If a guy gets rock hard after sex, does that mean he didn't have a very satisfying orgasm?

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My guy and I have a very active sex life and we are in our early 20s. I was having hot doggystyle sex with him last night and he came inside me. He sounded like he was enjoying himself quite a bit, he was moaning and cursing while he was cumming and when he pulled out, I felt his cum dripping out. His penis went down shortly after sex and he had a smoke and we watched tv for about 20 minutes. In about 20 to 30 minutes, his hands were all over me again and he was rock hard. I asked him if he wanted more sex and he said no and that he just really liked my body. It was a huge compliment and all, I'm not complaining. But I've always heard that if a guy cums during sex, he won't be able to get hard or cum again for awhile after sex. If his dick literally got rock hard again 20 minutes after he came in me, does that mean that he didn't get very satisfied the first time? The sex was great, but I'm worried that I couldve given him a better orgasm during the first round.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It sure as hell doesn't sound like you were unsatisfying or that he was not satisfied. Put those kind of thoughts out of your mind.
It's a little bit odd that he didn't want to fuck you some more when you offered. But even though he was hard, maybe he was afraid he wouldn't be able to cum again so soon. I don't know. Maybe he was being polite.

Recovery times can vary. I usually go soft after a massive, satisfying climax. I might be ready again in 20 minutes or not be interested again for 8 hours. But I've also fucked a woman for hours, non stop, and came inside her 4 or 5 times.

Don't worry about it.

summiter · Accepted Answer

Young guys can and will get hard again after round 1. It just means they are ready to go at it again if both of you want to. He must have been satisfied with just one orgasm. Different guys will get hard again at different time intervals after sex or jerking off. When I was in high school I would get hard again ten minutes later after jerking off or getting a bj or hj. Now I have to wait about 20-30 minutes before I'm ready to go again. All guys are different. How is your sex life with him otherwise?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sounds normal. My boyfriend sometimes is hard again 20 minutes after sex. If we try to have sex again though, he can’t cum again that soon. If we wait like an hour, then he can finish again. He enjoyed the first orgasm. The erection was probably just a reaction he couldn’t control. No worries.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Not at all as a 20 minute time period is plenty of time for most guys to be up and ready to go again. It would indicate he was excited and liked the 1st round and really wants more of it.

AustinMan · Answer

You heard wrong. Men have very widely diverse refractory periods. It can range from a minute to a day or two. It has nothing to do with the quality of the preceding orgasm.

Tdieseler · Answer

Quite the opposite... means he's ready for the next round.

ThomasTKay · Answer

I've had this happen many times. If anything, it means that it was an amazing orgasm and the sex was out of this world good. I have stayed inside many times after only to start sliding and go fully rock hard again and ultimately cum inside again. Guys have a refractory period but it can vary from several minutes to many hours depending on how horny he is as well as his body. Sometimes it's just an erection and other times he can cum another time or two whereas at other times, he will go soft and not be interested again for half a day. But seeing your naked body there and feeling you can certainly accelerate his recovery, especially if the sex and his ultimate ejaculation inside you were amazing and sexy at the very thought afterward.

On_the_other_hand · Answer

A guy can easily get hard again in 20 minutes.

klpic · Answer

Your in your early 20, s so I would say normal. Enjoy it whilst you can.

honestmind · Answer

No, that means the sex was really good Only time that happens to me is if the sex was amazing

Johnagain · Answer

NO! It DOESN'T mean he was not satisfied... smh

mikee2020 · Answer

no it means your ass is in trouble ,, round 2

Wise4myage · Answer

Consider yourself lucky and keep riding him till you orgasm as many times as you want.

19vetteman91 · Answer

No my dear that means just the opposite , you turn him on big time!

nousername26 · Answer

No i'm the same way after i've pleasured myself after say 10-15 mins .. I'm ready to go again... your man sounds the same...

jasco · Answer

Some guys just know how to hit a reset buttom on themselves and make them hard again some guy's can't i can for a certain amount of time about 3 depending on the first orgasm

Sweetpuppy86 · Answer

its normal i can easily do it 3 times in a short period

Twalli · Answer

You can get hard fairly quickly again, but it is very hard to cum.

vlx-na · Answer

20 to 30 minutes is normal refractory period for healthy men. It is a little tiring to have sex like this multiple times in a row, but when we really like a girl - we just want to. Be happy.

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Ahh no. Every guy is different when it comes to recovery times. I could have went another round if given the chance. Lol.

OddBeMe · Answer

Younger guys experience this often, as I did late teens. It’s probably something to do with control, not whether he liked it. We’re guys. We always like it.