Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?

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Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?
Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?
Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?
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Because of this picture I am putting this in the sexuality category... Just in case...
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  • I personally like to switch it up with who takes on the reigns. It's not necessarily a one night it's my turn, another it's yours - though that works well too lol! But, in the heat of the moment and play - I like to vibe off of one another and take turns kinda like ummm a dance battle lol of who can push one's buttons better.

    Example - I start off by restraining the guy in a chair as I grind and rub up on his body and give him a dance and strip. Next, he can blind fold and restrain me up against a door and have his way with me, tantalizing my body but without penetration. Next, I restrain him to the bed, oil myself up and give him a rub down... the play can go on and on until one cracks and begs for it 😏

    • I adore your opinions! ALWAYS sooooooo sexy! I enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic lovely 🌸

    • Hahaha thank you ♥️ I know what I like in and out of the bedroom, though I'm generally an open person in trying out new things - I try my best to enjoy life and learn from the experiences it gives 🙂

    • That's EXACTLY how it should be... Life is too short to be unfulfilled

Most Helpful Girl

  • am mostly in control when it comes to roleplay and tie jax to things because i like to feel like a boss and powerful and gives him painful pleasure i want to be the only woman that gives him that kinda of pleasure but we do switch a lot but am not into pain as he is but i like him to take control in some days where am in the mood but dont have energy and he does it so gooooooooooooood i get some energy but he overpowers me in a very sensual sexy way and puts me back because he is the boss at this moment

    • I enjoyed reading your post sooooooo freaking MUCH!!! Thanks for explaining your answer and sharing your experience!🔥🔥🔥 And good morning 🌞🔆🌻

    • thank you and with your comments i get more eager to share more and i didn't expect it would be such fun to be honest so thank you

    • No probs!!! I try to create a fun place for us all to come together and be real... I am tired of all the anonymity on this site...

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, that's not something I would enjoy.

    I guess I am dominant, but mostly just in the bedroom. I have not really had a chance to explore my upper limit of desire for dominance.

    As the quote goes "All living things desire to discharge their power". It's just nice to be in control and let out emotions that don't have anywhere else to go normally. Or maybe it just turns me on to give orders and pick out outfits and such.

    I might be willing to pretend to be a sub to give a partner the same opportunity, but I'm really not at all excited by it so I have never offered.

    • I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for explaining your answer

    • And thank you for the mho random anonymous user. You seem like someone I really like.

  • Switch! I like to please. And I can do that from a dominant position. Being confident and saying or telling what I want! I can please as a sub. I can express that I like what I'm getting and keep motivating the dom. Normally I take the dom role for the finish. And a dom is what I plane to be unless stated or started in a way I know my role. My biggest example of how I like to be dominant is in face sitting. I LOVE not being able to touch as the girl has all control of allowing me to like her!!!

    • I adored this answer! I enjoyed reading the the energy you are putting off! Completely lovely! Thank you for the awesome feedback! I hope you have a good morning/day 🔆🌻✨

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  • I am a switch. But I mostly like to be dominated by my partner. I find this as erotic, I feel under his control. But all good when it is done only for sexual arousal.

    Just to heat it up, he would spank me, slap me, say some abusive words, use me as his slave, make me lick his cock clean, I swallow his spit, he also makes me lick his boots, lick his soles, butthole, uses me as his foot rest, doormat. Thus, I like his domination.

    • Thanks for explaining your answer for me and sharing how you identify! Super helpful

  • I am a sub through an through in the bedroom. I prefer to have a dom because I make a lot of decisions for a lot of people on the daily that I don't want to think but just feel in the bedroom, getting more specific on the type of sub I am is a bratty babygirl

    • Thanks for explaining your answer and sharing how you identify in BDSM

    • No worries, I find being open is easier instead of filling 1001 questions

    • Ahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣 That's funny AF

  • In the relationship itself I want me and my partner to be on equal footing. I don't like being told what to do and I don't want to be with someone who needs directions either. I want a dialogue, with me and my partner meeting eye to eye.

    The bedroom is another thing tho, there's always room for experimentation there 😂

    • I totally understand that! Bedroom comes with all new rules

  • I think that I prefer to switch every so often. Keeps it frash and feels more "fair" if that makes sense.

    I haven't really tried it tho. I don't think that I could be dominated all the time. I would become very protective and would go in against her.
    Always dominating seems a bit boring. I'm sure that I could do it if she likes it. I do think it gets a bit stale.

    Would have to try all of the options for a while

    • Thanks so much for explaining your answer!!! And for telling me more about yourself

    • No problemm 😊 happy to share

  • I'm 100% sub living with my dom and I just love being dominated it turns me on so much

    • That's a beautiful thing

    • We love it anyway

  • I prefer balance, as all things should be

    • I totally get that

  • I think I want us to have an equal or shared relationship but I'd like to maybe have fun with that as bedroom role play :)

    • Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic!

