How long do you date with someone before you have sex?

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Dont you think couples have sex way too soon? Like I know many people they have sex into first week of the relationship.

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AustinMan Influencer
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I don't have sex with someone until we have a strong emotional connection and we have this conversation.

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Reaperbot666 Guru
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- I hold all new possible partners up to 4 standards
- 1. have to be in a exclusive relationship before engaging in any form of sexual interaction.
- 2. have to have been dating for at least 90 days
- 3. have to both get tested to prove we're clean of anything nasty.
- 4. we both use protection options to reduce risk of pregnancy.
- if they can't follow those then their not worth my time.
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- Asker
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  I like all your rules so much bro. The first one proves that it is not a one-night relationship, and it is something serious, which may end up as a marriage. The second one can be flexible I guess, but not by too much. The third one makes sense yes, because usually people nowadays sleep with many different partners. The fourth one is good too, have any of your partners tried pills to prevent pregnancy? I'd prefer that than condom. But sometimes condoms are better, to last longer.
- Reaperbot666
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  some girls like to trap a guy though. so when in doubt wrap your tool.
- Asker
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  I'd make sure she takes the pill in front of my eyes :D
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- Reaperbot666
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  hookup culture is ruining an chance at a long term relationship with some. new studies show girls who have a long history are less likely to bond to any one partner.
- Asker
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  I am not sure I understand what you mean. But I think it is better that people stay loyal to each other. Changing partners every year or two may feel like the feeling of "love" is not as exciting as before.
- Reaperbot666
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  pauldavidphd.com/.../Pair-Bonding.pdf
  www.medinstitute.org/.../
  www.webmd.com/.../how-the-love-hormone-works-its-magic
  www.psychologicalscience.org/.../...over-time.html
  www.thetrumpet.com/7750-the-emotional-corrosion-of-casual-sex
- Asker
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  I'll try to read tomorrow

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BlondeGoneWild Guru
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If the date goes well I’m always happy to fuck. Sometimes even before the first date 😂
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- Asker
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  I can see that from the pic :D
Quackthulu Guru
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Depends on how long it takes to know that they are worth having sex with
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- Asker
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  Many people do it within first couple weeks. It is not possible to know someone in that period. Sometimes people I know for years surprise me by their actions/words. It takes years to know someone. But in relationships, I think it should be 3-6 months, depending on where you live. Some countries and people are more strict.
- Quackthulu
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  I didn’t say to know someone, I said to know that they are worth having sex with.

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Drumlin2001 Guru
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Really depends on who they are, what i see in the relationship. If it's worth it i'd wait a while. If i thought it was only a casual thing i would expect it within a month
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MountAverage Guru
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No, I don't think that. I think grown ups should have sex with each other when they feel like it.
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- Asker
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  You do not agree with what? Having sex to soon? Maybe but I think having sex within first couple weeks is way too soon.
- MountAverage
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  Then I suggest you don't have sex within the first couple of weeks, if for whatever reason you have an issue with it. But that's your business. Why should anyone else go by how YOU feel about it?
- Asker
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  People are different :D
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- MountAverage
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  Exactly. So if you prefer wait longer for sex, that doesn't mean that's the right thing for other people to do.
- Asker
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  I did never say it is right or wrong. It just feels weird for me to have sex with someone whom I know for a week.
- MountAverage
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  That's totally fine. Unfortunately a lot of people project their personal feelings onto other people and judge them for feeling and acting differently. But good for your if you're not one of them! :)
- Asker
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  I do not judge, everyone is responsible with themselves. But if you ask my opinion, I'd rather date/marry someone who haven't slept with everyone easily.
- Asker
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  As in like I'd love to have a virgin girlfriend or someone who has very little experience, just like myself.
- MountAverage
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  Sure, whatever works for you!
abc--123 Master
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When they are ready. Im ready to go straight away
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