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How do you cope with not having sex or a relationship?

Anonymous
I’m 23, and made the decision to remain single and a virgin for the rest of my life at 18. To make a long story short, I am currently obese (obviously why I’m single and a virgin right now). However, once I lose the weight, I’ll still look awful due to saggy boobs, loose skin, deep stretch marks, strawberry skin, etc. I won’t have the body of a normal woman, skinny or fat, and I don’t want to be in a relationship/intimate with a guy knowing he can do better and save myself the embarrassment of showing my body.

However, I am still human. As much as I know it’s the right decision for me, I’d be lying if I said I don’t want those things and I occasionally think about it. Everyone has time frames where they aren’t sexually active or in a relationship. How do/did you cope with it?

Disclaimer: I don’t want pity or brutal opinions on my decision, because it won’t change it.
How do you cope with not having sex or a relationship?
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