If a guy is OK with and encourages waiting to have intercourse even if he's done it plenty with other people?
there's times when we have came close but it has not happened yet. We spoke this week and he was saying he is ok with waiting to do it and he would give up sex. & its not that important to him, and that we are not in a position to be having a kid right now. I appreciate he can wait but sometimes I wonder how he easily slept with people but when it comes to me he doesn't really care about it happening. If having sex with other people in the past was easy and he desired it, i just would think he would want it with me. also upsets me that he refuses to wear protection, ( i respect how he feels tho) and I also don't like birth control. He has worn protection before but says that it is way 2 intimate with somebody that he cares about to wear one. upsets me thinking if we will ever make compromise.
We are both pretty stubborn. He feels strongly about not wearing anything& I feel very strongly about not taking BC. Sometime it is frustrating, we have a great relationship w/o it, talked about that and we love that, but now I am getting to the point where I really want to take it further, and can't wrap my head around why it is not necessary to him when it was with others in the past. thoughts?
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