Yea it’s just crazy that girls today seem to just settle for FWB’s which FWB’s isn’t bad if the intentions are to get to know that person more , but if they are FWB’s while screwing other guys as well then to me that is just dirty , I don’t want to fuck a girl that just got laid by another guy 2 nights prior to having sex with me, to me that’s a huge turn off considering you feel like you are just being compared and used and not only that what about STD’s? it’s like people don’t give 2 shits about them anymore and whatever happened to AIDS? It’s like Aids never existed..
The number of girls visiting sex health clinics is just a queue in a town with uni students. It's the cities that are overbooked with girls and so I don't look too much at city girls.
Internet and bars lol
to be honest the only girls that seem to be up for a fuck overall are fat single moms... i'm jealous xD i'm actually looking for friends with benefits but all the girls want this hollywoold nonsene xDjust for clarification: in your opinion: what's the difference between an open relationship and friends with benefits?
No not fat single moms, but good looking married Moms that lie about being married that like to have sex and cheat on their husbands lol. the difference between friends with benefits and Open Relationship? friends with benefits is basically just having sex with someone that you consider a good friend with No strings attached, not rushing into a commitment. Open to meeting others and weighing your options , you pretty much are free to do what you want without answering to a committed partner , an open relationship is 2 people committed to each other that allow each other to go screw other people with the intentions of not breaking the commitment of love between you both , they are just accepting of sex with others as long as feelings don’t come into play and try to jeopardize their relationship. To me an open relationship is a fucked up thing and usually never works out because someone eventually gets feelings for 1 of their sex partners and then the relationship ends. FWB’s is a 50/50 chance that usually ends bad as well unless both decide to stay together and be committed , but it usually ends when the 1 friend finds someone else while the other just wants to be with them. Which has happened to me , the girl I was FWB’s with was the girl I should of committed to but I was so wrapped up in meeting other girls and having fun that she finally gave up on me and met someone else , it kicked me right in the ass and I thought to myself what a dumb ass I was, She was the one that got away and I kick myself in the ass still to this day about it
so for you the difference is the "commitment? for me the difference is actually exclusivity. i think friends with benefits is "exclusivity" ithout commitment. open relationship is commitment without exclusivity. i also think open relationships fuck up most people. only very few have the psychological setup for that.
Yea , if I I am in a committed relationship with someone I love and care for I couldn’t be happy knowing she is getting screwed by another guy , and I couldn’t be in a relationship with girl that was ok with me banging other girls , If a relationship ever got to that point I would. Just end it considering that would be my answer that she wasn’t in love with me anymore , what would be the point of being in a relationship with someone that needed others to fulfill them? Go your separate ways and find someone that wants to stand by your side and be faithful. As for FWB’s that only occurs when I meet a girl that doesn’t want to rush into a relationship , most the time either she just got out of one or I did vice versa , Most girls I became FWB’s with were ones that said they were going through a divorce and didn’t want to settle right away , but then later on find out they weren’t goingThrough a divorce they just weren’t fulfilled in their marriage.
some people are ok with sharing love with more than one person. for some people, exclusivity is nonsensical, cause love is limitless. it's not "spent" with loving one person. but yeah :D i do not have that opinion either xD
Yea I can’t just hook up with a girl and act like nothing happened , But most girls today just want a hook up , they automatically assume that it was just a hook up , If I meet a beautiful girl and we hit it off and we end up making out , my intentions are to see her more with hopes we get to know each other more and more , so for me to get to that point of locking lips with her and getting lost in her eyes and having her in my arms should be the indicator of letting her know that I like her a lot but sadly to say most girls these days just assume a guy is looking for a piece of ass and just someone to get off on , I guess I am old school. Cuz it seems like girls don’t want to settle down anymore they like the convenience of having NonStrongs Attached, if I have sex with a girl and find out she is screwing someone else , I am instantly turned off and think to myself that she is a whore cuz to me that is just plain out dirty
That's a question to me too. I don't understand Casual Relationship or "situationship". Basically, it's like people are just too lazy to pursue and keep building the bond. I'm sorry but I was one that thought men are just looking for asses. It could me who had been in the wrong places. How old are your girls, anyways? Me in my 20s was not looking for a relationship. It means I didn't date to give false hope to anyone.
Mainly girls in their 20’s and 30’s
It seems like women in 20s are less likely to settle down as well as young men. Well, women in 30s do that too? Maybe they never want to get married in the first place. I think it's better to ask "What are you looking for?"
I am seeking love and trust and respect , someone that values me like I value them , not running off booking up with others , but it seems nobody really wants that now a days , people like the convenience of each other , I am not really into that , if I am having sex with a girl I want to only have sex with her and want her to only have sex with me
Personally, I think if a woman is fine to have sex too fast, it's probably sign that she wants sex more than a relationship. Maybe find one who waits? I just found this and it's empowering. (Let's take a look at the comment section.)https://youtu.be/w1N9KCAQLqQI hope you will meet someone as you wish.
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You’re a rarity these days lol
I am always a gentlemen outside the bedroom 😋