He did anal with out my permission?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of four years (on and off) came over after not seeing eachother for three weeks. He came down and me got busy... We was in the middle of doing it then his thing slid out and next thing I knew he put it in my ass. I cried it hurt so much I begged him to take it out and it took him about a minute to do it I then pushed him away from me and I was crying he knew I never wanted to do it he then began to laugh because I was upset. I have been bleeding most of the night and now in so much pain I feel betrayed does he not respect me?

[AndyOh]

I would end that relationship quick.
I think he figured he could do what he wanted and anal was one of them.
And the fact that he did it without asking and took his time taking his cock out of your ass, AND then laugh at you? Dump his sorry ass.
Many more men that are respectful and will treat you a lot better.
Good luck.

[Asker]

Thank you I think I will dump him

[chihuahua011]

That is just not okay. At all!

Hopefully you never see him again, because he clearly doesn't care about you or your feelings. The fact that he took so long to pull it out just proves this further.

And for the record, someone isn't just ends up in the other hole by accident. That tells something too.

[Asker]

It's so hard as I have his child I'm scared he has told his family and they are making fun of me

[chihuahua011]

Now that's a complicated situation. But this is just toxic and abusive, and it's not a right environment for a child to grow up in. I'm sorry for what's happening to you and I hope you'll get better and have a happier life with your child in the end!

[wingattebaby16]

This is why I hate anal sex. It hurts, it is mostly about His Pleasure and Control of my body.

It hurts like hell, i too often bleed even when he has taken his time and tried to make sure I am ready.

Personally, if he keeps laughing and making fun of you AND he does it again, I would dump him.

[Justacatlady]

You don’t accidentally end up in that hole, so he did that on purpose. Then the fact that he took so long to pull out. If there’s any respect it is almost non-existent

[Asker]

I think your right

[ha_ch]

Most probably he wants to do something new. But that's really bad to do without one's consent.
How are you feeling now?

[Asker]

I hurt so much and feel so embarrassed I know he will probably joke about it to his family

[ha_ch]

Don't worry what he thinks about you. Thing that matters is are you fine now and why he do that without your consent.

[Asker]

I recently had his baby and I think it changed me down there so now I don't think I am good enough and that's why he did it 😞

[ha_ch]

If it's less than a month then yes you're facing some changes down there but if it is more than a month then you might need some consultation to check the issue. A girl will get her emotions and shape down there almost a month after giving birth.

[Asker]

It's been two years

[ha_ch]

And still you're not feeling well down there?

[Asker]

I felt fine but now I think maybe there is something wrong with me

[ha_ch]

What do you think is wrong with you? You can discuss if you want to in details.

[Berethor]

There are people who would consider it a rape, you consent to normal sex, not to sadomy.

[0112358]

No. He doesn’t respect you and he’s an asshole. I don’t laugh at people I hurt even if I don’t respect them.

while going in the wrong hole can happen, when it does the normal reaction would be “apologetic concern”.

[Zebadee88]

Ditch him. He is not worth your attention.
Report him for rape if you want to.

[Samantha_17]

That's unacceptable. Dump him quickly.

[Archerer]

Jesus fucking christ! What a piece of shit... You should do the same to him.

[Asker]

I want to

[COMMODOREII]

Apparently not. He is not a gentleman.

[FearlessGoat]

anyone who does anal loses my respect

[Justacatlady]

How is this a response to what she asked? She didn’t ask him to do this to her, in fact she said she didn’t want it, so why say that?

[FearlessGoat]

@Justacatlady I answered the question honestly, and you don’t have to like it

[Cryptic-Game]

I am against anal sex. No idea why people likes it.

[Asker]

Its not something I like either

[bassinguy76]

Wow! That's messed up... I hope you never see him again.

[Elliot0_07]

You're the one who doesn't respect his desires!

He only did anal sex, and you were acting like a dramactic b*tch. Let him use your hole like it's supposed to be. It's on his nature to do that, and you have to aget used to it.

[Anonymous]

I never asked i switch when ever i need to switch

[Anonymous]

There’s a name for what he did. It’s called rape. Yes, even though you were in the middle of vaginal sex. He knew you didn’t consent to anal sex and forced it anyway. It’s beyond disrespectful; it’s criminal. Sorry this happened to you.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry but it seems that he doesn't respect for you nor care for you. Do your fingers ever slide up his ass? If not, why not? Whatever the answer is he clearly doesn'tfeel the same way about you

[Asker]

It's so hard as we have a baby together and I have always been there for him when he needed me now I don't know what to do