Women with rape fantasies. As a man my job is to protect not hurt plus having been a victim of rape (as a child) I don't see how its sexually appealing (no woman who has a rape fantasy understands what rape actually is (its not sexual, its about hurting a person and forcing them to do what you want, its about control not sex.).
Also the whole choking her and hitting her during sex, thats fucking weird. I mean I don't mind a passionate bout of sex, spanking or even holding her hands down or handcuffs during sex (never done it but I don't really feel like that is about hurting her but more about her ceding control (of her own volition (very important that last bit)), but the whole slapping and then choking her until she nearly passes out? No thank you.
Also yes, I am all about personality as well and I am definitley turned off if a girl wants to just jump on into it or is into casual sex. Its just weird and feels wrong (I mean clearly can't be all that special if she does it for every one).1 0 0 0First, sorry for what you went through as a child, no child should ever have to go through that! And so agree with the rest.
It is what it is. I mean I wouldn't be me if it didn't happen so in a weird way it was a good thing (basically its our trauma and how we deal with it that defines us. A person who has never suffered has never grown or developed so in reality they are the ones who are in worse shape then I was for having suffered. So really one shouldn't wish that you not suffer but that you suffer well and are strong enough to overcome it because thats when you are able to come into your own (thats why every story has to have conflict, its the only way for a character to grow and that is true to real life as well). That said, thank you.
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victim mentality. I don't even wanna get near a girl who thinks like this. Take responsibility for what you can and do your best. Complaining about shitty circumstances is one thing, but acting like you are powerless in your own life is another. Girls like this, they cannot be trusted, because they do not take responsibility for their own actions.
Being fat is pretty much right up there as well though. So the absolute biggest turn off for me is a fat girl who blames someone or something other than herself for her fatness. Look I promise you, all you hopeless fatties out there, if you wake up and sprint till you feel like puking and shitting every morning for 30 minutes, eat nothing, drink only water until late afternoon, then have 2 medium sized meals that day, STOP CONSUMING PROCESSED SUGAR OR SUBSTITUTES ENTIRELY and really just put your mind to it, you can lose the weight.
So nothing turns me on more than a fit girl who takes responsibility for her actions and is always improving herself. You don't have to be a physicist body builder extraordinaire lol just be healthy and be on a generative, not a degenerative path in life2 0 0 0👍🙂
This dude's a fool. A foolish fool. Any of you lovely, chubby ladies need a shoulder to lean on, DM me. I have two of 'em. ❤️👉👌❤️
@oper8erx okay simp enabler cuck
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- bad at kissing or no kissing/cuddling
- no foreplay
- don’t know how to werk his techniques (don’t even matter if he’s fit or not; or his size is big or not; he just don’t know how to werk it😂😅)
- only try to please himself and to cum fast without play
- bad hygiene
- not adventurous & mostly just one position
- doesn’t really take charge
- can’t dirty talk2 3 0 0😂a whole list lolol but all true 😁😂
LOL I just speak the truth :p
💯 truth 😁
1. INEXPERIENCE!
Guys wanting me to teach them everything from scratch. I even get questions like that here all the time as in..."Tell me everything you know about sex"
... like I have time to write a book! ... lol
Here's a few books they can read instead...Now, come back in a year and show me what you've learned! ... lol
1 1 0 0🤣🤣🤣 ROFL but maybe you SHOULD write a book! Think that'd be an awesome ass sex book there 🙂🙂
Ya, I think if I put all the articles I have written together, I would have a thick book. Thank you :)
👍👍 you definitely should!! It'd be a best seller... I could promote it for you, lol
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24 105A guy who chases me out of desperation or neediness or for sexual gratification and not because loves and likes and respects me
1 1 0 0Yeah that would be a big turn off
I like the ones you posted.
When he’s stuck up
Nope, that doesn’t fly with me. If you’re stuck up then you’re a failure to your own self, because as great as you think you are and as much as you like me, you lose.1 0 0 0Yeah big difference between confidence and cocky no pun intended 😂
When a man start to say to repeat what they want you to say but if i don't agree with what he wants me to say then its a deal breaker for me.
1 0 0 0Yeah I know what you mean lol
Little to no foreplay, no fun. A sign of a future non fulfilling sex life lol
1 0 0 0Yeah there definitely has to b be sexual compatibility
Absolutely. And I'd rather risk someone being satisfied in my hands or mouth and risk not getting off than risk hurting someone cause they weren't prepared enough lol
I was going to say abuse and degradation.
