I want a bigger butt, do guys like big butt in a girl?

I want a bigger butt, do guys like big butt in a girl?

I have a small and pretty much flat butt, and I hate it. I hate it so much. I just want to be thick and have a big butt. Is there anything I can do? All my friends have big butts and I just want one too.
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  • I like a nicely shaped butt. Prefer the butt to be round and not sagging. Firm maybe isn't the word... it just needs to look appealing... compare it to a man's muscles... you'd prefer certain muscle structures to other muscle structures on his chest, right? Like, good quality pecs and biceps nicely scultped? That's the same for the arse/ass.

  • Bigger is not always better.

    I care more about shape than size.

    I have a friend, she thinks hers is too small, I think it is just about perfect.

    I believe squats or side leg lifts are suppose to work the burt muscles

    • how does her butt look like? what shape

    • Decent amount of curve. She is more a petite body type I've seen a fair amount of detail cause of her tight pants, and a photo shot she did. Things I like to see are Divots under the butt checks The 2 dimples above the ass that are either side the spine Dosent interrupt view of thigh gap Nice round shape Can see where butt stops and thoughts begin. That's kind of what I look for in a nice shape, and she happens to have about all of that going on. It seems to me bigger butts lose those details so generally I like them a bit on the smaller side. I'm not into the thickk look.

    • do you have a pic to show your talking about lol?

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  • Big butts aren't my thing. Small-to-medium is my wheelhouse. Different guys like different things, though.

  • There is only one purpose in being beautiful and that purpose is that it’s a sign of fertility and baby making gene virtues so your butt should look like it makes you healthy and able to carry a pregnancy to term

  • Get a good female personal trainer who's built like you want and work your ass into shape.

  • I think it's very subjective.

    There are pros and cons to having any body type, too.

    A guy should like you for more than just how big your butt is, though. If your butt not being big enough is reason for him to not consider you, then he's probably not interested in you as a person and wouldn't be a quality person in the first place.

    I also think that being toned and fit is more important than the size of your butt. A smaller butt toned butt will still look good.

  • Remember those good ol' days when it was big tits that were in fashion?

    People wonder why i say women are just full of fucking lies... chock FULL of them...
    when guys were into titties... all the breast implants/lifts/tucks etc were all the rage... and lord help the guy who happened to answer the question "do these pants make my butt look fat"...
    Now guys are into phat asses... and all the girls are into butt implants, leggings, tight jeans and booty shorts etc... and squats.. anything to show that they have an ass.

    but you ask em why they do all that... its never to get the attention of men... its because they want to feel "sexy"... fucking liars. Smh.

  • Squats work girl! I dont got much to brag about but, mine grew some w working out. Got enough to grab a handful.

  • Girls think all guys are alike; how condescending is that idea? We ALL like big butts and big boobs. Because none of us think for ourselves.

  • I like small butts. No matter what you've got, some people will crave the butt you don't have. Find the people who love the butt you have.

    • Agreed! 😊😊

  • There's exercises you can do to increase the glute muscles. Many people tend to forget to work on all 3 glutueal muscles and focus on the maximus but there's the medius and minimus also.

  • Well not all men like big butts. But I personally do, and if that's what you want, you can get one by "bulking": being in a calorie surplus and lifting weights (primarily lifts like squats, barbell hip thrusts, leg press, dumbbell lunges, etc.).

    • I don't have a strong preference for the size of a girl's butt!
    • because so long as she is generally healthy and likes how she looks in the mirror. when it comes to things like butt, hips, bust, waist, etc. I find a wide range of female forms attractive. just helps if she is 100% natural however.
    • most girls have the natural ability to reshape their own bodies to some degree. with changes to their diet and exercise routines. to build themselves a body to be proud of when looking in a mirror.
    • Calisthenics are a go starting point to help define a persons body.
    • https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Calisthenics
    • there are bunch of different exercises and difficulty levels to each type of exercise. for most of the different zones of the body.
    • some guys do like a girl with a smaller butt if it is defined.
  • No. I do not like big butts. Small is best. Being flat is fine, too. Stay as you are. Perfect!

  • Nope. Smaller, but with a little shape to it.

  • That weird moment when society makes you hate yourself.

    Anyways, not nesscarily, some guys like big butts, some guys like small butts.

    But I reckon maybe most guys like big butts🤔

    Hell, idrk

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  • I think they care about shape more
    I think they care about shape more
    • which one arw you? lol

  • there's exercises for that on the internet

  • Big, plump, perky. That's the ideal for boobs and butts.

  • I don’t

  • I love a big butt, however not too big. There’s nothing wrong with a small one. In fact, I was quite taken with a woman years ago that had a small one. I still fell head over heels for her because we had so much in common.

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