it gets easier as you get older. Most girls I've met or dated screw on the first date nowadays. Its not like it used to be.
Isn't settling for a promiscuous slut like that, who'll screw on the first date anyway, just a variant of option C anyway (since you're effectively getting sex in exchange for covering her expenses tab on the date, and thus paying for it, even if she's only an amateur/semi-pro sex worker)?
no thats not like being a Virgin at all actually lol
Even if you're in your 30's or over? Or you're expected to have less than 20yrs left to live, as I do?
What if they don't accept charity handouts?
I've never met a straight guy who'll refuse sex
I have, repeatedly. There's no such thing as 100% guaranteed contraception; and I wouldn't fuck a woman until I was fully prepared to take full responsibility for any babies we'd create. It's called "manning up".
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Do you think your partner would also wait for your arrival?
Do you think you'd still feel the same way if you were still "waiting for the one" in ten years' time, on the verge of turning 30yrs old? Or would you feel inclined to just admit defeat and give up then, for something less meaningful and more casual?
Well I know I won’t be a virgin until 30, since I am talking to a few guys ☺️ they all said there willing to wait for me, but said it would be really hard and tempting🙊
@Estellaaa Which means you look so hot to ignore
but even if I never lose my virginity i would still be happy☺️ I wouldn’t feel defeated at all, I don’t think sex is important
I 'knew' the same thing too, back when I was your age. And I was talking to a few girls, a couple of whom claimed the same thing, while I also told them that I'd be willing to wait until I could shoulder the full burden of any future responsibilities, and was fiscally secure enough to support them and any future family. Their response? Was always to accuse me of being gay, for having the restraint and discipline not to accept the invites into their pants ASAP, and for being too handsome, fit, intelligent, eloquent and attractive for them to believe there could be any other possible explanation for a guy who looked and spoke like me to 'reject' (i. e, put off) knocking them up...
PS, I don't think sex is exceptionally important either. But I still have an extremely over-active sex drive, to the extent where I can and do easily masturbate over 15x a day routinely, and where abstaining from sexual activity for even a single day requires greater restraint and mental discipline than it did to stay completely silent and unemotive when I broke my elbow last month; where sexual abstinence is so stressful, and builds up so much pent-up sexual frustration, that it literally triggers stress-related epileptic seizures for me.