But one of your memes mentioned bad hygiene. Now that's disgusting.1 0 0 0Yeah it is lol
I'm honestly not sure what my biggest turn off would be. I know I was really in the moment when a guy asked me to lick his ear and nose (like inside) and that totally creeped me about and I went from 90 to 0 in about 3 seconds flat, I think being pressured into something I don't want to do, or is painful both of which has happened and it killed any sexual mood I've been in
1 1 0 0Luck inside his nose eeewww 🤢🤮like WTH🤣🤣🤣 UH YEAH NO LOLOLOL yeah Don't blame you there
No nostril or ear wax play in the bedroom... ✔
@Rory_Pants lolol right!
I hate no foreplay, you don't do foreplay. You get none.
don't you warm the classic car engine up before you drive it
Well I'm like that old classic car. You better warm me up if you want a drive1 2 0 0Ha Nice way to put it!! Love this reply 💜😁
Thank you
Welcome 🙂
Criticizing my body.
1 2 0 0Yeah that's stupid, cuz if criticize someone that's just gonna lower their sexual confidence with that person.
Especially if it's a hookup it's never good for anyone to shame you or anyone else for that! If you have sex with someone then you are basically saying that you want to pleasure that person so why contradict yourself 1 and 2 it is so rude!
Lol, ofc, but you pretty sure going to critique his dick size
I'm sure there's a lot. But just one thing. Err,, I will say if I'm with a girl and she gets loud and starts talking crap about some one as if she is better I will walk away and keep walking
1 0 0 0Someone who has smokers (cigarette) breath.
1 0 0 0I smoke but my hubby told me I was only smoker he kissed that didn't taste like an ashtray 😂
When I am in a relationship, and she starts trying to CHANGE ME!! It starts, subtly, with 'shopping for clothes' and then going to her 'hair stylist'!! Or maybe even more subtly, trying to make me a VEGAN!!
I don't want to be a 'project' and her trying to 'fix' me and make me be what she wants!! BYE, BYE!! I am WHO I AM, and PISS OFF, if she wants to change me to be some pussified little boy that she thinks she is going to control!1 0 0 0Shit Piss and Vomit
1 0 0 0Ewww🤢I do agree 💯 but Umm I just ate dinner, thanks 🤢 lololol hope I keep it down after reading this 🤢
Ahhh sorry ^^
It's ok lol
Getting my balls sucked too hard.
1 0 0 0Don't like at all? Or just not"too hard"?
Oh no, I love it, but have to be gentle...😁
Well yeah they're a sensitive spot for a guy
Bad hygiene or if he's naturally hairy and then shave eww
1 0 0 0Yeah bad hygiene a biggie
Yup u got that right
Chest hair needs to be shaved off or just trimmed down?
Oh lord I have a whole list of turn offs. Bad hygeine, only wants to fuck in one certain position (my ex only ever wanted to do it on our side with me faceing away from him), anal, not wanting to kiss or go down on me, doesn't care about getting me off and only wants to get himself off, not lasting more than 5 minutes... Etc. And obviously any strange or gross fetishes.
1 0 0 0Yeah gotta switch it up definitely 👍 And yeah, no 5 minute man, agree there like "you done,? Wait, I didn't even know we started"🙄🤣
😂😂😂 Yes girl. Even for a quickie 5 minutes is too short
😂😂 right!!
Bad breath, period.
1 1 0 0Right lol
Surprise anal finger... yup!
1 0 0 0🤣🤣 what if it's not a surprise? You don't like the act at all or the surprise of it? 🤣
🤣 All of the above? There's a reason it's the best way to get 2 dogs to stop fighting 🤣🤣
Omg HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 🤣🤣
When a girl is easily distracted it tends to distract me out of the mood.
1 0 0 0Oh yeah gotta be in the moment
One of two things, eating stinky or smelly during or before. And having an odor or being unclean. Sweat smells differently... Some can actually make you even more attracted but others have the smell of bad b. o. and I've smelled girls that were among the top b. o. that I've smelled. So it partly depends on the smell in that moment because I'll be honest, if the moment strikes and we both get back from a job, our sweaty bodies might be all that's needed in that moment 😂
But for anal for example, you better be getting that undercarriage :)1 0 0 0Undercarriage 🤣🤣
Yup a ladies undercarriage 😂
😂😂
Several that are all equal: Bad breath, farting, just laying there like a dead fish.
1 0 0 0Yeah those would all be mood killer for sure 🙂
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