Can a sub girl request to do something?

Apparently from my last question I got to understand that enjoying being a toy for someone who do what he wants on me, it means I'm a sub.

I have another thought which sound against this, there is something specific I enjoy to do on guys and usually I request it ( it's only one thing ) .
So now if I'm a sub yet i want to do this one thing on a guy, what does this make me? Is this weird to be a sub but still request one thing to do on a guy? Am I normal?

I prefer not to write the specific thing which i wanna do on a guy and keep it secret.
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I only told what that specific thing to the ones who asked me what it is in pm so please don't reveal it here, thank you.
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  • First off, it would be nice to know what thing you're talking about. That way, it's more clear. No point in keeping it a secret because it's all been done and if it hasn't sharing some sexy things is good for people.

    Secondly, a sub should be able to openly discuss ANY subject with her Dominant/Master. It's our jobs as Dominants to have our subs understand that her submission is a gift/bond shared between them. My goal is to understand her deepest desires, her rawest pure emotion and everything else about her. She is my EVERYTHING, it's out of love and respect for one another that we can truly develop the strongest bond. So yes, no matter what the "thing" is. She should be allowed to voice her request. At any time or any place. She still has power, she still deserves respect. Now if she's a slave under contract, then the rules may be different but that much deeper.

    Lastly, people who say they are Dominants but don't allow their submissive to have an opinion are nothing more than abusers. D/s relationships MUST be built of trust and communication before sexual enjoyment.

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  • It's actually VERY common for subs to make requests - but it's up to the Dom to grant them, and the Dom may or may not grant the request at any given time, depending on several factors. That still doesn't mean you can't make the request, though. A sub isn't a slave - there's a difference.

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  • How dare you, what a disobedient sub girl you are. :)

  • That's normal I think.
    Subs want to be dominated in certain ways.

    You can just phrase it by saying please so it doesn't break the roleplay.

  • In a healthy Dom/sub relationship, the sub is encouraged to speak (at the right time) and express her thoughts, and even desires. If I were your Dom, I'd want to know your mind, and body, as intimately as I could.

  • That's what a sub does let's herself get controlled. Now the question is whether you enjoyed it?

    • Yeah it's so much fun

    • When I was in the life I had a couple of subs. They asked for permission to do everything.

    • Sometimes it was to have a fantasy fulfilled for them.

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  • Being always sub, in my view, is not appreciable. My partner was very shy which made her sub but I encouraged her to be open and try to be dom. In the beginning she was reluctant but my encouragement has brought her to such a point where she now comfortably suggest me to reverse my position, that from being dom, I should be sub and she is free to do whatever she likes.
    You should not confine yourself to sub position permanently, reverse brings excitement and enjoyment in life.

  • In any of my relationship, part of the pleasure of sex is pleasuring the other person.

    So yeah. You so do what ever you are thinking as long as it is pleasurable and not harmful.

  • Nope

  • I'm curious what is the specific thing 😝
    I got a feeling that it's not something very sub like.

    • Yeah it's not a sub thing that why i asked this, I don't have to say what's the exact thing but you get the idea of it. It's something to do on a guy.

    • I supesct something 😉 and you are lucky to confirm my suspicious in private message if you want, but if I was him I'd let you do that one thing anyway.

    • All guys let me do that 😅 No one ever complained

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  • Depends on what the one thing is I suppose.

    • But it makes me curious about what it would be.

  • You say “may I ____ sir?” And if he says yes or no you just listen and accept it

    • Sounds good to me, I get the idea now 😄

  • In my case I might let you suggest something which I MAY later add

  • its pegging isn't it 😏😏😏😏

  • Anything and everything is ok between consenting adults, do whatever you want, you dont have to be anything, labels are just there to help communicate ideas they aren't prisons which define who you must be.

    • Perfect, thanks for your answer 😄

  • Why not ,.. if a sub girl request for anything no one will ignore it... lol
    As my sub girl requested to sit on my face , and I couldn't ignore it. and I sniffed her ass hahahaha

    • Good point