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I let my best friend suck on me- am I bi?

I’ve made a couple of posts talking about how she has been wanting me for a while, and how when we were wrestling the other day, she asked to eat me out and when I didn’t respond out of shock she sucked me for a few seconds before I ran out.

I figured I am bi-curious, just because I don’t see how a woman and man’s mouth on me are different. So I went over to her house and let her suck on me. She forplayed though- kissing my neck and rubbing me over my clothes. She spoke dirty to me like “You’re my thick baby girl. This is all mine. Your pussy must taste so good. Baby I want to fuck you so hard and make you cum while you scream my name.” Then she went down to suck on me over my panties, and then she slid them over and fingered me while sucking on my clit and eating me out. It felt amazing, felt the same way it did with a guy. I wasn’t crazy about anything else she did other than sucking me, and admittedly I was thinking about my ex the whole time. But I really did like it. So am I bi?
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  • I'm not gonna say your bi yet. You tried it once, you have to try things to know if you like them right?

    So far you've experimented once, at most right now your by curious.

    Do you want to do more with her? Even if you go fool around with her again I'd still say just bi curious, especially if you try other new to you things next time. I'm really not sure what girls would do together, maybe scissor?, even if you try scissoring with her that dosent automatically make you bi.

    I think bi would still call for attraction, she made you feel good sure but are you attracted to woman at all now? Or just realize they also have good feeling tongues and fingers?

    Are you bothered that you might be bi? There is nothing wrong with it.

    Dont worry so much about silly labels anyway, have fun and do the things that make you feel good.

    Your not bi from one experience, as far as I'm concerned you could try absolutely everything you can with a woman, over several different times and at the end if you decide it's not for you, you can still honestly say you are not bi.

    • Awesome response! And yeah I just took advantage of the situation because someone was offering me their tongue to make me feel good- and everyone has tongues, so I don’t think it necessarily makes me bi. I don’t feel attracted to woman whatsoever, and I could never see myself dating a woman.

    • Yeah no surprise it felt good, it is still just a tongue and a finger. It felt good sure but a girl making you feel good in that way dosent mean your bi. I dont think anyone trying anything makes them instantly by or gay. You had to try to find out for sure, so really that experience means nothing, it proves nothing. Nothing other than you like being eaten out and you already knew that.

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  • I couldn't even reach the end of the post where you ask if you're bi- , I was too turned from reading the preceding prose.
    You could easily work as a lesbian/bi- writer of erotica. I did it for a few months , No byline attribution but it paid well.
    As far as girl on girl experience, that will only give your experience an added mystique that would probably make any future guy to be turned on. Not sure if lesbians have any sort of value added +/-.
    I think you may have posted something similar recently. Given that- or just reading this by itself sounds like your lust- for time being at least- is fighting a battle against your current value system and that value system condemns same sex relationships. That's a losing battle and what you really want, the latter of these two. Given that, maybe try to role-pay a character which reflects an extreme version of where you want to be. Sorry if this is meaningless bullshit good luck. If you already know a lesbian or bi girl where the sexual attraction is mutual. you can be relatively sure emotional problems won't result then you have a great oppty. In any case, Good luck whatever you choose. The hottest gitlI've ever dated was bi-.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not necessarily. I had a sexual experience with another girl because I was curious what it as like. I enjoyed receiving oral from her but I didn’t enjoy doing it to her. Not my thing. I’m not sure how guys love to do that but I’m glad they do 😉I liked kissing her and touching her boobs but in the end, it satisfied a curiosity and I never felt the need to go back. Been with guys ever since. It’s ok to experiment and not put a label on it.

  • Or maybe ur juss dumb getting into shxt u don't even know 😒💯

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  • Do you want to do it again?

  • Do you think about girls or guys when you masterbate? If its both you probably are bi

  • I never know where the line starts and stops with this kinda stuff. I don't think that you are bi because you let her suck you. It's experimenting, which doesn't determine what you like immediately.

  • I mean women are beautiful. I couldn't see a male friend of mine sucking my dick ever...

    I would say you love this friend and she loves you, you need to make the decision whether you feel comfortable reciprocating the actions. Because if you do, pound town is next.

    Are you ready for that?

  • Are you attracted physically to her or any other person from your gender, but also to people that are not your gender? If yes, you have your answer

  • If you really liked it even if thinking about your ex kinda does yes. Because your accepting and letting a women do if that makes you bi. Because if straight a girl wouldn't let that happen. You would need to be fluid enough to be okay with it which you were. Plus... Thanks for umm thoughts

  • Do you have any desire to kiss her, suck on her boobs, or go down on her? If so, then you are probably bi.. If you do it and enjoy it, then sure, you'd be bi. If you don't have any desire to pleasure a woman, then receiving from same sex really isn't bi, it's just receiving after all.

    • That’s what I figured! I don’t want to do anything to a woman. And the only thing I really liked was that she was sucking on me, and any man can do that. That’s why I didn’t think it really defines if you’re bi, because everyone has mouths.

    • Exactly! Someday you may want to try it out, but let that manifest on it's own, no need to worry about it today.

  • Only you know your true self. Lots of people are a lot closer to bi than they think.

  • Technically but I don't know why it deserves a label

  • You shouldn't feel bad about being Bisexual or Bi-Curious.. There are guys who play with each other's cocks and that doesn't make the two guys gay... So your best female friend eating you out or fingering you feels great to go for it... If she wants to rub her pussy on yours go for it you will have the best, mindblowing orgasms.

  • Yes.

  • I don't know, it seems like you weren’t interested in HER but more interested in getting off. You were even fantasizing about a man.
    So you might not be bi. If you’re comfortable with it maybe try experimenting more and try touching her or even giving her head. If you are bi, you wouldn’t be uncomfortable returning the favor

  • Hehe seems like it
    Have fun girl coz all that matter is how we can stay happy

  • Yes you are bi

  • Guess your curiosity got the better of you
    Glad you enjoyed it though
    Personally, I think it's amazing being with a woman

  • Are you attracted to her? If yes, then probably... If not, then maybe just curious.

  • Well seeing as how you said you didn't really like the other things she did to you, other than the sucking part, I'd say no, you're not bi, you just enjoyed the pleasure.

  • You may not feel romantic attractions for women. That would rule out bisexual. Not caring who is giving you physical pleasure is not an indication of whom you are attracted to.

  • Fuck that is so sexy. Wish I was a fly in the damn room.

  • Id say you're still bi curious, and you need to go down on your friend and then see how you feel.

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