Why do guys find girls masturbating so hot?

So often its men saying that girls masturbating is so hot and all that, but is it any different then a girl getting off with a video of a guy masturbating? I've even got dms about it and i dont mind, just wondering why its a common theme to imagine myself/women in general masturbating and think its hot.
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  • I dont know if its more common for men to enjoy this than women or not but my experience suggests to me that men and women are equally as interested in seeing this and for exactly the same reasons.

    The difference is not in genders per se it is in societial expectations of behavior and women still feeling as though they should in some way be ashamed of having sexual interests.

    Its not an issue of oppression as such, its just not out there in the ether in the same way, women themselves keep this stuff secret and men do not.

    Some women have told me before that they would find it hot to watch 2 guys together, so i just dont really think there is any difference at all on a personal level, maybe fast forward 50? 100? 200? years when this sort of information is just out there as a common knowledge and i doubt there would be any gender seperation.

    Now you might say well Im a woman and i am not particularly into seeing a guy masturbate or 2 guys kissing or whatever but i dont think that changes anything, Im not necessarily particularly interested in seeing that myself as I say the difference is whats out in the ether, the whole bi sexual women 3 in a bed thing is a porn meme since before anyone even knew what a meme is so its an idea that everyone is exposed to and i dont think the thinking for the guy (who is a very young man) initially is much beyond 'those girls are really horny, maybe they would fuck me too?' Because this hidden, its unlady like or whatever, on some level men actually believe that women dont like sex because of this slut shaming bulllshit that goes on, you only need take a look at the posts here to see that even though legally speaking the genders are as equal as they could ever be, society as a collective has not moved on and maybe it can't until the old ideas literally die away with the people who grew up in a different time. Hopefully the idea that men are all cunt thirsty lying pigs who only want to get laid will die a death too, because that isn't any different either.

    Men and women both like sex, equally, because its natural and love is just a chemical in your brain which blinds you to how much of a twat your partner is long enough for you to make a baby.

    • There is nothing more perfectly beautiful and no greater sexual turn on than a woman fully aroused and orgasming multiple times. I recently had a date and found myself pinned with a lover's thigh on either side of me.. I assumed she was going to lower herself onto either my face or my hard on but instead she just stayed there, pushed my arms away when I tried to touch her and very sexily pushed any arm hand with which I was going to try to touch her but she indicated she wanted me to be still and enjoy. From d=sitting directly over my chest she masturbated herself to an intense orgasm, it was incredibly hot and it felt like she was being a little dom, which was cool so I can tell you that it is a turn on of another order of magnitude in person. One of the things that made it so hot was just bringing out that level of pushing boundaries the first time was a pleasant surprise. She obviously had thought exactly what you had, i. e. that guys think a girl fucking herself is totally hot. It's the raw sexuality of watching an attractive girl fucking herself, the still. slightly tabu nature of. I am a well-mannered, non-chauvinist "cunt thirsty lying pig" That's a great line but I don't lie much and I'm not really a pig but "cunt-thisty" I'll raise my hand for

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  • I'd say it's something different... I would aim to think with girls there is more sensual feelings and moaning than with guys. But to be fair, it could kind of be treated as a way to be intimate with a girl, without being there. Kind of like a sexual fantasy. Maybe girls could do that too... But it's an intimate experience being shared with another person. I'd say that girls probably look and feel more romantic than guys. As with girls it's an experience and with guys it's a goal. Although using a tool for girls vs just fingers might feel the same as a guys video to an extent

    • I've never seen one before myself however

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  • A biological response to women enjoying sexual pleasure. Guys seem to get turned on by girls doing anything walking, dancing, working, working out, teaching, nursing, being a student, cleaning, guys don't seem to have an off button. Take my ex for instance I remember bending over to pick something up and he was good to go.

    • Nah u are wrong

    • Definitely wrong

    • So wrong I'm wrong just for replying

  • Because they want the girl to orgasm, but they don't know how to make it happen?

