I can’t help but get a little upset?

So hubby has erection problems. He woke up this morning hard and I’m like what you dreaming about. Bondage! He dreamed I was in a sex swing and everything. That’s fine and I almost tackled him but one I was tired and two I have literally been on top of him and he’s gone flat. I’ve also been sucking him and him go flat. I’ve asked his fantasies many times and he’s never once been able to say that he even has any. I just rolled over and went back to sleep. You and your dream can suck it.
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He finally tackled me today 🥴 I guess he couldn’t wait any longer
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  • Sounds like he needs a visit to the doc to check his testosterone and hormones levels, plenty of men with erectile dysfunction could get it fix if they actually tried going to an expert.

    On the fetish part, maybe he feels ashamed of what he likes and that's why he doesn't communicate, try telling him you're accepting of whatever he likes and have an honest conversation about that, but not only what he likes, but also tell him what you like, that might push him to be more honest with you

    • I have!

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  • You're wrong for being upset. The fact he goes flat when having sex doesn't mean he's not attracted: It's an issue, and if you love him, you should be more supportive. I don't mean you should just have sex whenever he feels like it, because obviously you have to want sex too, but saying "my husband and his dream can suck it" is not nice of you. He has a problem, and you're supposed to be the love of his life

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  • it went flat. are you sure you didn't suck all the blood out you filthy vampire.

  • he needs to lose some weight or you won't be riding him much longer

  • Jess you posts ate always good for a laugh 🤣🤣🤣

  • You know that there are doctors who can treat his erectile disfunction...
    You both should seek sexual therapy with a specialist so that you can have a wonderful marital sexual life...

  • How old is your husband? If this is happening on a regular basis, then you should encourage him to see a doctor.

    • He has pills for erection but never takes them

    • LOL😜

  • I fully agree with @guardian45. For me, an erection is 95% mental thing. If I am mentally not ready, then the hydraulics won't work. When my imagination drifts off during masturbation, I lose the erection. That happens regardless if it is inside the sex toy.

  • You just need to communicate more. If your not sexually compatible you will need to go to counseling

  • Okay. I see a HUGE PROBLEM here, and its NOT his ED!

    He has demonstrated his ED is NOT a physical problem, but a mental one.

    As a guy who has had ED, and as it was for me, yours is a problem of clear, open, honest, NON-JUDGMENTAL COMMUNICATION by BOTH of you!

  • Sorry...

  • What you want exackly from him?

  • You was should suck it while sit on his face , I could work I think.

    • It could work * sorry lol