Not sure if I’m too Tight/inexperienced or loose?

[Anonymous]

Earlier this year I got dumped soon after sex. Still not sure if I did something wrong. Things were going so well before that last session. He struggled to get in that morning so I thought a vibrater would help but as I got it out he got dressed and said I can use it alone then went away and started chatting to other girls online telling them how I’m not really his type. He told me it was because I was too shy and not willing to do everything he wanted like anal.(the guy was a virgin and couldn’t even find the front hole so I said we both ain’t ready for it but he seemed mad at me so I felt like my vagina wasn’t good enough for him. He told someone I was quite loose down there from having afew partners but told somebody else that he prefers a more experienced girl so I want to know which is true. How can my vagina be loose and sore for him at the same time and why would he prefer a more experienced women if even I’m too loose for him?

[Anonymous]

You’re fine. He’s a total douche. He’s mad about his own poor performance and ineptitude and he’s blaming you in whatever way works. Decent men don’t talk about details like that with other people. And men who know what they’re doing make sure their lover has had enough foreplay to ensure that sex is comfortable.

Also, to correct your own misconception, you might be sore, but experience does not make you “loose”. Your vagina is not a cylindrical void that get bigger every time you have sex. It’s muscle tissue and it’s elastic, returning to its normal closed self every time.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

He got offended when you pulled out the vibrator - an object designed specifically to get a woman off. His over-sensitive ego told him that you couldn't get off with him and chose the vibrator, so he stormed out in a child-like tantrum.

He then went and trashed you to everyone, stating anything hurtful, and his self-delusion and lying led him to make contradictory statements that are obviously just lies designed to hurt your feelings, because his are hurt and he's lashing out at you through others.

Red flags everywhere, ghost his ass and think about the red flags that led up to that moment - they were most certainly there from the beginning of the relationship. Reflect, learn, and I hope you find better next time.

[Yanifah]

He sounds completely insecure. Being hurtful and spreading false personal information about you is only to deflect his own ineptitude. Sorry you have to deal with that. Try to rise above and move on to better things. Don't waste your time with such an immature person.

[Can-I-Get-A-DoOver]

He’s an ass. He’s blaming you for his own inadequacies. Kick him to the curb and don’t look back. You should be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself.

[sassy1433]

Him saying you’re loose is so wrong. Maybe he just has a small dick. Guy sounds like a jerk.

[normalice]

He is clueless and doesn't understand why you aren't as excited about anal as he imagined you should be.

[TraceyByrd]

Sounds like he's using you it's fine if ur that kind & don't mind. I wouldn't even bother wasting my time on someone like dat neither 💯🤦

[SirrVeta]

There is not such a thing as "too thight" honestly

[Twalli]

The tightness of a vagina is not determined by the amount of sex or number of partners you've had

[GordD678]

Not sure if it means that much to me I tend to work with what I got or what she has

[Nachowedgie]

He doesn't like the use of toys

[gandolph3]

Nothing wrong with you, he is very immature

[Anonymous]

I don't know what his problem is but I can say for sure that he is a complete asshole and you are better off without him. And trust me, there is nothing wrong with your pussy.