Actually technically you are in exclusive relationship unless he lie to you about not having sex with anyone else, but officially you are not in exclusive relationship. He always wants you to be the one who initiate kissing and sex even though he knows that you he is your first? did you was the one who initiated kissing and sex even when you was virgin? you told him I was willing to take things slow, but you already had sex with him, is sex considered a trivial thing nowadays? the real question is why you had sex without commitment if commitment is important you, especially if you was virgin, something that automatically made you more valuable for a serious relationship. You should had waited until marriage or at least until you are his official girlfriend, as a virgin you should not had compromised on less, even if you are 3 years older than him, you should not be so desperate, late 20s was still early to be so desperate, but maybe not all lost, and he might still make you a honest woman, just make sure that he would not leave you for other girl, after you had already given him everything, what you had given his is not only sex but also your precious virginity.
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Most Helpful Girl
Because commitment takes work. And he knows that if he commits, he's not going to get as much stuff as he wants. He's only having sex with you, because you were selfishly allowing him to get it without committing. Bad enough this is a sin to be doing before marriage anyway, but you only hurting yourself. You've been doing for 4 months and you now have to ask this question. The problem is not him. The problem is you. Because you're the one with the common sense, you should not be doing this not only before you were married, but if you know you want commitment, why would you do this just to think you didn't commit when you know you're not getting it anyway? This guy does not care about you. He doesn't care about no one else but himself. But at the same time he doesn't even love himself either. So you really need to ask yourself what it is that you're doing, and what is it about you that makes you attracted to this person, and you still choose to have sex with him anyway. Because if he's the one that's not going to commit to you, and is using sex to get out of you, then that only means one thing. Not only does he not love himself, but deep down inside you don't love yourself either. You are who you attract.
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Most Helpful Guy
Cause thats all a guy really wants is the pleasure and not the negatives that having a girlfriend brings. This new wave as of recent of feminism really has chased a lot of great guys off in some cases entirely.
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