    • P'tomb I don't see why"

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  • Most guys love it anytime a girl is being sexual. We love to see that side of you ladies, and we like imaging ourselves being part of the experience as well.

  • I think it's just something that guys really like because they are guys. Like the a hot girl masturbating turns pretty much any guy on. I have no clue why but it is something that we really just love!

  • First, girl's bodies are pretty, especially when they are in motion.
    Second, it's great to watch her face as she starts really feelin' it.
    Third, when she really starts working it, we try to imagine what she feels.
    Fourth, women are kind of a mystery to us, so we're fascinated.
    Last, watching as they are overtaken by orgasm is the coolest thing ever.

  • For me, I love knowing that a woman is feeling amazing. So to see her feel amazing and her body lose control (functioning sexually and naturally) as her eyes are rolled into the back of her head accompanied with the wet sloppy sounds is a major turn-on. But it has to be a video for me that's real, not some porn video or chaturbate like faker.

  • First off my girlfriend love to watch me get myself off, they get so into it.

    I think both sexes like to see someone in a sexual state they rarely ever see. It is a genuine state because the person is doing it to themselves, so they are doing it exactly as they like it. All the girls have a "fascinated" look in their eyes.

  • It is just so hot to watch them have a fantastic orgasm.

  • When a girl doing it is more unique than a guy doing it, as most guys doing it anyway, while not all girls are doing it, also it proves that the girl is not frigid, guys don't need to prove it. :)

  • In contarary to a girl, for a guy sex is more mental than physical. thats why imagining sex makes guy horney but physical touch is needed to aurose a girl. And visuals are like fuel for imaginations, and this is exactly why guys are into porn. And a solo girl mastubating is like rocket fuel for imagination as you dont get distacted by dicks and if the guy beleaves that he is the reason of the mastrubation then he will definitely get turn on by seeing her mastrubating.

  • For me it`s the visual of it. Obviously we have something to stroke and hold onto whereas girls don`t.
    I just love what your lips look like and it turns me on so much watching how you play with yourselves compared to how me do it, and i love the cute squelching sound it makes while you`re doing it and especially watching your contractions when you`re having your orgasm.
    There`s nothing better

  • It's the same as if a girl likes watching a guy. It's also interesting to see what feels good for her and what she likes.

  • I can break it down pretty plain and simple, you are getting to see a woman's genitalia. If she is rubbing it, that usually indicates that she is horny which is also another turn on. It's also a learning experience, watch how long she's rubbing her clit, pay attention to how hard she is pressing, when she switches down to her pussy. In general, pay attention gentlemen and you may learn something. In the end it'll make you a better lover.

  • Well first of all it's definitely true that watching female masturbation is very hot and erotic. And it's also educational. You get to see what the girl does to get herself off and the best videos of that show her vulva up close (which of course is erotically beautiful in itself). But while it might seem odd from a girl's point of view that guys would like seeing that so much, from a heterosexual guy's perspective it makes perfect sense. And the girl's reactions and expressions as she becomes more and more aroused and then orgasms are also beautiful to watch.

  • i like a girl thinking about me while masturbating. i've done that in person and then i take over. it's actually hot. i don't find it stimulating any other way

  • Cuz we love her body language , the way she is pleasing herself and we picture ourselves pleasing her , a girls face expressions and the way her body quivers is hot to us , we picture ourselves fucking her And making her quiver and moan. So what turns you on when a guy is stroking his cock? Aren’t you picturing his cock inside you?

  • I personally don't get the appeal.

  • A woman delivering and experiencing self pleasure. That's why.

  • I don't, I want to fuck, not watch someone else get off.

  • Well I believe we admire the woman's body and if we were admiring it laying there we would prefer it to be animated

  • I think watching a woman having an orgasm and experiencing sexual pleasure is beautiful and arousing. That's why lol That and women sometimes use their whole body, running their hands down their thighs, breasts, arms, abdomen, etc.

  • Guys just like girls cumming. It gets them off.
    You're still kinda new at all this eh?

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