Is showing this much cleavage sexually inviting?

These pictures normally include my face when they are not cropped for this question.

A male friend told me that this much cleavage in social media pictures is a very clear sexual invitation. According to him, I am advertising that I am interested.

Personally, I just feel claustrophobic and have a harder time breathing when my neckline is too high, so I generally wear lower v-necks. My larger breasts do not help my case. The rest of my clothing is pretty modest.
Is showing this much cleavage sexually inviting?
Is showing this much cleavage sexually inviting?
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  • I'd say forget everyone and just be yourself.

    I dont think its sexually inviting specifically but you are a smart woman I'm sure u can decide if it is or it's not yourself. Ultimately you have to trust and rely on your own decernemnt so consider that

    My opinion though, just to add another perspective, I'd say that that shirt in particular is like an either or shirt, like I dont think its telling of anything on it's own of whats going on in your mind, the reason you wear it could be any reason, your intention could be any intention and you may not have even had a reason or intention, maybe you just put a shirt on, its harmless i mean there doesn't even have to be a meaning to everything we do, who knows what it means lol and it would be assumptive of anyone to tell u what reason or intention u are wearing it for, they are not u so how could they possibly know why you do anything you do, all anyone can ever see is how you do it and the how is up to you.

    But, on another note, because the shirt follows the contours and curves of your body, not going to lie it is kinda hot, and it's easy to see you have a really good body, that no one can deny but where the but comes in is you cannot control what other peoples minds do with that, and even in some cases they may have little control too. People may be reminded of their own fantasies, repressions, body parts or feelings, I'm not defending anyone but often our mnids dnot awlyas look wahts atacluly tehre to get meaning and so suggestion can set off trains of thought or conditions and reactions indirectly even if the person doesn't want to think about that.. So the suggestion of boobs basically indirectly points mens brains towards anything they personally have associated with boobs or treat bodies etc. This has gotten pretty long for such a simple question so il end it here

    I say, If u like it wear it, dont take it all to seriously it's just clothes, peoples minds and their wanderings are their own karma and responsibility not yours, but I guess we should always consider how how we do things can influence the world to. In the end just be yourself, coz you are an awesome person! Good luck :)

  • Honestly, you aren't showing that much cleavage at all - it's just that you have bigger boobs, and that's always going to draw more sexual attention no matter what.

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  • I do not feel you are showing off too much cleavage in these pictures at all - and indeed what cleavage you are showing off is very sexy and yet tasteful! I wouldn’t worry too much - what you are wearing in these pictures is very classy and most importantly, what you are comfortable wearing! :)

  • I woupdn't say it's outright advertising, no. That said, women tend to think any displays of flesh shouldn't be taken as anything, unless they want specific types of guys to notice. Thing is, that's some sexy form. Cleavage or no, dudes is gonna be checking you out. So on some level, if you're displaying your form at all, the argument can be made you're advertising if you're displaying anything a guy would want to look at. Which will virtually always be the case, unless you dress in a burka or whatever the fuck.

    In the end, the answer is both yes and no. For you, practically, no you aren't dressing like a whore; yes guys will be checking you out; amd, no, you shouldn't give a fuck.

  • it's all very modest... think of this girls will be girls... girls can't be boys because some freak can't handle the sexuality of a woman... and yes girls can be sexual as some guys can.

  • No, not at all... And it wouldn't matter anyways because whether showing cleavage or not, men are going to notice big boobs... Same with big butts, even women that aren't wearing shorts or skirts with it hanging out are still going to get men staring at it. Dress the way you feel comfortable, and your "friend" or anyone else that tells you otherwise eh "F" em 🙂🙂

  • He is fucking stupid no offense but really. Where is the cleavage I can barely see it? Wear what you want it doesn't make you invite anything and those who think so are really stupid.

    You can be nude for all I care and it doesn't say you want something.

  • your chest is just pushing ur shirt, yea, the top is a little low necked but cleavage-wise, there's barely any. Its decent enough. if anyone gets sexually aroused, its because they are looking at the chest size, not the cleavage.

  • I'd ask him what the hell you are suppose to do with them. None of those pictures or clothes that you are wearing are what one would call sexually inviting.

  • I dont think any of those pics are particularly sexual, you just have a large chest and you shouldn't have to hide your bodh becauss some guys can't help but think with their dick

  • That amount is fine and appropriate. Any less than that though, and yeah, men have every right to glance. Though I will say, you have quite the attractive body, miss. You are certainly blessed! (Checked the username to make sure you're over 18.)

  • Yes, I perceive like it is. However in this situation you should not care or maybe you could find another way to cover it somehow, a way that doesn't make you feel tight around the neck.

  • There is not much cleavage. The sexual attraction (and there is a lot) comes from the tight shirt stretched over your large breasts, and there are lots of guys who will get triggered.

  • No, they’re just normal photos of you. I guess he may just feel a little intimidated by the female body. Just carry on being you and taking nice photos.

  • I THINK he could be right because the first thing I see is your lips that take me to your neck that takes me to your breast that takes me back to your lips that say Hi Steve hey can you hep me I can't seem to beable to breath at the moment because my shirt is a little to tight ,, yes put your soft lips right Here on my sexy beautiful lips and make me breath HARD LOL I say your friend might be right. But what do friends know lol,, I like the way you think better

  • I think it is a little sexy, not enough to say you are using your sexuality to attract men.

  • Cleavage is no big deal. Don't be afraid to show off your body.

  • No, I just assume you are looking for attention and validation.

  • All these women who are saying that this isn't sexually inviting, I would like to say one thing. Unless you are a lesbian and attracted to other women, you wouldn't know if this is inviting. Listen, nothing wrong with being yourself but it isn't good to cause someone else to stumble.

  • Men wish it was an invitation and get frustrated when it isn't. But the only thing that's an invitation to sex is an invitation to sex.

  • It obviously shows that your male friend hasn't a clue what he's talking about.

  • I'd depends on the outfit oddly the no picture is the most "inviting" picture as it shows the most cleavage. But now a days I think any smart guy should know that no amount of a girls sexuality is an invitation. So in modern times it's not an issue. But I would just be careful in certain places like bars and stay safe because some men are just asking for trouble

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