How do you practice your pull out game if you're a virgin? would edging work?

[poneglyphs]

just wondering, how do I practice a skill I need for sex.

[ThomasTKay]

You need to learn your body really well. I'm good at this because I learned how far off the edge I can go before I start ejaculating semen. Being able to control and knowing what your limit is is critical.

There is always risk but pulling out is one of the more effective BC methods available but only if done right and focused on. There will be times you want to let it all go inside the vagina and she may even ask for it because she wants it too. But there has to be self discipline as well as paying constant attention to your body and knowing when its time to pull out with a buffer. If you aren't out and clear with time to spare, it can be too late if the first and usually the most powerful spurt fires off while still inside or right over the vaginal opening.

The last area people get into trouble with the pull out is when you go again soon after (there will be times when you both want to go again) where it is absolutely imperative that you clean your entire area off including both of your pubic hair, the head, shaft, her mons area, and finally you urinate. Urination washes off any remaining sperm which is acidic and will neutralize remaining sperm in the urethra.

[poneglyphs]

this is good advice thanks

[ThomasTKay]

Welcome

[WindAtMyBack]

Don't even think about the pull out method. It's unreliable to the extreme. It is not a legit form of birth control.

You might hear guys say they've done it for years and been OK. There are also people who drink a bottle of whiskey and drive a car without getting in a wreck. Just because someone got by with it doesn't make it safe.

You can't practice it anyway. There is too much difference between masturbation and the real thing. The feel is different. The motion is different. The psychology is different. It would be like practicing the guitar and thinking you can pick up a saxophone and play it.

[On_the_other_hand]

Ready for parenthood?

Too young to do that. You need to pee between each encounter, to clear the pipes. You also need to press out all the fluid left in the straw (from taint to tip).

Getting out in time if you climax on the quicker side is riskier.

Try the condom game.

[AndyOh]

Ha ha... pull out game...
Well you better have a good handle on it, cause when you are inside the kitty where it is soft, warm, silky, and inviting for your cock... it is really hard to pull out just before you blow. Plus, what about all that pre-cum you were leaking while pumping away?
It is a gamble and the odds are against you on that one.
Be smart... wear a condom!

[blkgold33]

I didn't practice just be gambling when the time comes lol

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay

[MrTuxedo]

The best would be to date a virgin girl, so you two can talk about it. But as I see you're a bit older, that may be hard if she ain't saving herself for marriage.

In your case, I'd suggest you watching some porn and just copying what the guy is doing. If you really want, you can hump your pillow.

[poneglyphs]

watching porn isn't going to help at all.

[jshm2]

No wonder you're a virgin. Never heard of condoms, I take it?

[poneglyphs]

I have I just never bought any because I never needed to.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

No words.. just this-

[Year3000]

It does work period. I’ve had sex with over 80 women, trust me bro.

[poneglyphs]

Alright

[CharlieDMX]

You stop playing around and use a condom

[michol1]

You got a mom don’t you 😂

[poneglyphs]

Bruh

[billluc69]

right now just practice jerking off, and explore your prostate

[Anonymous]

Most guys suck at doing it. If I start I’m not stopping till it’s done and I’m not pulling out unless she wants to suck it and lick it all up. So I suggest that you wear a condom.

[poneglyphs]

Uhh, okay

[Opinion Owner]

Most guys say they can but then do it inside and it’s not fair to the girl.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s my opinion though...

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, you're right

[Opinion Owner]

Either use a condom or find a girl you like and do it raw. If pregnancy is a concern you could also just stick to oral sex if that’s your thing

[poneglyphs]

Or tell her to get an IUD OR I can get a vasectomy.

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn’t personally. Doing it with a condom isn’t that bad and you can actually get textured ones that could make her feel better or flavored ones for blowjobs.

[Anonymous]

you pull out when you're about to cum. if you can't tell when you're about to cum, you're hopeless.

[poneglyphs]

well, obviously I can't tell because I never had sex.

[Opinion Owner]

and you haven't jacked off? same feeling.

[poneglyphs]

I have all of the time but it's different I say because when having sex there is more pleasure and your head is clouded more than just masturbating.

[Opinion Owner]

smh omg dude. you know when you're about to cum when you jerk off and you'll know when you're having sex. there's no difference. in all likelihood you're going to be using a condom or she's going to be on the pill anyway so it doesn't matter.

[poneglyphs]

Alright dude