    • Welcome 😊

    • YAY 🙋 Good morning 🌞🌻🔆

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  • i'm dominant so being dominated in a relationship isn't something that appeals to me tbf

    • It's totally understandable! Thanks for sharing how you identify! I enjoyed reading your post

    • you are welcome as always :) and likewise, i always enjoy reading your posts :)

    • YAY 🙋 HUGS

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  • My girlfriend was an mixed martial artists in the Octagon. Me, a Gulf War Vet. We were always in our birthday suits inside our home, so if one of us wanted sugar, and the other not in the mood, tackling and mounting each other was enjoyable foreplay that sharpened our combat skills and seduction techniques simultaneously. Domination was fun for both parties regardless of who was on the receiving end of this intimate aggression.

    • Thanks sooooooo MUCH for explaining your answer! I enjoyed reading!!! 🙆🔥👏

    • "My pleasure😍!!"

    • I hope you enjoy your night!

  • I am a dom

    • in my last relationship I was definetly a sub

    • That's interesting! Thanks for sharing how you identify! I appreciate it

  • Why all the drama? I just wanted a best friend I could have sex with. And that's what I have. Her language articulation is like Yoda and we get along fine.

    Do You Want To Be Dominated In A Relationship? Why Or Why Not?
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    • Best friend did everything "but" have sex with me. The distinction was that any intimacy associated with pair bonding or courting a girl with parent's approval too become lifemates with offspring too carry on the family name. More like a sister, she's kissed every part of my anatomy except my bare lips, that being reserved for the father of her children only. A kissing game involving her and a couple girls from town had them seeing how far each would take a dare, with one of the girls matching my freinds kiss for kiss with my platonic female buddy wiping my rear after two of the three girls had already kissed each testicle and penis, and were comfortable spreading cheeks too kiss my exposed anus, which I thought was gross, but girls were known too do gross things sometimes for those they liked. The cute blonde girl did thebunthinkable and kissed my lips like Scarlet Ohara did in Gone With the wind, something my best friend would only do for her future husban. It turned out that blond girl had ideas about her and me having kids of our own someday, her entitlement too unrestricted access too any part of me she wanted, providing I was of the same mind. I was, so she assisted in my hygiene and preventative health inspections, guaranteeing no entitlement too privacy or keeping secrets from those two. One loving me like a sister, the other like a girlfriend--fience. Both comfortable handling and kissing me between the legs, only the girlfriend kissing my lips while the other felt a peck on the cheek or forehead pushing appropriate social convention. Kissing my penis as innocent as a hand shake. That was nearly 5 decades ago, with stories my great grandmothers and Aunts told of their childhood days preceeding Orvill and Wilbur's famous solo flight at Kittyhawk in 1903. There were no boundaries regarding a girl's entitlement too enjoy boys unclothed bodies at the swimming hole and bathtub.

    • @Citizenkirk OMG 😱😱😱😱😱😱

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  • I don't hate the concept of domination in a relationship, and I like strong and powerful women so I would definitely enjoy it from time to time, but overall I am not a fan of master/slave rhetoric. It may be enjoyable to play around with these ideas, but a relationship should focus on equality, in my opinion.

    • That makes sense! The slave kink is definitely not for everyone...

  • Well that depends on mood and person I am with... if they are dom, I can be sub. If they are sub, I can be dom even if they want to switch it back and forth they is quite okay with me too tbh

    • It's okay to be a switch... Thanks for sharing

    • Yeah quite well even more to spice and try new things

    • Awesome feedback! You give great opinions! Thank you

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  • Im a sub and my girlfriend is a dom and we quite like it that way. It suits us.

    • Thanks for sharing something about yourself!

  • My partner is a dom, and God damn it is so sexy.
    Im more of a switch. Sometimes I want to be in control

    • That does sound sexy!

  • I can switch to be a dom or i can be a submissive but all my relationships was me being the dom but i want to be a submissive but no women seems to want a submissive guy and dominate me and make me do anything she wants to me

    • Thanks sooooooo MUCH for sharing what you identify as! Great feedback

    • Ur welcome i just hope u dnt judge me because most women i tell that to just leave me 😞 ill tell u anything u want to know i have no serects just want to be open and honest

    • I don't judge... I'm not perfect and have no right... We are human and like what we like! And that's totally okay ✨

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  • Yes, I love a Woman who can dominant me and take control of me

    • Thank you for the feedback!

    • @secret6620 You're Welcome :)

  • It'd be a battle for domination til the end <3

    • GREAT answer!

  • Sexually submissive, dominant or equal elsewhere

    • Thanks for explaining your answer!

  • am a dom so no i dont want to be dominated. diminating her on the other hand...

    • Oh I know lol

    • lol indeed

    • better question is if you want to be dominated or not

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