What should no man ever do to a woman?

[thomual]

Please dont report this Q, it's a legitimate question. WARNING explicit content and subjects of violent and abusive topics toward women are expected to be discussed. Please do not read or reply if you are sensitive to the subject of abuse.

I watched the documentary called, "Filthy Rich" about billionaire Epstein who secretly ran an underage human trafficking prostitution ring for the ultra rich for decades until the "Me Too" movement helped to take him down.

The story was shocking and gave me a lot to think about as far as human nature, evil, abuse, etc.

Please don't answer, "Rape". I asked a question about heartbreak a while back and got a few answers I didn't expect like that. Obviously what Epstein did was prime evil. I'm not asking about that subject. I've been treated poorly by women in my life, and I question if my own actions and desires have ever crossed a line.

There was a quote that really stuck with me in that documentary, and I can't get it out of my head. One of the survivors said, "he did things to me that no man should ever do to a woman". She's not talking about rape, she's talking about abuse.

What I want to know is, what are those things that, when i get another serious relationship or wife, I should never try or ask for, even with consent. It seems to me like this is what the survivor was talking about.

I've had some exes who were into some messed up stuff, and other ones who were willing to, "try" dark fantasies out on eachother. Are there things I should never ask for?

[KingdomForAKiss]

As I have learned, you have 0 control over the way people respond here. They're not being directly oppositional towards you (with exception).

When I read your question, rape was my immediate response as well. Particularly because you said "I wonder if my own desires have ever crossed the line." Also, how do you KNOW the woman in the video wasn't referring to rape if she didn't give any clarification?

I dislike your attempts to control the topic by telling them specifically not to say rape. People are going to tell you the worst thing a man can do to them, which among those answers is rape. Maybe their personal experience tells them that rape is the worst thing a man can do to them, which answers your question.



I quoted you wrong. "I question if my own desires have ever crossed the line."



Also, your update is nonsense on this question. "I'll take it as a personal violation." You should not be using this type of terminology when telling a woman they are NOT allowed to talk about rape. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[thomual]

Although confrontational, this at least answers the question well. I was hoping for a more specific response, but I will blame myself for not phrasing the question well.

[purplepoppy]

Anything without her consent. Yes that includes rape but also every thing else. Shitting in her mouth isn't rape bit if she says no then its wrong.

[thomual]

I'm not talking about rape!!! Wtf!

[thomual]

This ended up being a best answer because poppy continued the conversation on another question and helped me realize that Rape, was the only logical answer, for how I phrased the Q.

[Agape93]

Rape.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Rape is abuse

If your gut tells you not to ask her to do something, don’t ask her

[thomual]

Yes Epstein did both. I specifically asked for an answer NOT about rape. Are you saying accidentally crossing an invisible line is rape?

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m saying if it sounds bad to you, don’t ask At the risk of sounding racist, a judge my professor clerked for called it the “Oi Ve!” test (he was Jewish)

[thomual]

Well that is informative. Thanks!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Welcome 😊