Guys, What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Hi I’m a 20 year old girl and I’ve never had a boyfriend or been on a date , I’ve been asked out but it was never someone I was interested in and most guys treat me like an object why is why I’m still a virgin and can’t get a boyfriend. I have no problem being friends with guys but relationships are never my luck. I wish I can just be like most 20 year olds who go on dates and have experience. All my crushes turned into heartbreaks and love actually scares me. I even went on anti depressants because I felt so unlovable and lonely. I even started telling myself that I don’t need to be with someone to have kids because I’m so used to being Independant that romantic love is just not a thing in my life. I just want sex and I no longer care about falling in love because it’s just a fantasy that will never happen. I hat the idea that I’ll probably end up dating at 24 if I’m lucky and by then I really won’t want to be with anybody. Any advice you have would be great, xo

[Berethor]

It's hard to help a girl who didn't knows what she want, though you not the only girl who is contradicting herself a lot. So on one hand you are upset that most guys treat you like an object and that's the main reason that you are still a virgin, but on the other hand love scares you and you says that you give up on love, and now you just want sex, well I don't believe that you just looking for sex, if that was true then you had lost your virginity a long time ago, unless you ugly but you imply that it's not the case, in general it's easy for girls to find sex, it's much harder for guys to find sex, but it's not easy for girls to find love, and if you was slutting around then your chances of finding love would had dropped even more, as most guys don't have much respect for sluts, enough it looks like there is a lot of bad boys around you if they don't respect you even while knowing that you are a virgin, virgins girls are worthy of love and respect. So your maternal instinct is stronger than your desire for a man's love? well I believe that such a strong maternal instinct also shows that a slutty life is not for you, as it looks like you having all/most of the qualities to qualify as a wife material, and you can lose much of that if walk on the dark path, also you are 20 years old, I think that it's too soon for you to act so desperately, also even if you given up on love, still don't mean that you should give up on marriage and respect.

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[ArchersArrow]

You’ll find a partner , have sex and give birth to kids. Time hasn’t come yet. Don’t think that relationships are perfect. They’re full of bullshit. I’ve been in both positions single and with a partner. Every state has its own pros and cons. While you’re being single just enjoy your freedom. You can do what you want anytime. You can be friends with anyone and do anything you want. You don’t have to worry about someone. You don’t get doubts about whether your partner really loves you or not or maybe they’re cheating or not. Look around you and you’ll find peace and happiness. Just because someone did something doesn’t mean that you too have to do it. Every one has his/her own experiences in life.

[AustinMan]

I suggest you take the pressure off yourself. Do you know what you want and don't want in a guy?

[Asker]

I just wanted a nice , loyal , honest, funny guy who cares about his future. All that just seems to go to be true like I literally give up because it causes so much heartbreak that just messes with my head and I refuse to cry myself to sleep all the time again because of fuckups

[AustinMan]

So maybe take it slower, use a more measured, careful approach vetting these guys?

[MysteriousT]

I feel you. I've only had one girlfriend and I gave her everything (spiritually) I could. I know how nice it is to trust that person like no one else and just want to be with them throughout your life.

Unfortunately, we have yet to find the true love we're looking for but don't lose your hope! I believe good people eventuay find some other nice people in this world. Don't let anyone upset you or make you feel less valuable in some way just because you haven't had many bfs.

To be honest, I'd much prefer to be with a girl like you than those who have had a million bfs. I feel like most girls like these aren't good hearted and don't care about the person they're with.

[Twalli]

I didn't date until 27.

[BeyondCuriosity]

Most people don't find true love at 20. If you're thinking of dating and falling in love like it is in the world of cinema, then yes. Give up on that. That's not what love looks like in real life. Be willing to look for the signs that somebody loves you in less grand and over the top ways. If you only have to wait until 24 to find true love, you're one of the lucky ones. I imagine a lot of your peers are getting married and settling down. In few years most of them will be getting divorced and being unsettled because they rushed in on an extended impulse. Be patient and keep an open mind.

[jcjrpb99]

There's no compulsion that u need to wait till 24

[ToxicAkrep]

Isn't it hard to be a virgin at this age, honey?

[Asker]

Yes it really is hard to be a virgin because I just want experience but I didn’t think it would be so difficult because it’s my prime time and yet I don’t even care about romantic love. Fuck love and fuck trying to date that equals to heartbreak , the only think fuck I want is from a guy. I’m just gonna be a successful and independent woman for the rest of my life and have my own family.

[ToxicAkrep]

Do you want to have sex

[Asker]

Yes I do , porn isn’t doing anything except making my hormones more intense , I just wanna find a nice guy to experiment with and be friends with him also.

[ToxicAkrep]

Watching porn makes you horny, your vagina is scolding and you don't want your body to hold on and all your holes open and close while masturbating, but the man who has sex with you will first lick you perfectly, drink your juice, then take his legs on your shoulder and slowly put his head in it.

[ToxicAkrep]

Now the vagina must be burning like fire, wet hot so nice licked

[Asker]

It’s really good what u wrote , omg now I feel even more hormonal 🥺😩

[ToxicAkrep]

It would be nice to lick your water, if you love every drop of it, is there a fantasy and position you dream of, by the way, do you write a private message?

[ToxicAkrep]

? 🥰🥰🤩🤩🤗🤗🤗

[Asker]

I wanna wear soft pink lingerie and I want to touch his body and massage his cock while he caresses my skin and touches me everywhere and I want him to kiss me and lick me everywhere and I wanna pleasure him everywhere and make each other feel equally satisfied , I want to feel him everywhere , his cock , his hands , his words , all of him. I want him to feel all of my soft , curvaceous body and softy grab my boobs and butt. When I’m more experienced, I want him to pound in me on the counter, I just wanna have fun and explore with a nice guy

[ToxicAkrep]

Quick and hard blow when you get inside will fuck you every time your dick will go to the root and your pussy is shaking with pleasure

[Asker]

Basically what I dream of but have to work so hard to get like trying to study calculus, that’s how damn hard it is to just find a damn guy who will respect me but also fuck me

[ToxicAkrep]

Make sure I fuck you very well and take care of you at the same time, a flower is untouched how sweet and beautiful you will be and groan perfectly

[ToxicAkrep]

Can you write me a message in private

[Asker]

My body is pure but my mind isn’t

[ToxicAkrep]

I take your mind on the bed, kiss and lick all of you, your body will be in fire, the vagina will swell up, your lips will swell and it will turn red, your hole will contract and at that moment I will get into it I want to send you my own picture and video, if you want.

[ToxicAkrep]

Now my cock is like a raised stone

[ToxicAkrep]

Do you want me to send you a special photo

[Asker]

No please don’t , thanks for your opinions

[B2281]

Very sorry to hear that, and I can very much understand what you are talking about.

[gandolph3]

Quite worrying about so much, it's just a date not a marriage

[Yash0012323]

Even I don't have any girlfriend till now

[Anonymous]

Slow down, you are only 20. Plenty of time to find love. You just need to change where you are looking for guys if you haven't had any luck with the guys you like. Or perhaps change your look; to accentuate the things that the guys you like are looking for. You'll find love; especially if you take the time to look around and smell the roses, so to speak.