What can I do if I start to hate or resent women, I don't see fair the power they have in sexuality or dating?


It is super unbalanced and in favor of women, is because of biology and because women are the ones who give birth but it is unfair? Women who maybe get offended by my post, imagine that it was the male gender and not the female who had all this power:
If men were ultra-picky (even the most ugly, unconfident or losers,), who married up rich women, if women were judged by height or genitalia, if women were the desperate ones, who date down, who pay money for their fetishes, who pay money only for an hour or company, if women had zero matches and men thousands in tinder, etc. Iam sure you would be jealous in that situation
it's much better to be the gender who is selective than the one who has to settle, be provided than to be a provider, have free sex and options than to pay, get free drinks or the sex work opportunity. It's not just sex or money or power or offspring, it's the rise in self-esteem that every woman can have by having so many men complimenting her or pretending.
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  • What to do:

    1. Build up your economic value and maintain / improve your physical shape. Don't compete against others--that will just bring you down and make you miserable--just compete against *yourself*. I hope that makes sense.

    Believe it or not, by the time you are 30, if you:
    --are unmarried without kids,
    --with a stable and reasonably well paying job,
    --in reasonably decent physical shape,
    --with no criminal record, and
    --you own a home of your own, even a modest one,

    You WILL be desirable, as the women start realizing their partying days are over and they need a real guy as spouse material.

    2. Try an older "Cougar" divorcee, who wants to "get her groove back". She might just be the one to break you in. Your initial lack of game in such a situation will be non-threatening, and therefore downright appealing, to an older divorcee. And by interactions of this nature, you will get "game". No, the relationship probably will not last, but it will be mutually beneficial at first. And then, by the time you are the age of the Cougars yourself, you may even be trawling for younger babes! Or you may have already found someone and settled in.

    3. Try putting out a personals ad online. You can meet people from the privacy of your home, then call them up, then meet. If it does not work out, no bad repercussions, unlike school or work. Avoid public situations where asking them out leads to humiliation and failure. Avoid noisy dance clubs where you can't actually talk to them. Like me, I am betting you cannot dance without looking foolish, and slam dancing in the mosh pits does not count (am I revealing my age here? So be it).

    4. As above, Pour yourself into school / work. Make more money and/or build up skills to make more money. Or if you find an academic interest that excites you, go for it. This is always good.

    5. Exercise. You are already doing this, but you say you have no results? Even if utterly non-sporting, it is good just to hike, bike, or lift weights. Don't compete against anyone--that will make you feel worse--just compete against yourself.

    6. Look into antidepressant meds. They can really help in some cases.

    7. Done enough of the above? Then develop an interest that takes you someplace you haven't been. It doesn't have to be anything special or even costly, just anything to change things up. And you might even meet someone in the course of that.

    Just remember this old song--time IS on your side. And for the ladies, time starts to go against them after a certain point, which some call "hitting the wall":

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/bCOpVgRrF_A

Most Helpful Guy

  • Women do have it easier than men in terms of dating and sexuality, and it's understandable that you resent them for that the same way women resent men for being more important and powerful than women in the world. But it shouldn't go beyond that because there is nothing that can be done to change it. The best you can do is make yourself the most valuable and desirable man you can be, which means working on yourself, your career and your future.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Uh women do date down
    Women do get zero matches
    Women do get rejected
    Women do pay for other men's drinks and food
    Women get pain during sex
    Women can get periods also
    Women also go through horrible birthing process

    I don't understand why you think women have it easy?

    • That’s not even counting things that aren’t consensual.

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  • All I hear is whining

  • Don't hate the player, hate the game. Do you hate a mosquito for biting you? It's only doing what is in its nature.

    • THIS is actually a very good point.

  • Lose the skirt and be a man. You sound pathetic.