Why dont women ever friend zone you after you had sex with them?

CasaNorba Guru

I always noticed this since day one.

could it be a coincidence that women always tend to friend zone you after you've taken them out on a date or two? aka the time after you already spend time, energy and most of all MONEY on them? is like why do they always friend zone you at this same exact time during a date/hookup or whenever you're trying to start a relationship with them.

however it is a totally different story after you had sex with them. hookup or not they always tend to get super clingy towards you after just one night of sex. during this time they never want to let you go and will even get emotionally shattered or get vindictive towards you if you try to either friend zone them or just move on and break it up.

So I was just wondering, why dont women ever friend zone you after sex? yet never hesitate to impetuously friend zone you after a date? aka the time you spent money on them

Why dont women ever friend zone you after you had sex with them?

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Berethor Master
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If a woman would say that she is just friends with a man who fucked her almost no one going to believe her anyway, and if a man leave her after sex then she likely feel used.
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- CasaNorba
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  Why should she care what others think? It was between you and her. And how can someone feel used after sex? Obviously the two of you came to an agreement before the sex
- Berethor
  +1 y
  Because most women care even if they don't admit it, and men and women are different.
  
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monkeynutts Guru
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Yeah I been friendzoned after sex. It happens. But most of the time it's over and now we never talk ever again.
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- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  lucky ass! here were I'm from women think that one night of sex means and automatic ring in the finger
- monkeynutts
  +1 y
  Come to Australia, they will just use you for one night of hot steamy fun, then drop you like a sack of potatoes.
- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  oh wow so I guess @cth96190 was not bullshitting a while back when he wrote that there was brothel there that was going out of business thanks to tinder
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- cth96190
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  @CasaNorba During the past decade or so, most of the legal and illegal brothels have gone out of business. Kings Cross in Sydney is the most famous red-light district in Australia. When I went there (on business) last, which was about 10 years ago, most of the brothels, peep shows, sex shops and strip joints had closed. It felt surreal to sit at a cafe in the most notorious place in Australia and see shuttered sex businesses and for lease signs on many buildings. Where I live, Brisbane/Gold Coast, most of the legal brothels have closed. How do I know this? Because I have a private security business and such businesses are contracted sometimes to provide foyer security in such establishments.
- monkeynutts
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  @cth96190 they had it coming, it should have happened 4 decades ago. Kings Cross was a human latrine.
- cth96190
  +1 y
  @monkeynutts You are not wrong about Kings Cross. I am old enough to remember when Kings Cross was run by the Jewish gangster Abe Saffron. In those days, the police hardly went near Kings Cross. There was no reason to. Abe and is crew took care of troublemakers and scumbags, because trouble on the streets bad for business. When the Mafia ran Kings Cross, the streets were safe and everyone made money. . . even after they paid Abe his fee. After Abe died, the place turned to shit. The death blows were the licensing lockout laws and when the New South Wales Government put an injecting room for drug addicts into a shop, right next to a sex shop/peep show/hookup venue that was owned by a friend of mine. I wish that I had pockets deep enough to take a state government to court over those injecting rooms and free needles. There is no way that government funding to enable a criminal activity (illegal drugs) could survive a High Court challenge. Funding injecting rooms and giving the junkies free needles makes a government an accessory to a crime, before and during the fact.
- monkeynutts
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  @cth96190 blah blah, blah. I personally don't care. Abe Saffron was a turd, just like the crookered cops he had doing his dirty work for him, same with anyone else that had anything to do with such a shithole.
- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  so to put it simple Australia had the resources to compete with Amsterdam and Germany. it sucks that such things can start disappearing overnight
- monkeynutts
  +1 y
  There are brothels everywhere, the sex industry is thriving, the government may have cracked down on one red light district, but that's it. No great drama, nothing to write home about, or get excited about.

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anon1903 Guru
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Because she's seen what you can do and is reluctant to pass you up.

Maybe that's just me.
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- Juxtapose
  +1 y
  Good explanation, I agree.
- CasaNorba
  +1 y
  Men who are good in bed are an extreme minority, especially us millennials. Even when you don’t give your full effort they still want to cling on Either way their attitude screams loud enough that it has nothing to do with the actual sex but what they actually expect from having sex with you
- Juxtapose
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  Eh, it's not that hard to get most women to bust man.
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- CasaNorba
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  @Juxtapose still, sex is not a priority to women. they dont care who good they're getting fucked just as long as they're getting more than just sex from the person doing the fucking.
- anon1903
  +1 y
  That "something more" is the part authors literally spent weeks working on. Coming to the point, sexual needs are one of the top priorities for myself. I really don't get the "something more" part. However - I go to girl's college and therefore I can confirm that yes, woman's wants are ambiguous.