple.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Men aren't supposed to cum while having sex most of the time
    Its called Coitus reservatus

    You are just supposed to satisfy your woman and not orgasm yourself until you are ready to make children.

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