Is it normal I cum from painful feelings?

I once got beat with a belt. It made me so wet it ran down my legs. I came pretty close to cumming just from pain. None of my friends can relate. Have you heard of that before?
Is it normal I cum from painful feelings?
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  • I mean, it's not SUPER common, but it's far from unheard of, especially in the kink/BDSM community. I mean, there's a REASON that masochists exist and ASK for those things. As a man who enjoys spanking women, I've literally had women line up and wait their turn to be spanked by me, and obviously they're getting some sexual excitement from it or they wouldn't do it.

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  • Please go to your local ER or make an appt. with an ob-gyn asap. It's not an issue for friends to assess, first, it's a medical issue. Call the local authorities about the person who hit you with the belt and get photographs of any bruises or welts you might have. Contact your local Police Dept. outreach dept. and ask what steps you need to take to get a restraining order... If you were hit please file charges, Guys who hit women keep hitting them, the hitting gets worse. The more documentation you have, the more you go on record- he safer you'll be.

    I hope Im overdrsmatizing things and sorry if so,

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  • There's a fine line between pleasure and pain. Might also be a domination kink as well

  • I am not into that, myself, but one lady I loved needed that, a hard spanking, and a rosy red bottom, to get really excited, and it really made her feel amazing things!
    I NEVER hit women, but she said this was different. I couldn't do a belt or paddle thing, so she settled for a hand spanking, and that was enough to get her really aroused.
    I don't understand it, but it must be some endorphin thing, or some past thing, maybe?

  • Yeah I've heard it before. Don't think I have it myself, but I guess I could see it. Maybe your brain is wired in such a way that pain stimulates you instead of something others are stimulated by. Just try it out, experiment a bit and see what works. Be sure to enjoy it

  • There is no "normal" when it comes to kinks so don't try to relate to others with it.

    That being said. If this is your backside then you're in luck because it's practically inviting to spank.
    I know I would.

  • awkward. Have heard of it before, youbare not the only one, it is normal enough.

    • Sorry awkward was not suppose to be there, I hate my pos phone. Just to be clear its NOT awkward at all, it's normal and not uncommon

  • You're a masochist, you enjoy feeling pain

  • well i have had a few girls that loved to be spanked

  • It's called masochism - there's two primary forms (outside of giving and receiving). One form is physical, which is what you experience, such as being spanked or beaten.

    The other form is emotional, which would be more along the lines of getting turned on from being humiliated, like your lover making you watch them with another person.

    Some people like the physical, others like emotional, and some like both.

    • your more submissive and like to be dominated.
    • sounds like you enjoy bondage, BDSM or S&M kink.
  • Well it is different with everyone some cum with thoughts about ex's some with thoughts of muscular men some thinking about big dicks some even with thought of black dude with a good dick so it is different for everyone... plus you can only hold so much cum inside your body and at times it reaches that point and full storage capacity where it overflows naturally even so I guess it is okay for you to do so

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