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Sexual Health Why does he treat me like this if we are only FWB?
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**It is a little long, but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE take the time to read it! I put it in dot point for to make it simpler and used shorter sentences. -I have an FwB, we do not have sex Because I'm a virgin (though he isn't) -We weren't 'friends' before our arrangement, but are pretty close now -He treats me like his girlfriend : *He texts at least every two days (and we usually speak for at least 3 hours) *Recently he's been texting me every day straight after he gets out of school, sometimes even during school. *He puts kisses at the end of lots of texts *He wants to see me often (usually we see each other once a week, but sometimes wants more than that). *We say goodnight to each other pretty much every night, and he always puts heaps of x's and o's, and sometimes even puts a little heart *He calls me cutie, it's like his pet name for me, sometimes even says I'm 'his' cutie *He treats me really well : texts me no matter when it is (even if he is at a party or is hanging with his mates), and even texts me during his work breaks, and straight after he has finished work And this really amazed me: -I have a bad case of lockjaw and didn't want to tell him (I thought it would be fixed before our next 'meeting', and I can't give head, because I cannot open my jaw wide) -he had asked me multiple times that day 'are we gonna chill?xx' -I kept saying 'maybee' because I didn't want to tell him that I couldn't do pretty much what he wanted to do the entire time (or so I thought) But then I finally told him - I was so afraid that he wouldn't want to see me anymore that night (because we are friends with benefits so I figured since I couldn't give him head he wouldn't wanna see me). -I explained what was wrong and told him that I would understand if he didn't want to see me anymore that night. -he said 'No no baby, I wanna see you :) It's OK, I don't mind, we can still chill, and I'll still get to do stuff to you. If you wanna? xxxx' So basically, he was fine that I couldn't do much for him, and even was willing to do stuff for me! -And that's exactly what happened, we hung out for almost 2 hours -most of that time was spent on me (I did obviously stuff for him too) - when we were saying goodbye I lingered for a few minutes, because I didn't want to leave (and he wasn't exactly eager to just drop me home and drive off either), and he gave me a long warm hug, and lots of kisses (on the cheek and stuff too), and then I finally left. - then he texted me as soon as he got home, and we spoke for a little while before I went to bed. What does all this mean? Why does he treat me like this if we are only FwB?
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