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Boyfriend is always asking for a threesome even after I have told him no multiple times, what should I do?

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Superb Opinion

  • You tell him that asking again is a deal-breaker, and if he does so, HE will have decided that your relationship is less important than a threesome, and will have thus decided to end it. And you need to absolutely stand by that NO MATTER WHAT. If you tell him that, and then go back to him, you're more-or-less agreeing to a threesome by default.

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  • He needs to shut up about it now. Cos if u give in and do it then two things (thers a third too) will happen.

    1... He knows you give in so won't stop

    2... You will regret it and resentment will set in maybe leading to a break up

    Or 3... you'll enjoy it and wonder what the fuss was.

    I think 1 or 2 is more likely. If he keeps banging on about it id threaten him with a "shut up or im history" ultimatum. Its not as thougg you haven't given him fair warning.

    Im assuming he wants an FMF? You could say... as a threat joke... ull only do an MFM.

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  • Man your dude ain’t committed I’m sorry but that’s fucked I think it’s better to break up with him... like honestly I haven’t ever even thought of having a threesome w my girlfriend me and her is enough for me and I would hope she thinks the same and we both have agreed that our relationship is our relationship there is nobody coming into it like it’s just me and her nothing more no matter who it is...

    • I don't know it’s gotten to the point where it’s weird like the other day he saw a girl with pretty feet and goes “We should have a threesome. You both are pretty and have nice feet.” And there wasn’t a smirk or grin on his face because he was very serious and wasn’t joking. It’s getting sort of out of hand with him asking or implying we should have one.

    • I think you should get out of the relationship but it’s your decision

  • IS he asking for MFM or FMF?

  • He should by now accept that you aren't into it. Tell him very clearly that you don't want it and that he should stop asking for it. Respect someone else's opinion damnit

  • You have the warning signs! If you stay, then don’t be surprised of things to come.

  • Wake up clearly that's what he wants

  • I assume he wants a threesome with another girl? If you want to take a different approach...

    The next time he asks, say yes, but only under certain conditions-

    If he's allowed to have two girls, then you are allowed to have two guys, right? It's only fair. And since it was his idea... You get to have the two guys first. That way he can't try to bow out after he gets his.

  • Red flag in your case
    So leave him.

  • If you don't want to do it put your foot down if you don't accept it you know what to do find somebody that's more in line with your thoughts and I've done a couple of threesomes and I like them but they're really not good for a relationship in my opinion as everything I say is just my opinion from my experiences in my thoughts and they may all be wrong

  • Place “ex” in front of boyfriend.

  • Sounds like he doesn't respect your boundaries. If you've told him multiple times that you won't do that, as you say you did, he clearly doesn't respect you. Time to cut bait and move on.

  • Tell him to hook up with his male friends and have an all-male gay threesome if he wants a threesome so bad. And while you sit and watch and record him and his male buddies on video having his gay threesome party. 💞

  • I'd consider breaking up. Sounds like he's unhappy

  • Just dump him already and move on. Its obvious he's not gonna stop asking.

  • Get a new boyfriend.

  • So you are just a bag of meat he uses as a fleshlight because it’s convenient. Think otherwise? You’re delusional. If a dude wants a threesome and u don’t u know everything u need to know about the prognosis of this relationship

  • If he keeps pushing it, then break up with him. You shouldn't have to do something like that if you really don't want to.

  • dump him. you clearly have mismatched values

  • FFM or MMF. ?
    Have it anyways.

  • Leave him, he just said he isn't satisfied with you, he wants someone else, if you stay with him, with time he will cheat on you and leave you for someone else

  • Have one without him

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