Are shy women more likely to be sexually attracted to bad boys?

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Again a question to get more detailed information about the bad boy phenomenon.
As you probably know, I am very interested in this whole topic. Please feel free to write your opinion about whether shy women are more attracted to bad boys in the comments. Also, if you have anything else that comes to your mind about the bad boy topic, please feel free to write it in the comments.

To make one thing clear: when i write good guys, i don't mean nice guys who have no balls in their pants and are shy losers (nothing against shy men, i used to be very shy myself), but i mean men who are just as manly, confident, good-looking, assertive etc. as the bad boys, but who, unlike the bad boys, are not evil, but friendly and humorous.

I would describe myself as rather shy and I consider bad boys to be more attractive than good guys on a purely sexual level.

I would describe myself as rather NOT shy and I consider bad boys to be more attractive than good guys on a purely sexual level.

I would describe myself as rather shy and I consider bad boys to be as attractive as good guys on a purely sexual level.

I would describe myself as rather NOT shy and I consider bad boys to be as attractive as good guys on a purely sexual level.

I would describe myself as rather shy and I consider good guys to be more attractive than bad boys on a purely sexual level.

I would describe myself as rather NOT shy and I consider good guys to be more attractive than bad boys on a purely sexual level.

I am not sexually interested in men but want to check the results.

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Answer 1

modelUN242 | 179 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Umm like bad boys could give great sex? Because bad boys are seen as risk-takers and that's kind of attractive but then again, with risk comes the possibility of death or jeopardizing your survival. Basically irresponsible and not smart. I'm looking for a family-oriented guy so definitely good guy. As for the sex, I don't focus on that and instead focus on the qualities of why I would choose a person so then the sex would be good anyways. Bad boys are more likely to rape, be into weird kinks, and probably disrespect you, in the long run, that sounds shitty and like torture so nope. In a perfect world though where one-night stands have no consequences, and families were taboo, then sure the bad boys might be a popular choice.

Tonytoutouni123

7 mo
@modelun242
Do I understand you correctly that it is only because bad boys are often seen as risk takers?

Imagine a good guy and a bad boy who are both risk takers. They are exactly the same. They look the same, they are equally brave and so on. Only one is good, the other is bad.

100% honest answer please: would you consider both of them to be equally attractive for sex in a perfect world where one night stands have no consequences and families are taboo?

Or would the bad boy somehow still be more appealing? 😉
Tonytoutouni123

7 mo
@modelun242
“Umm like bad boys could give great sex?“

Where does this idea come from? Why should it be like this?
Only if a woman considers bad boys to be sexually more attractive she will feel that sex with a bad boy is better.
But not because the bad boys could fuck better, but because the woman considers them to be hotter.
modelUN242

7 mo
@Tonytoutouni123 I mean a risk taker usually is a "bad boy", taking risk is not smart because there's a chance you could die. I don't know any "good guys" who are risk takers. I need more details about bad boys and good boys. It depends on the girl I guess, if the girl maybe has no father figure or had a bad dad, she could pick the bad boy. I also know girls who would never choose the bad boy because risk-takers are unattractive to them.

I mean movies, the media, entertainment industry shows the bad boys are usually what gets the women roused up? Bad boys are unemotionally available and independent whereas the good boys give the girl attention and love, and that's not sexy? Like bad boys are a tease and they have to chase them or get their attention. Bad boys are also more promiscuous, so women see studs as attractive and a challenge to get them to notice them.

Maybe it's not really about the sex itself like you said, but the environment and circumstances.
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Tonytoutouni123

7 mo
@modelun242
"Bad boys are also more promiscuous, so women see studs as attractive and a challenge to get them to notice them.“

Why does everyone assume that a good guy cannot live promiscuously? Is it because he doesn't appear as attractive as a bad boy for one night stands and therefore is not believed to be capable of living a very promiscuous life?

If a good guy lives very promiscuously, is he also perceived as a challenge?

"I also know girls who would never choose the bad boy because risk-takers are unattractive to them.“

Are these girls rather shy, or not? Are these girls rather doing one night stands / fuckboy relationships or do they rather want serious long-term relationships?

How about you? What did you vote for in the poll?

"whereas the good boys give the girl attention and love, and that's not sexy"

So women do not want to be loved at all?
Tonytoutouni123

6 mo
@modelun242
Especially concerning my last question. I would really like to understand it:
You say "whereas the good boys give the girl attention and love, and that's not sexy"

Does this mean that in a love relationship where both love each other, the woman is not sexually attracted to her boyfriend? Should the boyfriend
If the woman enters a love relationship, does she exchange sexual satisfaction for love?
should the boyfriend hide the fact that he loves his girlfriend to be more sexy?
Tonytoutouni123

6 mo
@modelun242
Sorry I forgot to write:

I am still curious about your opinion:

Are shy women more likely to be sexually attracted to bad boys?

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