After threesum does anyone feel the feeling of falling out of love?

Yooobs Xper 1

Me and my partner been together for a while.. recently started having threesum FMF.. and when it’s done I jus feel like i can’t b wit him nomo.

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Anonymous
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I've said this to so many others and I'll say it again, threesomes and even casual immediate sex with strangers is not something that most women feel good about after it's happened, and as much as I wish y'all were DTF 24/7, it's not healthy for you. I hope you can heal from it if you're feeling confused <3
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wassim97 Xper 7
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For me this relationship is over when you let someone else enter your sex live between you and your partner that means your relationship is dead no more feelings between you too
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- Yooobs
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  I see what you’re sayin

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boggboss Master
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Lol another fun story about 3soms lol
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- Yooobs
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  😴 yeah any experience?
- boggboss
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  Nope not not so fast to add a factor into my relationship that could do more harm then good just weighting up the options is a bad bet a bit more aexual pleasure vs one or both partners getting jealous seems a silly bet
- Yooobs
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  That’s the thing about it.. I’ll usually invite a female over and he’ll watch me with her.. but now actually doing the full thing it’s like wellp..
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- boggboss
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  But thats just it as soon as sexual activities introduce another person issuses can happen as it went from viewing to doing and now you are not happy with it
- Yooobs
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  Make sense
ginge_thinks Xper 2
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Did you feel like he was giving more attention to the other girl during? Or do you think it was just seeing him with someone else put you off?
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- Yooobs
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  Neither one. I be having fun ! & watch when I need a break but it’s jus afterwards I gt that feeling.
- ginge_thinks
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  My instinctive response is that if something like that can shake your desire to be with him, either you guys aren't meant to be together, or threesomes in a relationship aren't for you. It you're convinced you definitely enjoyed the threesome (emotionally as well as sexually) then you probably need to re-evaluate your relationship with him
- Yooobs
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  Yeah i was hoping it was a phase thing but now that you put it out maybe I need to discuss it.
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- ginge_thinks
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  Discussing it is definitely a good idea. Maybe talking it through with them will make the feeling go away, or maybe they've had the exact same thing, but communication always helps
- Yooobs
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  Thank youu ! Definitely will give a update
- ginge_thinks
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  Please do! Apparently I'm not a high enough level to message anyone yet lmao, so you'll have to drop me a dm 😂
- Yooobs
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  Yes lol mines too low as well I’ll jus leave the thread up and let you knw
RyanK9b Xper 6
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Lucky dude. But ye can happen if the focus of the guy shifts. Maybe 3somes are not good for you
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- Yooobs
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  Like we recently had that talk and I thought it was the shift of focus but this time it went good but I still felt the same again.
- RyanK9b
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  Is it different when he is just with you
- Yooobs
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  Tbh we haven’t had sex with each other alone since we started. Which was like two days ago. So I don't know if it’s just a phase
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- RyanK9b
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  Just check if it's the same if you 2 are alone
- Yooobs
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  Will do thank youu
Juxtapose Master
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Love is much more of a commitment vs a constant butterfly feeling.
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asshole_ Yoda
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stop answering people, she left
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JamesBlackDragon Xper 7
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I was in a unique situation but it never happened to me
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CubaPirate Master
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Another case of beware what you wish for I'm afraid
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- Yooobs
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  Details?
- CubaPirate
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  In that you wanted a threesome so no you have to live with the consequences of it
- Yooobs
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  Ehhh. I see
Cryptic-Game Guru
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I am sure many of them does.
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billluc69 Yoda
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no, more in love
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Anonymous
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it’s never in a guy’s best interest to have a threesome with his partner because she will almost always start to get feelings for the other guy.
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- Opinion Owner
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  And if it’s an FMF then she will almost always start to get jealous of the other girl and will start questioning her partner’s love for her and assume that he spent more attention on her and start getting all stupid about it and eventually she will want to leave.
- Thatsamazing
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  Fuck that, I want a threesome. Most guys do. It's normal.
- Opinion Owner
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  @Thatsamazing Yes we do, but have one with two random girls. Having one with your girl will always end in trouble.
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- Thatsamazing
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  Good point. But that's almost impossible. Very few guys get that opportunity.