Is it wrong to offer sex just to see if he would actually fuck me and then back out?

i’m so curious to know if my guy friend would fuck me if i gave him the chance but i don’t want to actually have sex with him. i kinda want to ask him if he’s interested and then tell him i changed my mind
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but what’s wrong with telling someone you changed your mind?
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  • This is a totally immature move. You can't even rely on the results. It might take him totally by surprise which could throw him off. Or he might not think you are serious. It's just not a good way to find out. There is only one way to know for sure, and that's to follow through with it. If you don't intend to follow through, don't pursue it. You could ruin a friendship or even put yourself in danger by playing such games as this.

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  • It's a real dick move, if he finds out it was a test he might stop being friends with you cause its rude and childish. If you are really friends why can't you just ask without the games and tricking him?

    If my friend disrespected me like that I might end the friendship then and there!

    • Nothing wrong with changing your mind, except you just told us that it's just you lying from the get go jerking him trying to get info or please yourself at his expense. Hopefully he never knows it's a cruel joke but we do cause you asked us and it's just rude. Why can't you just ask him instead of fake offering?

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  • Don't you have anything better to do?
    If it's just a casual friendly relationship with this guy, you are going to make everything so awkward between the two of you.

  • It's immature and he'll see that.
    It's fine you want to stroke your own ego, but those kinds of games will kill any attraction he possibly has for you instantly

    • Any friendship to

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  • Why would you do that to him? Why not instead of destroying him emotionally, you ask it like a theoretical question. Don't tease him like that and just say nah afterwards, that's a pretty shitty thing.

  • Yea you can't do that first of all you already know that he does you just want to know how bad he wants it the second thing is you want it more than him. Well you think you do and that's what your afraid of , that he will turn you down. Just do it like this next time your standing next to him in a very very low whisper say let me tell you a secret pull him close and whisper would you fuck me right now

  • That's a pretty cruel game you're planning to play on him (or anyone).

  • It is wrong and misleading. He will end up with blue balls and have to masturbate.

  • Don't do that. That's just mean. If he would say yes you just pulled a dirty one on him. If he wasn't thinking about it he now might want it. Just ask him if he would have sex with you if given the chance, don't tease him with it

  • Sounds like you're just begging for validation

  • I blame the guy more, for being dumb enough to think female friends are for real...

  • It's not "wrong" or "right".
    Just pretty shitty and dumb.

  • That's rather retarded behaviour.

    Why do you think he would agree in the first place.

  • it's a good way to get raped

  • That would rather mean to have the guy get a hard on for you and then supposedly change your mind.

  • I go by the golden rule "Tease me once, shame on you. Tease me twice, shame on me."

  • that is like giving consent. but then withdrawing consent. once things start to begin. which can often end in a court battle. because their are claims for negative behavior. kind of why many guys are opting out of relationships these days.

  • Yes because you are leading him on and playing with his emotions.
    If you want to know, then simply ask him.
    Hypothetically speaking, if he were given the chance, would he do it?
    Also, why does that matter to you unless you are interested in him? Because if you just like playing people then you clearly aren't his friend.

  • Wtf that's incredibly manipulative. And that's how you treat your "friends"? Goddamn...

  • Yes it is you're making a fool out of him, just ask him if you want to know ffs

  • Uh, it's a pretty shitty thing to do, so... yes. I'm amazed you would even need to ask.

    • why? i’m ugly as shit so i should definitely ask first

    • It doesn't matter. It's not a good thing to do. You wouldn't appreciate the same behavior the other way around.

  • That’ll hurt him ☹️

  • Hey I want to give you 1000$ no strings attached.

  • Yes it is coz at one moment you are telling him to fuck you even if he didn't thought like that now after getting an invitation he will get that feeling and now you broke his feelings

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